what is it about virgins that make guys want to find them so? they are not good lovers because one has to teach them most everything, they learn very fast especially if the guy good with the deflowering.
gal's on the other had is always on the prowl for a lover who give's her pleasure, do men find it difficult to satisfy women sexually? especially the one's who have had kid's ?
now a day it appears women are settling for men with an overflow of money because, when the man peaked out sexually, (which is not too long after their 1st sexual contact) she can use the money as a distraction. everytime she get's a new toy or diamond is like the orgasm she never had.
no sex before marriage. only have sex when you ready to pro-create. not bad idea's really but were they cover ups for relationship's to last longer sexually? we know that once you start enjoying sex stopping is the hardest thing. do u think a school (sex training) would help. why, there's every other school right?
2007-07-29 07:14:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry if this is going to come out wrong, but where do you get your wacky ideas? What books are you reading? I am a man, 43 years old, wouldn't want to waste my time with a virgin, I definitely know how to please and make sure it happens before I get mine, and I'm not anywhere near my peak. Very Very strange question.
2007-07-29 07:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Smith S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so strange, this thing about sexual relationships between men and women. I mean, Dear Abbey, Dr. Phil, ads, all that sort of stuff makes it seam that men lose interest in sex, but women still want it. Of all the couples I have known in my life, it is always the other way around. Which is correct? Maybe women want "lovers" because, according to the Darwinists, that is more likely to ensure the survival of the species. If one man is "shooting blanks", the next one might be furtile.
As to why men seem to prefer virgins, well, let's face it: a woman cannot tell if a man is a virgin at all; merely "experienced" or "inexperienced", but a virgin woman is usually something a man can tell. There is something erotic about being the first. Again, according to the Darwinists, it is a survival of the species situation: a virgin is much more likely to conceive.
As to men being "sick, weido-s", wanting 14-year-old virgins, consider: in history, it was very common for a gal to marry at 14, even 11...Remember Coal Miner's Daughter? She was 14....But, not that long ago, death during delivery of a baby was about the most common cause of death for women.
As to the money part: a survey of why women marry revealed that 9 out of the top 10 reasons a woman marries has to do with money! (You know, income, status, job, house, etc.)
I hope this answers your question...
2007-07-29 07:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might have the wrong idea about women. I know plenty of woman that are not that way inclined, and I personally think the school you mention is slightly... weird.
I also don't know a woman that would want to have a partner who has had kids previously. It's an extremely messy situation to be involved in - no one want to be the 'wicked' step mother.
Money is a factor in all relationships, but there is only a certain amount of gifts that will make any person happy.
2007-07-29 07:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by pukkagent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think all guys want virgins. I don't need an over experienced guy either since I don't like players. Its nice if he knows how to take care of me though
2007-07-29 07:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that I would want a virgin when I get married is because it makes me feel as though she thought enough about the future to wait until she was with the one that she loved, as I shall be doing.
However, if she is not a virgin then no big deal. I would just think that it was special that she waited for me, and i hope that she would feel special at the fact that i waited for her.
2007-07-29 07:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
men seek virgins b/c they are tight and they are able 2 take advantage of them. they dont know much, so you are able 2 plant things in their head and teach them they way u like it.
women seek lovers b/c they want to be loved and they want to be treated like princesses. my boyfriend is a lover and i love him and stay with him just because he makes me feel like im the only woman that matters.
2007-07-29 07:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Some men are real sickos like the one's you see on Dateline & they have these sick fantasies about taking a poor 14 y/o girl's virginty. These dudes are sick and sad!
To the jerk who had the audacity to call me down: I wasn't talking about YOU! Are your shoes pinching your toes ?
2007-07-29 07:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't seek what the hell you just said
Men seek virgins? This is new
2007-07-29 07:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its the fact their unexperienced and their pretty tight down there
2007-07-29 07:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋