I'm going to highschool next year and I'm looking forward to it, but I have a question. I'm 15, and I would like a mature, nice, good looking guy to be with, who is also around my age. I have given up older guys, since it got the guy and I into trouble. So I want a nice 16,17 yr.old. but the problem is that I can't seem to find one. It seems like all the guys that like me are like 20 or older, and I do want a guy, not a man because that is illegal. I know I look older but I can't help that. My friend (or so I thought) said that the reason guys around my age don't like me is because I have a pornstar body and that is not attractive to them, it's kind of off putting because they like a more "regular" girl.I don't know what to do. I'm lonely for a guy, and I feel like I will never get one my age because they aren't attracted to my "pornstar" body. Should I just wait until I'm 18 to find a guy? Help!
2007-07-29 08:55:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, like the no offense "ghetto" guys like me and i'm not really into that. I'm more into punk white guys..so yeah, how do I get them to see that not every black/hispanic girl likes them?
2007-07-29 08:57:35 · update #1
I do accent true beauty. I don't dress like a slizut or anything..i'm just confused.
2007-07-29 09:03:05 · update #2
All you can do is just be yourself. I had a womanly figure by the age of 12 and guys twice my age were always hitting on me. I did end up waiting until I was 18, met and married my husband. No regrets for me. Just never settle out of loneliness!!!
2007-07-29 09:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allright, from what I've seen teenage guys are just as unsure of themselves as teenage girls, remember that! If you are good looking, especially if you look older, you probably intimidate them quite a bit. This means your hard to approach. Older guys are more sure of themselves--this is probably why you have been approach by more adult men. My advise--tell them men your real age and tell them to get a life.
Now on to the real problem, getting a guy your own age...just be approachable. Being personable and not standoffish goes a long ways. But understand that because of your looks being too flirty right away might cause them to see you as loose. Watch this. Be confident, dont hide yourself, that wont help. A lot of girls go through this, just remember you may want a guy, but you dont need a guy--hold out for ones that are worthy of you!
Ignore your "friend"(sounds jealous)--I seriously doubt that guys aren't attracted to you--I guaranty it's intimidation!
2007-07-29 09:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Melicita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am assuming that by "pornstar" body you mean large breasts and curvy figure...I would suggest toning down what you wear if you are wearing things that might be too provocative. I think the older guys like you because they aren't actually interested in you as a person but rather your body. Maybe guys your age do like the way you like but are not approaching you because of your high level of self confidence. It might be intimidating...
2007-07-29 09:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to give the guy a better impression of u, accent ur true beauty...ur eyes, smile, and personality. if he's a really special guy, he'll like u for those things more than ur body. good luck!
2007-07-29 09:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by BNizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as far as i know, a pornstar body would mean a really sexy face and big boobs... now i dont know why guys your age woudnt like that =S i know id like that :D just be patient, and youll find someone.
ksisk44@yahoo.com ;D
2007-07-29 09:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by ksisk44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be a pornostar... if your that good looking
2007-07-29 09:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Matt C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋