How do you establish a relationship?

Question

I met someone over a month ago. We spent three weeks together living in the same city, going out, having fun, we slept together, kissed etc, went off places together and it was lovely. But then I moved away. A week later, we met up in an inbetween city and had a great weekend. We left it with him saying, come and see me, but I was very hesitant about being enthusiastic because I get scared. I think I really like him, but how do I broach the subject of whether we're 'together' and won't see anyone else, especially seeing as we're at a distance. I think we're both shy of talking about it, but I have no idea how you establish that you are a couple, because in the past it's always been obvious because of being around the person all the time. Help!!! What do I do/say? Or should I forget it?

Answer 1

If you want a relationship, you should simply talk to him. Otherwise, he will see you as a friend with benefits.

Answer 2

First of all it's only been over a month you didn't say a year or two. You moved away, so now move on and find someone else. Good luck

Answer 3

Be friends before you can demand exclusivity, or you'll scare him away, remember this is not your past relationship, do not poison it with your past experiences. dont give him too much *** though! water this plant with H2o not some other liquid. Let it grow, if its good it will be good.

Answer 4

if you intend to see him as often as you can then you can safely say you are going together!
if you intend to see him only when u run in to each other then you should let it go...
i would say from what you said that you're a starting couple

Answer 5

long distance is tough. i'm already on my third relationship and it's killing me all over again. all i can say is its going to take a LOT of effort! but good luck!