I dont knw what to do about our relationship ...Please answer!!!!?

Question

I met my boyfriend thru a friend and we met once before we got together. But i broke up with him 4 months ago and then he finnaly won me back a month ago. But since then our relatonship has been on the phone. He is the best boyfriend i ever had and he is damn near perfect but we have not seen each other since that once.

For the past three days he has been trying to get to my house. He keeps getting lost because he never asked me exaclty where i lived. He only knows the main street. PLus he has no cell phone. I asked if i should pick him up but he said some bullshit that was not a yes.

Should i ask him again because i am through and i know he really wants to see me but i can't be in a realtionship where i dont see him...should I tell him????

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I know that if I tell him he will be really really sad becuz he really cares and dones not want to loose me again and i dont want him to be sad.

Answer 1

Sorry but he's giving you lame excuses. It's a joke relationship to him or some way to pass the time. I've never heard of anyone getting lost three times.

Answer 2

Well if hes that good of i bf then you should try to make it work, you dont want to dump him then 2 years down the road regret it, a good person is hard to find and its not getting any easier you should hang on to him as long as possible and then meet him someday, and give him better directions and tell him you will stand outside infront of your house so he can see you or something

Answer 3

Uh. Are you okay? Give him your address and send him a map. Or meet at a local Starbuck's or better yet, go to the main street he knows and flag him down when he does what to see you.

If you cannot compromise, might as well break off. Seems like it's nothing serious at this point.

Answer 4

man, you sound really young or naive. I'm sure you have a big heart and it is being spent on the wrong person. If he really wanted to get to you believe me he would find a way. You already know what to do. Do it and don't waste your youth on him. If you start allowing yourself to be let down you won't give yourself whay you deserve. You deserve the best nothing less. Take the best its yours.

Answer 5

Tell him to meet you at a street corner near the main street, get in the car and show him where you live.

Answer 6

Its not your job to locate or transport, or dictate to a bf. Chill and get a hobby u like. Forget the headaches. Real bfs' can find the gfs house!

Answer 7

gir l what you need to do is follow your heart and jus for some advice you need to find someone who has time for you and will do anything to pleasse you not someone who can TRYYY to please you over the phone and if he really wants to see you but he doesnt want you to pick him up then that just shows how bad he wants to see you which to me he isnt trying hard, so those are all the signs of him not taking you seriously so find someone who has time for you, respects you, and someone you can actually see, and someone who wont hurt you or make up phony excuses to why he cant see you.

Answer 8

Yes you need to tell him. Dont be stuck in a relationship that you aren't satisfied with! Just talk to him and be honest!

Answer 9

has he ever heard of a taxi cab you don't live on another planet it cant be tat hard to find sounds to me like he is stringing you along and how do you know he is prefect if you have only met him once!!!!

Answer 10

if he really wants to see you, as you say, and that will satisfy you, then what is the problem? Email the boy a map !