What's The Deal?

Question

I'm 14, and I have a girlfriend.

Well, as much of a girlfriend as you can have without being able to drive . . . but thats besides the point.

We we're going "out" for a while, and we we're pretty close. She gave me a long talk about never leaving her, because she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me.

It seemed really heartfelt, but now I don't know.

I went on a family vacation for like a week, and when I got back, I asked her out. She declined, saying she wanted to go out with friends. I was fine with that, and a couple of days later I asked her out again, and I got the same reply.

It's now like a month and a half later, we don't talk like at all, and I was wondering, do you think I should break up with her? This is my frist real relationship, and I need help on what to do.

Could someone help me please?

But if I need to break up . . . how do I do it gently?

Answer 1

you're too young to be in a committing relationship...things change over time believe me....and maybe your girlfriend realized it? you'll move on nywho within a few months because things don't last for a long time at this age...been there done that...so yea if you still want to be with her...tell her you want to talk to her...and talk it out...tell her you want to go out with her...and why she's acting in this way....

Answer 2

Sorry dude, but it seems like you're already broken up if it's 6 weeks and you haven't seen her and hardly talk to her. She probably found someone else - move on.

Answer 3

she might be cheating on you, find out and then cheat on her

edit: over the phone or IM

Answer 4

sounds as though she has already dumped you ( sorry)