i dont mean 2 sound insecure but last night my boyfriend spent the night over his cousin house and he told me he would call me as soon as he get over there but 3 hours past and he didnt so my sisters started 2 pump my head up with all this stuff saying he probably having sex with his brothers exgirlfriend at fisrt i didnt let that get 2 me but then it did i was so upset i didnt want 2 jump 2 conclusions but my sisiter pump my head up i dont think he would do anything ilke that but i guess anything can happen i fussed him out last night 4 basically nothing because i dont have any clues but i guess i just gotta trust him because if u dont have trust u dont have nothing and plus i love him i regret letting my sis pump my head up what do u think i should do?
2007-07-29 03:37:41 · 9 answers · asked by tha hottest chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is your sisters problem? Are you close? Yes it was wrong of your BF not say one thing and then do another, but I have learned that is just the way of men. I'd tell your sisiter to stick it!
2007-07-29 04:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you didn't know EXACTLY where he was for 3 whole hours?
Wow, that's a big emergency.
Even when he told you where he was going to be, and didn't really have to.
You sound very insecure and possesive.
You need to back off that or you will lose him for sure.
2007-07-29 10:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain the situation to him very carefully with-out getting up-set then give him a hug and forgive him 4 nt cll-n u...and say I trust you and I love you and make it up to him in what-ever way is possible for him to look pass it so you both can continue your relationship....and tell your sis. to shut up sometimes and stay out of your business and tend to her own affairs
2007-07-29 11:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by capricorn-saturn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breathe. relax. as long as you never accused him for that, everything is still ok between you two. :)
if ever you feel insecure or something, just remember to breathe and meditate or pray (it does help). but, in case it doesnt, you can talk to your bf about it. but, dont issue the topic too much
2007-07-29 10:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by MB s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to him for being like that and tell your sister to mind her business...In order to have an adult relationship,you need to act like an adult..Good Luck
2007-07-29 10:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of buisness. it sounds like this int the first time something like this has happened. you dont have to break up. just let him know the same thing could happen to him.
2007-07-29 11:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Joh S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why are you telling your sister what he does?
I'm confused. He is too. If you want him to date your sister, keep telling her everything and then acting out on him.
2007-07-29 10:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, your sister shouldn't do that and you should apologize for that reaction. i don't know what to do other than that.
Sorry!
2007-07-29 18:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by baller12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the right thing to do is to talk to your bf.
2007-07-29 10:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋