I'm between a rock and a hard place here. The boy I love I'd been with for 3 1/2 years but he got scared that I was too good for him and left me, crushing me completely. The boyfriend I have now is utterly sweet but has emotional swings and gets so insecure where he'll upset me but will apologize profusely for it. He says he loves me and is so kind and I like all his friends and they like me... but I still love my exboyfriend. There's just that insecurity that I'll be doing the wrong thing by going back to him. Things like that that I've heard about never seem to turn out well. What's your view on the situation?
2007-07-29 07:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay with ur current bf. ur bf of 3 1/2 yrs left u bcoz ur too good for him, believe me there was something else. it doesn't take time to understand if ur too good for him, he did it after 3 1/2 yrs. he used u for 3 1/2 yrs. i will say with current bf, give him more support, make him believe in u. make him feel comfortable.
2007-07-29 07:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel like this u have someone that loves u but ur not sure if u love him but u are happy at this point so ur willing to give up ur happiness for someone u know loves u but u also know is not ready to be with u b/c if he was he would not have left u in the first place so look at it like this u can stay with the guy that loves u and make u happy or u could leave him for the guy that loves u but also loves to hurt u think about it he only wants u b/c u have somebody as soon as he gets u it will be by by babe again and then u will be alone
2007-07-29 14:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let things go naturally. I personally think you should do what makes you happy the most, but also think of the other. I think you should stay with the man you have right now... You should cherish what you have right now, and just learn from the past relationship. The guy you have now sounds really sweet, and i think the best thing for you to do is to stick with him. Just do what you think is the best, for both you and the other person.
2007-07-29 14:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sugurx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the situation you describe, neither. An emotionally unstable person is not a good partner; neither is one who hurt you. Remember, 9 times out of 10, these patterns will persist. Find someone new...
2007-07-29 14:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is to take another one because my mom is so insecure and it is a pain. So if you want to feel that I think that you should take another one.:)
2007-07-29 14:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your question but your headline. and my answer is neither. don't really care for the reasoning. One love you and you don't and the other hurt you. enough said.
2007-07-29 14:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by lizarddog01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋