Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

I've been married 6 years tomorrow. My husband is 38, I am 25. I consider myself to be attractive (i guess,) I'm about 5'7, big green eyes, red hair, and about a size 8...i know i know, 8 is the new 14 and i am obese by modern standards...whatever.
The point is, we are insanely mismatched when it comes to sex. We are great in bed...wild actually...but the problem is getting him there.
if i could i would be having sex every second of every day but he is a once a week...sometimes even once every two weeks guy, and its driving me bonkers!
I've tried walking around in my lingerie, i've tried walking around naked, i've tried subtle, i've tried obvious, i've even tried "get the hell up and F**K me!!!" but nothing works!
its on his time or not at all. I've even thought about just turning him down for a while so I can shift the power, so to speak, in my favour...but I cant, by the time he is in the mood I am so insanely craving it that I cant.
So, Help! I am running out of ideas!

2007-07-29 09:40:59 · 31 answers · asked by smith 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think its interesting to find out what is the most attractive about girls?

2007-07-29 09:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been together for a year. yesterday i looked at his web history and noticed that he was on a sex site and he was seeking women,couple(m&F),lesbian,and group sex. im already mad bc hes on the site and i want a divorce ,and is it possible that hes gay

2007-07-29 09:35:19 · 16 answers · asked by jazzy360 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-29 09:33:36 · 1 answers · asked by no name 1 in Singles & Dating

From a guy's point of view,, we seem to associate that the mood,, moody behaviour on the part of women is directly related to the PMS, that time of the month. I understand that it can be very painful but is the grumpy mood directly associated to that particular time of month,, three to five days or do women get upset and in a bad mood because it is caused by pain or both? Ladies, give me some of your personal views on this. By the way, I actually feel bad that you suffer such days, month after month after month. Believe me, you have my respect, not any pitty at all, so please don't take it wrong.

2007-07-29 09:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by jorge e 5 in Singles & Dating

its my girlfriends 19th birthday in a few weeks, i had £40 to spend from argos (with my argos card) only as i am skint at the moment because we have jus moved out together this month and we have little spare money, weve been together 18 months, is there any ideas from anyone about a birthday present, yet no cliche


p.s i m aware it depends on the type of girl but i would appriciate ideas. many thanks

2007-07-29 09:29:38 · 17 answers · asked by jonny h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

by the way ive got myself a bit drunk {1st time ive been drunk since my teens,im not a heavy drinker, not that it matters a f@ ck to 4get how i feel about myself, ive a wondeful wife n kids who deserve better than me,i hate myself what about you are u happy? be honest as i dont care any more i can take the truth as i know what and i am, im also too much of a coward to end my life anyway i wiouldnt want to hurt my wife and kids as they deserve so much more than what i can offer, dunno why im doing this just wondering if im alone in this feeling{ by the way i love them so muckh im drinking without their knowledge today as im feeling very low and down at the moment, hope im making sense as ive been drinking today to drown how how im feeling and hide it from my wife n kids} dunno what im asking now just say what u want, hope youre happier than me anyway , i dony usually drink hope is is a one off. still a loser though, always will be,i havent even got a car and im in my mid 30.s

2007-07-29 09:29:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met someone over a month ago. We spent three weeks together living in the same city, going out, having fun, we slept together, kissed etc, went off places together and it was lovely. But then I moved away. A week later, we met up in an inbetween city and had a great weekend. We left it with him saying, come and see me, but I was very hesitant about being enthusiastic because I get scared. I think I really like him, but how do I broach the subject of whether we're 'together' and won't see anyone else, especially seeing as we're at a distance. I think we're both shy of talking about it, but I have no idea how you establish that you are a couple, because in the past it's always been obvious because of being around the person all the time. Help!!! What do I do/say? Or should I forget it?

2007-07-29 09:28:15 · 5 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my boyfriend thru a friend and we met once before we got together. But i broke up with him 4 months ago and then he finnaly won me back a month ago. But since then our relatonship has been on the phone. He is the best boyfriend i ever had and he is damn near perfect but we have not seen each other since that once.

For the past three days he has been trying to get to my house. He keeps getting lost because he never asked me exaclty where i lived. He only knows the main street. PLus he has no cell phone. I asked if i should pick him up but he said some bullshit that was not a yes.

Should i ask him again because i am through and i know he really wants to see me but i can't be in a realtionship where i dont see him...should I tell him????

2007-07-29 09:26:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 09:22:53 · 8 answers · asked by lulu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been shy for years and years now, and don't know at all how to behave in social situations, and always feel anxious around people. Can anyone give some advice -- any advice -- on how to slowly get rid of this shyness? I know counseling and medication can help, but I'd really like some unique answers here. Hopefully I'll get some... Thanks.

2007-07-29 09:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by 8teph 2 in Friends

A guy I recently met through a friend is a super nice and caring guy. I spent a weekend out at the lake with a group of friends, he was there. I live pretty far away, so I don't get to see them often. When I got home I wanted to write him a note thanking him for being so nice to me and making me feel welcome with a bunch of new people. To my surprise he wrote back:

"haha um i dont know bout me being super nice but u are like for sure the nicest person i've ever met and i hope u come back sometime...the lake was awesome but it wouldnt have been as fun if u wouldnt have been there but i guess take care and maybe i'll see again sometime"

What is that supposed to mean? Does he like me, or is it just him being friendly? I wrote him a message back on Wed saying thanks and that I might be back in the area soon, but I haven't gotten any reply back which makes me think he is just being friendly and nothing more.

What do you think of the situation?! I am confused! Thanks - AW

2007-07-29 09:18:40 · 16 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancei and I are going on a cruise in October and want to get married the day before we leave on the ship. We want to find someone to perform the wedding on the beach. It will just be the two of us.

2007-07-29 09:15:23 · 2 answers · asked by thumper050564 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im so hurt.

2007-07-29 09:15:19 · 11 answers · asked by Shannon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just any radon stuff thats gonna help :D
thnx

2007-07-29 09:14:27 · 5 answers · asked by ?~ 2 in Friends

he know claims that he is moving to Texas (we live in wisconsin)and wants to take her with him.She has been with him since she was 5 and she is 11 now.I definetly don't want her to go and because I have custody of her.We never went to court.He lies so much and I don't believe him.I'm so pissed about this I did'nt go to work today.What should i do???????

2007-07-29 09:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by sassy 1 3 in Family

My man and I kissed before we were married. We knew we'd make it to the alter, and hoped we'd be together forever...and the situation presented itself..so we took it. Well, one morning, I looked in the mirror and there was proof of our get together on my lip. I didn't have any make-up to cover it, and it was..though tiny, noticeable. Well, after me and my would be said bye, mom and I went home, and she asked about it. I denied it, because I knew what HER reaction would be. But she cautioned that he could still withdraw his marriage proposal(as if word would get out). The mark went away after a bit, and we got married. But mom was a bit shocked when she saw the mark and told me I was acting like a *****(she only implied the word). But I grew up in the west...where a kiss is usually just a kiss, and it's a normal sign of affection between a man and a woman...when they're dating. I know it's a sexual gesture, but to me, it can also be an intimate affectionate one. Is the latter part true

2007-07-29 09:11:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 09:09:41 · 12 answers · asked by vwallwood 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to come up with as many creative reasons I love my girlfriend and I need ideas please. I'm trying to come up with 365 reasons I love her. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up and I thought that I'd make a cute little book with 365 reasons why I love her. I know this is something personal and I obviously know why I love her, but I just thought some cute creative ideas from someone else would be nice too. But please help me out and share your stories. Please be creative in your answers and give it some thought. I'm already to 100, so I only need about 265 more to go. Haha.

ps.
i'm a girl, and im 16
if that helps anyyy

pleasee & thankyou (:

2007-07-29 09:09:39 · 1 answers · asked by britttttt ! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

First off, I am not ordained. If I was just anybody, I could get a random ordainment from a group that doesn't care but I will not do such a thing. I graduated with a bachelors in Pastoral Ministry and am working on my MAR in Church Ministries. I consider ordainment too important a thing to just get from some group of people who just give them away. I also want to be ordained by the church I eventually am working for. The thing is, I have two friends that want me to marry them, i.e. perform the ceremony. Is there anyway, I can still marry them without getting ordained? If it helps, they are getting married in Florida.

2007-07-29 09:08:58 · 16 answers · asked by docboy2u 2 in Weddings

i now have a good job pays well but i'm so not happy with it. ..

i rather have a part time or free lance work so that i can come as an when.

the thing is my parents totally disapprove if i were to quit this current job.. all my life i have been doing things that i hated .. eg i love arts but instead i had to do business related work.. and now thinking back of all the what if's.. will i be happier if i had choose my interest?

am i the only weird one that does not want to have a stable kob???

2007-07-29 09:08:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok my ex-best frind morgan thinx i'm going out with my frind travis and shes mad at me but the thing is were not going out and morgan told travis that i said we were going out but i didnt say that wat do i do and if ur answering just to get points dont even bother answering

2007-07-29 09:07:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a mid-twenties guy.

Never had any girlfriend or any friends. I'm insecure about my height and weight - I'm 5'4" and skinny. People tend to see me as a kid.

How can I learn to accept that I won't ever find a girl?

I am handsome and girls are attracted to me, but since I'm short they don't want me

2007-07-29 09:06:04 · 9 answers · asked by florida 1 in Friends

I am currently in a relationship now but when I was in a lesbian relationship I messed around with my boss and he was engaged at the time and because of us having sex he lost his job but we still remained friends but now he's married and I'm with a guy now but things don't seem to be going my way with the person I'm in a relationship with and recently I saw my ex boss a few days ago and we went to have lunch together and we started to have those old feelings again and he wanted to have sex with me but I denied him that but It's really been on my mind to do this cause I really care about him alot and he asked me to be his mistress and I'm considering do this cause I'm not happy at home and we were together it feel right like we belong together he's 43 and I'm 29 what should i do

2007-07-29 09:05:12 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Michigan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Two days ago my girlfriend gave the news she is pregnant. I had always told her that I never had the desire to be a father. Obviously the birth control method she was using was not so effective and she became pregnant. She told me she will have the baby, I'd never ask her to have an abortion. I have rejected her and the child, I told her that I love her very much, but I'm not willing to raise that child or to give her any child support. I think she is the one who wants the child, not me. I made this very clear to her. She called me cold harted and insensitive. I love her very much, but I don't think I'll be a good father. We were planning to move in together. Everything was going right until she got pregnant. She asked me if I was going to be part of that child's life, and I think I'm willing to visit him once in awhile. I wish this wouldn't be happening right now. I know this will be very difficult for her, but a future with me is a future without children.

2007-07-29 09:03:00 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-29 09:02:35 · 10 answers · asked by twitcher 1 in Family

I'm 14, and I have a girlfriend.

Well, as much of a girlfriend as you can have without being able to drive . . . but thats besides the point.

We we're going "out" for a while, and we we're pretty close. She gave me a long talk about never leaving her, because she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me.

It seemed really heartfelt, but now I don't know.

I went on a family vacation for like a week, and when I got back, I asked her out. She declined, saying she wanted to go out with friends. I was fine with that, and a couple of days later I asked her out again, and I got the same reply.

It's now like a month and a half later, we don't talk like at all, and I was wondering, do you think I should break up with her? This is my frist real relationship, and I need help on what to do.

Could someone help me please?

2007-07-29 09:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife’s only sexual experience has been with me. Is it to expected that she will, eventually, desire to be with another man? We’ve been together for 10 years (married for 7). I have been open and honest with her about my concerns. She shuns such conversations. I have been putting forth a great effort at keeping the sex spicy. But I wonder if through my exposing her to porno, fueled or introduced a desire to be with another man, rather than strengthen our bond.

Anyone have any thoughts or experience in this area?

2007-07-29 09:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 5ft 6, Short crew cut, light tan skin, eyeglasses, I keep a light beard. I dress casual, button up shirts or T shirts, jeans, slacks at work. Tips? please help, Thanks!

2007-07-29 09:00:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is giving a girl a piggyback ride while goin out with someone flirting???

2007-07-29 08:57:47 · 13 answers · asked by martha s 2 in Singles & Dating