about 3 yers ago... but i was in shock when i found out he had died this morning i was upset and shocked, but i also wanna support my grandama... i am drifting about and i dnt no what 2 do with myself, is this greiving?
2007-07-29 03:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am so sorry you're going through this. Yes, it sounds like you're starting the grieving process, and stressing about the argument you had would only make it worse. Please don't occupy your mind with that one bad spot or think you are at fault for anything here. It sounds like you love your grandparents, and that they love you back. Now that you've lost one of them, be there for your grandmother so you grieve together - sharing will help lessen it. Consider talking to other family members or visiting a grief counselor as well.
2007-07-29 03:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by blackbyrus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are greiving, but you are also feeling guilty.
If I were you, I'd spend as much time as possible with your grandma. She needs you right now and she needs to know that you care about her.
You don't say what happened between you and your grandfather, but go somewhere private, and talk to him.
Not only will this make you feel better, but it will also help ease the guilt you're feeling.
Remember...life is shorter than you think.
My sister and I haven't talked for over10 years because of something stupid. She is very immature (she's 42) has 3 uncared for children, and refuses to take any advice. We always end up arguing and I just don't need that, so I moved away. I think about her all the time, and I know we'll never be friends, but I still feel guilty. I tried talking to her a few times, but she;s very obnoxious. So, I just go thru life without my only sister.
Keep your relationship with your Grandma. You'll be glad you did.
Best of luck to you.
2007-07-29 11:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by alpacamms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am sorry to hear that too. However, if you want to support your grandma then you have to be a little stronger, but it is ok to still show some wikness. Have faith, know that everybody will passaway someday. Remember his goods.
Hope that he will live better lif after death, and that you all will join him when you passaway, and be together again.
It is normal thing that we dont know that we love someone unless, we miss him for some reason.
Finaly, I hope that God will help you pass this big issue, and be able to support your grandma even if you still have something inside, and belive me that will help.
All I hope is the love is be around you and your family.
MGM
2007-07-29 10:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by M.G.M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are starting to grieve. Plus you are probably a bit in shock.
2007-07-29 10:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r.i.p. your grandad. now young lady.....go and see your gran? why not give her a hug! it sounds like u are upset,speak to your family.good luck ;O)
2007-07-29 10:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bluebudgie21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could have supported granny by talking to grandpa all these years. i wouldnt be surprised if granny told u to go to take a flying leap.
2007-07-29 10:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
YES IT'S STARTING SUPPORT HER AND TELL YOUR GRANDPA YOUR SORRY AND THAT YOU LOVE HIM HE CA HEAR YOU LET IT GO ...............
2007-07-29 10:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋