Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

My husband and I are going away for our anniversary, and I am looking for ideas for a romantic gift waiting for us when we get to the hotel.

I know a lot of hotels offer chocolate covered strawberries and champagne, but my husband doesn't like either, so anyother ideas that I can request the hotel to do?

Thanks

2007-07-29 08:12:21 · 4 answers · asked by Reba 6 in Marriage & Divorce

mate might be cheating, need to know for sure

2007-07-29 08:10:42 · 1 answers · asked by jules 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married with kids, can my husband say that my name can not be put on the deed? don't I have the right to have my name on it? heading for Divorce, and I think he's trying to trick me!

2007-07-29 08:09:35 · 18 answers · asked by l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

..gift a special girl has given you for your birthday? (i' not talking about anything sexual...so forget it)

2007-07-29 08:08:36 · 16 answers · asked by rave_runner 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband will get frustrated in coversations that we have, just two days ago he got frustrated and was saying "F" this and that. And he will say F*** You. When i ask him to stop talking to me like this he says no. Then like two days later he's all over me telling me he loves me wanting to make love.

Now I want to know, why doesn't he care when i ask him to stop cursing at me? AND how can he come to me fliritng wanting sex. I'm extreemly confused, one mintue i'm being flirted with and he tells me he loves me and the next is saying **** you and telling me to shut up. Please help me to understand what is going on.

2007-07-29 08:06:06 · 10 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-29 08:02:40 · 6 answers · asked by Sweetbpecan 2 in Weddings

I want to come up with a fun name for my girls, but Im having a hard time coming up with anything. All I've gotten so far is Bridal Gang, Bride's Posse, Pink Platoon, but nothing real great... got any other ideas?

2007-07-29 07:55:18 · 4 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Weddings

Well I'm down to some little stuff in the planning process, Yay! I talked to our DJ, whom is a good friend of ours, and he said that I should get a list of what music and when to play it, well the problem is I don't know for which parts of the ceremony to have music for. So I need to know the order of music, I guess, which parts of the ceremony and any ideas for the music that generally plays during those parts? I already know about the reception music, such as the first dance and garter toss but what else? Cake cutting music? Bouquet toss? and ANYTHING else would be greatly appreciated! I've only been to one big wedding and it was a catholic wedding so it was verrrry long, but I was like 10 years old. Please help!! Thanks to all answers in advance with much appreciation!! : )

2007-07-29 07:54:24 · 2 answers · asked by PennyLane 2 in Weddings

what would happen to you?

2007-07-29 07:53:27 · 9 answers · asked by Stephanie C 1 in Family

my fiance drinks only on a rare occansional and about to be a major *** and lie to my mom trying tell me i dont know what i am talking about which is not true i love him and can't lose him as my fianice but i need help he doesnt lie to me but how can i tell him to be honest with my mom he doesn't like and he lies to her i hate this i dont want to leave him i want to try to get him counslering but he thinks their quaks and i think the real issue is that my mom and him think a lot alike i never told her and he never told her should how would she of found out he was a reocverying aclholic and maybe i made a mistake of let him drinks but he only does once a month and only a beer is that wrong it isnt out of control. but i am afriad my family is about to kick him out and do i go with him or stay home i really need advice

2007-07-29 07:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by ladylynx26 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Going home to a wife and two kids coming home from work and paying bills, boring everyday, or the life of an undercover operative with no string attached not knowing weither he next day will be his last.

2007-07-29 07:51:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We've haven't been friends for long but I just can't stand her, her whole presence just puts me off. She makes me feel so depressed.

She's very manipulative and always wants to get her way even though it would jeopadize other people's hapiness. She's mean and doesn't think before she speaks.

She makes jokes which she thinks sre funny but arent but when we do it to her it's not funny???????

My other friend told her what was up and she said that she was going to take a break from the group, which she did for less than a day and then she came back and now she acts like there's nothing wrong and like we are all best friends.
I really don't like being around and i think i've made it pretty obvious, but the girl just cant leave it's like she doesn't want to!!!

2007-07-29 07:51:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mother and i just had a big fight and i feel horrible about it. let's just say that i was arrogant, over-critical and very judgemental. my mother was very hurt, and i woke up this morning to see she had left the house for some alone-time(she told my brother this), saying she'd be back in the evening. she has never ever done this before.

i feel like a horrible daughter..

how can i show her i am truly sorry and make things better?

2007-07-29 07:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by hiramiato 1 in Family

I called my brother this guy I like who happens to be my best friend but I called him this guys name errr OMG what do I do??

2007-07-29 07:47:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf & I are having problems w/ our sex life. He's only 25 & doesn't like having sex as much as i do(I'm 20) I have tried everything from wearing sexy little costumes to buying sex books but still complains that he can't keep up so now we go almost a month w/o it. I hate it! I've asked him if it has anything to do w/ me but he assures me I am perfect & he just doesn't feel like it sometimes. Last friday, he told me I should find sum1 to have sex w/ & that he will b perfectly ok w/ it as long I let him know. I can't stand the thought of being with another man then coming home and start to hug and kiss him as if nothing happened. It would feel a little too awkward. What should I do? Go through with his idea or try to make our sex life better? I love him more than anything but I don't want to end up like those couples that don't ever have sex.

2007-07-29 07:46:16 · 7 answers · asked by Mother of a wonderful baby girl! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister died and wanted the whole day off with pay where do i stand on this

2007-07-29 07:46:04 · 18 answers · asked by TRACY D 1 in Family

The girl I like has been in a lot of bad relationships with guys who are complete assholes. She is a very sensitive person and an amazing person that has been hurt alot. She says thats she is about ready to give up on relationships because she is tired of getting hurt.

I am not an asshole, I am very respectfull, have good morals and have been told I have a good personality

How do I make her see that I am for real, that I am not an asshole like those other guys?

PLease help me.

2007-07-29 07:41:19 · 12 answers · asked by I am Noodles! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 07:37:31 · 14 answers · asked by pottie 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy ive liked for the longest time is showing some interest but idk what it means. he once called me a lezbo just to be playin ,i said you wish. an then he said no im glad you like me. its like wtf? cause he doesnt like make a move or anything. just need some advice. should i make the move or just wait?

2007-07-29 07:33:48 · 3 answers · asked by diamond a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 07:29:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love country, but my future husband doesn't. So that means I can't use Rascal Flatts or Big and Rich, which I really wanted to use. He's more into the lesser known songs, and definitely not country.

Any suggestions? We're cutting it close to the wedding, so any help would be appreciated!

2007-07-29 07:26:44 · 14 answers · asked by bemilyjane 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend is going to jail for possibly two years. We have been together for seven, he has cheated on me so many times and he hangs out all night. We no longer live together because of our fighting, eventhough I think he just wants his space. We have a four yr old son and I have helped in raising his other children. I do know that now he needs me more than anything but he still hangs out all night and treats me as a baby mother instead of a spouse of seven yrs. I am fed up with trying to give my all to him and I just feel that I cant make him happy. My question is should I leave him or should I stick by his side through this time. There are two sides to every story and I am sure that he can come up with complaints about me as well, but I am just tired of this. Would I be wrong to leave him now ? Should I be a strong woman and take care of my man while he is away and pray for a change? I have not talked to him in four days and I know he already feels like I dont have his back?

2007-07-29 07:26:37 · 31 answers · asked by jwilliamsinvestments 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm between a rock and a hard place here. The boy I love I'd been with for 3 1/2 years but he got scared that I was too good for him and left me, crushing me completely. The boyfriend I have now is utterly sweet but has emotional swings and gets so insecure where he'll upset me but will apologize profusely for it. He says he loves me and is so kind and I like all his friends and they like me... but I still love my exboyfriend. There's just that insecurity that I'll be doing the wrong thing by going back to him. Things like that that I've heard about never seem to turn out well. What's your view on the situation?

2007-07-29 07:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 07:25:33 · 11 answers · asked by diamondlilgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

what is it about virgins that make guys want to find them so? they are not good lovers because one has to teach them most everything, they learn very fast especially if the guy good with the deflowering.

gal's on the other had is always on the prowl for a lover who give's her pleasure, do men find it difficult to satisfy women sexually? especially the one's who have had kid's ?

now a day it appears women are settling for men with an overflow of money because, when the man peaked out sexually, (which is not too long after their 1st sexual contact) she can use the money as a distraction. everytime she get's a new toy or diamond is like the orgasm she never had.

no sex before marriage. only have sex when you ready to pro-create. not bad idea's really but were they cover ups for relationship's to last longer sexually? we know that once you start enjoying sex stopping is the hardest thing. do u think a school (sex training) would help. why, there's every other school right?

2007-07-29 07:14:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 07:13:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

omfg my grampa said i cant get a hamster at the ketchen table i broke down and started crying and still crying he said he dont want noo pets! so i just kept hitting my head agance the door but now i wanan get a pencle and stab my self! ..... my grandma said i can have it but grampa no ...i hate my life i feel like shi*t

~~~~~~ ill just colect my tears in a cup ~~~~~

2007-07-29 07:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so, i got this offline message from josh [my best fried who i like] that says i think i like you...and im not sure if its real. We kinda have this thing where we joke around alot, and we kind of kiddingly say we like eachother cuz were bff. But idk if he was serious this time? Or playign a trick??? Help!

2007-07-29 07:11:47 · 8 answers · asked by Lyra never lies to ya <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's the deal. I have been with/living with my boyfriend for four years. He has cheated 8-9 times that I am aware of. The last time he was caught, in April, I left for a bit and he begged me to come home and said it would never happen again.
His two oldest kids live with us and since April everything has been good until this past Friday. Last week he took his kids to their mom's to spend a month. Friday he tells me that his friend will be in his hometown so he wants to go see him. I simply asked that he call me when he got there. He said ok.
So by next morning no phone call so I get into his e-mail and find a note telling some girl he will meet her and get a room in a hotel about 2 hours from here, if they hookup. The e-mail also kind of sounded like a blow-off because he told her he lost her number. So anyway I went down by where he works and he was there, said he went out by himself and then went to his job and was on his way home-2:00 in the afternoon. What do I believe?

2007-07-29 07:10:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a teenager and I want to see what older women like in their men and what they don't like. This is an age old question with me and my friends... "How many older women want the same thing?"

2007-07-29 07:08:45 · 7 answers · asked by Jay P 5 in Singles & Dating