I had two best friends growing up. We'll call one Ann and the other Tammy. Ann and I were really close as teenagers. Tammy and I grew closer after Ann went away to college. But we were all close. We sat together in church every week, went out to eat together, threw slumber parties, and shared every secret.
But as time went on and we all left for college, we made new friends. I went to a University I knew no one at, and Ann and Tammy went to the same college. They were roomies for a couple of semesters, even though Ann thought Tammy was annoying and constantly called me to complain.
The thing is, now Tammy is getting married. I was just married a couple of months ago, and had my two sisters as the bridesmaids. She is having her sisters as her bridesmaids... but also Ann.
Should I feel hurt that she's having Ann in her wedding and not me?
2007-07-29 03:45:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should be happy for her. Friendships always will breakaway.
maybe this is the time for yours and Tammy's.
2007-07-29 03:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by chic_chick1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u should feel a little hurt, but because the two of them were roomies they grew close,after Ann got to know Tammy better she became less annoying. And maybe JUST maybe Tammy ( like u) was hurt that u didn't include her in (YOUR) wedding so she( Tammy) decided that since she and Ann are closer she included Ann in her wedding and u( sorry to say) your just a guest.
Try not to hold it against her for too long after all u all are friends.
If ever the subject comes up, will u tell Tammy that your hurt over all this?
2007-07-29 11:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not feel hurt.Anyway you got married already.in your wedding,you did not even ask one of them or both to be your bridesmaid.As long as you were invited,be happy with Tammy,you should also be happy with Ann for she will be a part of the ceremony.
2007-07-29 11:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not pain you feeling, its jealousy you're feeling. Why not talk to your friend Ann about it. Or you can simply tell Tammy you want to be a bridesmaids as well. You guys are friends, its no biggy to ask.
2007-07-29 10:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2007-07-29 10:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by sean m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda
2007-07-29 10:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by i <<<333 sidney crosby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were her true friend, then you would be happy for her.
2007-07-29 10:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋