Family & Relationships - 29 July 2007

2007-07-29 04:08:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She does'nt want me to work on a farm. She wants us to live with her mother. She wants things that i can not afford. She forces me to wear the colthes I don't like. I can't vist friends. she even told my boss to fire me. She always wants all my money. She always buys things for herself and uses the change for things for me.

2007-07-29 04:06:53 · 30 answers · asked by rocky r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Must have job and do all housework and pay half the bills?

2007-07-29 04:05:50 · 7 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever realized that by asking somebody out on a date, you're essentially just telling them that you want to have sex with them? The sex might not happen if you don't end up liking eachother, but that is the point of the whole process. Especially if you don't know the girl/guy well. In that case it's even truer. "I don't really know if I like you, but you definitely look good enough to have sex with."

I don't know, my friends and I really get a kick out of thinking about that.

2007-07-29 04:03:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My male friend who is my ex boyfriend and i have agreed to have sex (we were together in high school for about a month). we've been together physically several times since but nothings ever eventuated.
So we agreed to have sex (we're both virgins), but he seems to be putting it off. We decided this about a month ago, and he "never has time" or he's always just oh so busy, but he has time to go out with his uni mates every friday and saturday night. He has time to go out with a group of 'awesome' girls from university because they're so so 'awesome' and he doesnt miss the chance to make sure that i overhear that fact, but he has no time to have sex :S He says he'll call to let me know when he's free. But he doesn't call. I dont want anything more than just sex from him and he knows that, so why is he messing with me. Come on, its SEX and he's a guy. what's going on here?!
ps:this guy doesnt have feelings for me, he's had so much time and chances to ask me out but never has

2007-07-29 03:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by ambience212 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom is moving out secretly from her husbands home into my home. There is today left, and tomarrow she is moving out. She still is in her husbands home and her nerves are a wreck. She has packed boxes, and also separated stuff secretly. She has to do it while he is at work. Any advice you might give her for her nerves or whatever?

2007-07-29 03:52:36 · 8 answers · asked by tickertock 3 in Marriage & Divorce

To give a more detailed outlook of this rather disturbing situation it was my then 5 year old daughter who told me mommy had a friend. I read through my then wife's journal and saw she was cheating with an ex bf. We were married almost 4 years and together almost 7. My youngest daughter was 2 at the time. Now 2+ years later she still lives with the "man." He is no man in my book for doing this. My daughters went from living with me one day to living with him the next. There was no transition. My girls tell him they love him, but they don't understand what happened. I feel that my ex has corrupted their minds. I do not approve of cheating in any fashion. How do I tell them about this? When should I? They are now 7 and 5. I don't want them to feel as if this is appropriate behavior.

2007-07-29 03:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a virgin and I'm proud of that but I'm normal like every other human and I get sexualy excited - but when I do and I act on that overwhelming sensation (like almost going all the way with my boyfriend and seeing things for the first time. him touching me in certain places sorry for TMI seeing body parts that are ment to be hidden) I feel very bad about myself and feel like my day is ruined because I did something that a good christain girl wouldn't do and also like I can't look at my family. (I'm almost 20 and I'm going to college in August)

2007-07-29 03:48:57 · 19 answers · asked by tryingtolive 1 in Singles & Dating

I had two best friends growing up. We'll call one Ann and the other Tammy. Ann and I were really close as teenagers. Tammy and I grew closer after Ann went away to college. But we were all close. We sat together in church every week, went out to eat together, threw slumber parties, and shared every secret.

But as time went on and we all left for college, we made new friends. I went to a University I knew no one at, and Ann and Tammy went to the same college. They were roomies for a couple of semesters, even though Ann thought Tammy was annoying and constantly called me to complain.

The thing is, now Tammy is getting married. I was just married a couple of months ago, and had my two sisters as the bridesmaids. She is having her sisters as her bridesmaids... but also Ann.

Should I feel hurt that she's having Ann in her wedding and not me?

2007-07-29 03:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This question is for everyone but i especially like to hear from the guys.
Do you boys fart around girls you like or have a crush on?

I have been friends with this boy for 4 years. He does not know it but i'm really in love with him. He's great but he has gotten so comfortable around me that he farts even when i'm there beside him. He just laughs whenever i try to tell him how rude he is. But i'm really kinda dejected cuz that would mean that he does not like me in any special way. I mean, don't you boys like to impress the girls you like?

Also, how long into a relationship does a boy feel comfortable farting ( or belching, picking nose etc) around his girlfriend?
Strange questions, I know, but i'm really curious. (FYI, i never had a boyfriend). THanks.

2007-07-29 03:44:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theirs a guy that i use to like but not any more but he still likes me but i moved on to these really cute guys and they r so my type but the other guy isnt the one that likes me so id want him likeiing me wat should i do

2007-07-29 03:42:26 · 11 answers · asked by Amber T 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont mean 2 sound insecure but last night my boyfriend spent the night over his cousin house and he told me he would call me as soon as he get over there but 3 hours past and he didnt so my sisters started 2 pump my head up with all this stuff saying he probably having sex with his brothers exgirlfriend at fisrt i didnt let that get 2 me but then it did i was so upset i didnt want 2 jump 2 conclusions but my sisiter pump my head up i dont think he would do anything ilke that but i guess anything can happen i fussed him out last night 4 basically nothing because i dont have any clues but i guess i just gotta trust him because if u dont have trust u dont have nothing and plus i love him i regret letting my sis pump my head up what do u think i should do?

2007-07-29 03:37:41 · 9 answers · asked by tha hottest chick 1 in Singles & Dating

if you really really loved someone and they told you that they wasnt a virgin, would you still marry them?

2007-07-29 03:35:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex is a convicted felon. he went to prison for over a year for child abuse. he went off and married a woman he just met on the internet,. she has children living in the home. i afraid he will start beating the crap out off them like did our boys. what should i do ido??

2007-07-29 03:34:43 · 19 answers · asked by funnylady1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyone fights in a relationship and it is normal that things will be said that are very hurtful. Or is it not?
How much do you tolerate before saying "this guy or girl is a jerk?"

2007-07-29 03:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked this on the knot about asking my guy to marry him and that i want to use my mothers engagement ring. everyone was mean to me when they answered! saying that being engaged was just a status, having my mothers ring was just to show to the rest of the world i was engaged, that i must be immature because i wanted to ask him(i am 35 and he is 34), and that we need to learn how to communicate. well to let you guys know, we have talked about getting married and the only reason he is waiting is to be able to afford a ring. so what i did end up doing is telling him about my moms and he is going to use it to propose to me..when, i have no clue, but at least that is all settled! but can you believe how mean those women were?

2007-07-29 03:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by nytengayle13 4 in Weddings

this would take another 3 months. I am already seeing a girl who knows about this & is in the same situation. Am i headed the right way?

2007-07-29 03:30:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 14- year old girl who needs some answers to my question. i have been feeling weird lately. I feel like my parents don't give me enough attention and i feel like i need a boyfriend. Is it just my hormones or my emotion?

2007-07-29 03:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by janaga11 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently learned that my morning routine is quite different than that of the girls I work with. I was just wondering what some other people did in the morning.

2007-07-29 03:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4 in Family

the girl that i fancie recently wrote she would go out with me if i asked her (see my other question how do i ask her out)
but now she wrote "dunno"
so what do i do? i dont think i have changed between the time she said yes and the time she said dunno
i REALLY like her but i dont wanna sound clingy but i do REALLY want to ask her out lol, what if she thinks im like a desperate puppy? cus im not i just cant explain it im mad about her, maybe im in love??!!

should i ask her out and how!!!!!!!!

2007-07-29 03:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by puzzledsophie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-29 03:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by Lizard 1 in Family

I'm 23 and still a virgin. I refrained from sex because i believe/d that i'll meet my "dream woman" and lose it to her (also being a virgin), basically, to one i would one day marry. But its all looking bleek at the moment and i have doubts that i'll never ever get to find that one person. (as people keep saying "you'll find her, just wait"). Well i just think thats craap now.

Its not that i haven't had any opportunities to lose my virginity, i've had plenty, but turned it down everytime (be with random people, or friends). But i'm getting to know this one person well, and she's a nice person, but i dont see any future with her (as we're both from different castes etc, basically, it'll never work in the long run). Should i take the opportunity now? i really want to but my mind always stops me. i dont want to be in the situation where i'm 32 or so and i cant even "get with" anyone anymore because of my age, and still have my viginity.

mature posts only. no stupidity please.

2007-07-29 03:20:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about 3 yers ago... but i was in shock when i found out he had died this morning i was upset and shocked, but i also wanna support my grandama... i am drifting about and i dnt no what 2 do with myself, is this greiving?

2007-07-29 03:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

I am 14, but turning 15 in about a week. A sophmore in high school.

2007-07-29 03:19:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mate [who is in a relationship] now & again goes with a prostitute [different one each time], but doesnt view this as being unfaithful
as far as he is concerned it is a pure business transaction with no emotions involved; he does however state that it must be a different girl each time or then it starts becoming unfaithful !

I completely disagree with him, and believe he is being unfaithful [and i am sure his girlfriend would as well !]

dont want to know your views on prostitutes/std's/ etc; just
is he being unfaithful ?
[and will the views differ between guys & girls ?]

2007-07-29 03:18:48 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my hubby had a fight over some silly matter..and i was showing tantrums and he just said that i am shameless and he won't care if he hit me....
i am so hurt...he is the same guy who fell in love with me and married and he said this....i am so hurt...

2007-07-29 03:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by crazyabs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We lived together after high school but her manipulative mother eventually broke us up. We have found that even after 23 years we were and we still are deeply in love. Both of us have good spouses but we cannot stay away from each other. The only solution seems to be for us to move to another state and spend the rest of our lives making each other happy. Comments appreciated.

2007-07-29 03:15:04 · 5 answers · asked by wheezer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Not long ago I asked what a guy met when he told me he'd father my son, he ended up telling me he loved me for a year and we're dating..

Thing is, how do you know if someone is your soul mate?
When I first saw him again after a few months of not seeing him, my heart sunk and I knew I wanted to be with him, I guess I could say I loved him. But now that we're together, I find myself wanting to push away, for any reason. But This time, I can't. It's odd

My son's dad, abused me for 4 years, I've broken away and it's taking me, 2 years to heal,

Also is my feelings telling me that he isn't right for me?
Or could he be and it scares me cause of what happened to me?

I love him, and he's great to me and Caleb, better then anything I've had, but still.. It's hard..

2007-07-29 03:14:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we just got married and i have never delt with any kind of sickness by myself

2007-07-29 03:06:22 · 14 answers · asked by just_jess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 17 years old , i never see my parents showing love for each other!, is it like that with other people?

2007-07-29 03:04:50 · 9 answers · asked by Nakshe 3 in Marriage & Divorce