I bought her a diamond necklace a year ago, she said that she lost it but she went to the doctor last week and he found the necklace embedded in her neck under her skin. I can't take this anymore.
2007-07-29 02:46:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm.. on one of your other questions you asked "Is something wrong with me, when my girlfriend leaves I like to put on her panties and bra!?" Maybe you two need to lose weight together... or maybe she does not even exist.. who knows!?
2007-07-29 02:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with her is all up to you if you have fallen out of love with her.......But if you haven't you should encourage her.
I know when I was trying to quit smoking years ago the first thing I didn't want to hear was anything about it.......for it's
like reverse Psychology and I wanted to smoke more....Like it's too much pressure......If you live with her you can help by having good things in the refrigerator......On the weekends or at night during the week after work.....just say hey let's go for a ride......then end up at the beach or a path where you two are forced to walk and talk. In time she will lose weight without even knowing it!
2007-07-29 02:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by frogette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a little disappointing, isn't it.
I suppose you wouldn't have to go that far as to breaking up with her but you could sit down and share some thoughts with your girlfriend. Or you could cook her some healthy meals (veggy-oriented). It is a little risky but if she's the type, then she might get jealous over you commenting an actress on t.v. with a nice proportion and start a major diet. But first, I really would advise a good talk.
After all, you do love your gf, right? Love shouldn't have to do anything with the outside. Atleast, after a while.
Good luck.
2007-07-29 02:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with her just because of her height and weight. You may be unsatisfied with her weight but try to understand from her point of view. Tell her how much you love her and that you don't want to see anything happen to her and that for her own health it is better for her to start losing weight now so her health is better in the future. It will take a while for her to be healthy but you cant push her to do something she doesn't want to do . But tell her it is for her own good. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!
2007-07-29 02:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by jimmysgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? yeah, she needs to lose weight. not only is that not that attractive but it's really not healthy. instead of badgering her about it, why don't you guys do fun activities, like hiking, swimming, going bike riding together. Pick up martial arts together too. It gets you in killer shape. Let her go to some stripping classes. it'll make her feel sexy and better about herself. Maybe she's refusing to not lose weight because you bother her. let her know she's still beautiful but she's not healthy and that you want her to lose weight so she can be with you for a longer amount of time. she's like 150lbs. over weight
2007-07-29 02:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of telling her to loose weight (it makes her feel bad) try asking her to go for walks with you or take her on more active dates and instead of say going out to eat, pack a healthy picnick . It will get her more active and be fun for the both of you! most people eat alot when there unhappy(i do it) but you can make her more active just by say suggesting a short walk every day or deliberatly parking further from the stores. once these habits are set she will loose weight and be happier for it
2007-07-29 02:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by bamf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well true love bears all things. Maybe if you spend less time with her it will motivate to lose weight. Share with her that you are concerned about her health. Tell her that you always want to be attracted to her, for the rest of her life. You never desire to have to look at another woman.
2007-07-29 02:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by The Mrs. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've already made up your mind. Break up with her. Don't make it some long, drawn-out thing, just explain the situation and sever all ties. She'll be less hurt that way. If you aren't attracted to her, there is nothing you can do about that. Just don't be rude.
2007-07-29 02:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, if you're going to break up with her just because of her weight you are shallow and don't deserve her.
The thing to do is to excercise together. Make smoothie recipies with her, run daily, chat, it'll be fun and she'll feel encouraged.
If you're not willing to do THAT for her, I suggest you just read her this question and allow yourself to be beat up and thrown out the door.
2007-08-01 09:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by ~S~ is for Stephanie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this problem goes further than just your relationship. She is not healthy at all. You need to tell her you can handle losing her to something she could control. So shed the pounds or lose a great guy that loves you for who you are.
2007-07-29 02:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by lilkinkykitty101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her weight bothers you, why did you start dating her in the first place? You obviously don't love her for who she is, she deserves better than you. Break up with her, but try not to hurt her too much.
2007-07-29 02:56:21 · answer #11 · answered by Carly Summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋