omfg my grampa said i cant get a hamster at the ketchen table i broke down and started crying and still crying he said he dont want noo pets! so i just kept hitting my head agance the door but now i wanan get a pencle and stab my self! ..... my grandma said i can have it but grampa no ...i hate my life i feel like shi*t
~~~~~~ ill just colect my tears in a cup ~~~~~
2007-07-29 07:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im only 12
2007-07-29 07:17:21 · update #1
i even made a play house!!!
2007-07-29 07:20:18 · update #2
I TOOK CARE OF A FRIGGEN CAT ONCE!!!!
2007-07-29 07:26:39 · update #3
MY GRAND FATHER CAN BURN HELL!!
HE MEAN HE EVEN SMASHED MY RADIO AND CAMER HIT ME WIT A CORD ONCE!
2007-07-29 07:37:31 · update #4
i love pets !! i was cat woman for halloween!
2007-07-29 07:38:46 · update #5
when i was in kinder garten i was opsessed over rabbits!
2007-07-29 07:39:12 · update #6
i know how it feels when you cant get a hamster! they are just so cute, id die without one!!
look at the cuteness in this pic!!
http://i10.tinypic.com/4yafkpk.jpg
2007-07-29 07:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well sweetie, I hope that you don't take things that far. Killing yourself is not the way. Your life is more important that having a hamster.
A pet is a big responsibility show a little maturity ask for some sort of a family meeting with your grandpa and grandma. Write down a list of pros and cons and find a way to combat the cons.
So if a con is the cleaning of the tank, take on the responsibility of cleaning the tank weekly. Since your grandma is OK with the idea of having a pet then maybe she can help you to persuade your grandfather.
I wish you the best, but please don't think about harming yourself. You have a lot more life ahead of you.
2007-07-29 14:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥PirplePashn♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please do not kill yourself over a hamster. I can't even believe you would suggest something like that. You are a young person and have too much to do in life to end it over a hamster. Your grandfather probably has a very good reason why he won't allow any pets. Maybe he can't afford it right now, pets can be expensive. Maybe he knows he'll wind up having to help you care for it. There has to be a good reason why he said no, he didn't do this to hurt you on purpose. Just let it go for now, you'll have plenty of time in the future to get your hamster.
You took care of a cat, but where is the cat now? Did you keep the cat for a long time? No one is trying to be mean to you here, but it's somewhat appaling to hear a young person who has years and years ahead of them say they want to die over a hamster. There are many people in this world who don't even have a grandfather or anyone else to look after them, and not having a hamster is the least of their concerns.
2007-07-29 14:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky S 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are upset, but it's just a hampster and you are just 12.
right now you need to respect the people under whose roof you live. Having this extreme of a reaction about a hampster really makes me think there is something else going on. I would suggest you talk to the school guidance counselor because this extreme of a reaction is not normal. Feeling suicidal is not OK, you need to get help.
Once you are all grown up you will be able to have as many hampsters as you want. Hang in there, being a kid does not last forever, but you need to enjoy it because once you are grown you can't go back!
2007-07-29 15:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good now you know what you like in life. Can you call the humane society or animal shelter in your area and ask if they need help? Please stop the drama and realize that you have to obey what your gparents say. Get some books at the library about animals and maybe if you get good grades in school you can be a veterinarian and take care of them. But youll have to stop crying and act more mature ok? Youll feel better tomorrow and the thing you need to know is if you stop acting this way and try to be helpful around the house, you may just see a different attitude from them Go give them a big hug and say thanks for taking care of you!
2007-07-29 15:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you may have problems that owning a pet would not cure. You say you're 12 so maybe you should try having a talk with someone like a sunday school teacher, or a pastor. Grampa probably feels that you're not mature enough yet to care for a pet. Try to calm down: upsetting your grandparents isn't going to help the situation.
2007-07-29 14:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're gonna act so immature then you're obviously not ready. Act a little mature, show them that you can handle the responsiblity that comes along with caring for an animal. Goto the library, pick up some books on hamster care and they will see that you are serious about it. Then sit down with them and tell them what you plan to do if you get it.
2007-07-29 14:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie... if you hate your life that much and want to kill yourself over a hamster that you won't get, maybe you need help instead. Try talking to a therapist or maybe a guidance counselor... even a member of the clergy can help... but if things get really bad, feel free to e-mail me. I might be able to help you some as well.
2007-07-29 14:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by ΘHabeas CorpusΘ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you show your grampa a little control and a little maturity you may get your wish. If he sees you acting out because he said no, he will think you are not ready for a pet. A pet is a big responsibility no matter how small it is.
2007-07-29 14:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by cat lady 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You need serious help! If you are willing to kill yourself over a hamster, then you need professional therapy, regardless of your age!!
Perhaps instead of taking care of an animal, you should spend more time paying attention in spelling class
2007-07-29 14:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask grandma if she will give you a ride to the nuthouse because thats where you belong.
If you get this weird over a hamster god help you when a real problem arises in your life.
2007-07-29 14:18:50 · answer #11 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋