I am currently in a relationship now but when I was in a lesbian relationship I messed around with my boss and he was engaged at the time and because of us having sex he lost his job but we still remained friends but now he's married and I'm with a guy now but things don't seem to be going my way with the person I'm in a relationship with and recently I saw my ex boss a few days ago and we went to have lunch together and we started to have those old feelings again and he wanted to have sex with me but I denied him that but It's really been on my mind to do this cause I really care about him alot and he asked me to be his mistress and I'm considering do this cause I'm not happy at home and we were together it feel right like we belong together he's 43 and I'm 29 what should i do
2007-07-29 09:05:12 · 5 answers · asked by Miss Michigan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should run far away from this married man. If you have sex with him, you will be committing adultery. Adultery is a sin that has dire consequences.
If you are not married to the man you have at home, you should move out. You are committing the sin called fornication, which also has dire consequences.
Sex is for married people only. If you have sex with any one other than your husband, you are disrespecting yourself and them.
2007-07-29 09:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both were involved in him losing his job because of your privates, hes married for gods sake! your being in his life could be another potential problem for him, be his saviour and keep your panties on. Dont get on the guilt trip, maybe hes assumed you will be there for him coz u cost him a job. You dont owe him. Work on your own relationship before you become someone who always brings bad luck and messes up relationships.
2007-07-29 16:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by wickedwackywack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't love a big pain
you want the guy you cant have.
The guy you have you don't want
The woman that he is with you want to be .
I feel for you , it sounds so easy to say sure you have what I need and I want what you have to offer , But think of his wife and your partner do they deserve the pain that could come of anyone finding out about your digressions.
******************I wont say don't do it ********** .
Ill just say be careful your an adult you can do as you see fit.
just way up your choices before you have to live with a consequence that you don't deserve,
2007-07-29 19:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he only wants a freak on the side, If i wrer you i woundn't go for it ,because he's only gonna want you when things get board at home.
2007-07-29 16:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by crappiekat1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up!!!!!
2007-07-29 16:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by Luv2RIDE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋