Wel everything was fine until he asked what I was thinking and I said "stuff" then he said "what stuff?" and I just said "stuff" and I wouldn't tell him, after that he said he had to go and left.
D=
I was instant messaging him by the way!
I couldn't tell him because I was thinking of him..
2007-07-29 15:30:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you didn't freak him out he's a guy and they're just like that
.Don't take it personal,he'll be back around.Cheer Up !
2007-07-29 15:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it's instant messaging, you might have come across as not into terms of really speaking with him. (You didn't really wanna tell him and of course you couldn't.) You should apologize and tell him you were thinking of something that you really can't tell him. Maybe he'll understand and say it's okay. Or, you can be brave and tell him the truth. :) I don't think he will get offended knowing that you were thinking about him. In fact, he should be happy that someone is thinking about him. Of course, be prepared to answer if he asks you what you're about him that you're thinking of.
2007-07-29 22:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have gotten better results if you at least hinted at your true thoughts. I'm a firm believer in the value of holding back some information to pique interest and preserve an air of mystery, but you run the risk of appearing completely disinterested when you say "nothing" at all. Attraction is a game of sorts...make you moves count, because each action (or non-action) creates definite consequences (or reactions).
2007-07-29 22:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah i think you kinda made him feel put off cuz you wouldnt tell him. He probably thinks you dont trust him... do you liek him? if so and you think he likes you back you should have told him the truth. if yur not so sure you could have either
1. lied. im is a great place for bad liers seeing as the other person cant see your face (=
2. asked him what HE was thinking, therefore changing the subject or causing unintentiional flirting
jsut in case this happens again...
2007-07-29 22:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably a little ticked off because you weren't being honest with him. It shows that you may not trust him. It would have probably made him really happy to know that you were thinking about him. Don't play games, just be honest.
2007-07-29 22:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have told him you were thinking of him!!! he probably would have liked it. He probably left and maybe he just thought you were playing games? guys have a low tolerance for guessing games, next time tell him what is on your mind!
2007-07-29 22:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he really had to go orrrr..he felt offended that being as close to you as he is, you still wouldn't share your feelings with him and you were shutting him out. just tell him the truth!
2007-07-29 22:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're overreacting and he really just had to go...somebody called him or he was late to go somewhere...
who knows?
But it is not what you said, trust me.
2007-07-29 22:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Claudia F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have just told him!! he would be happy!!
its kind of emberasing i should knoe!! but its the besst way or he might think ur hiding things so go ahead and tell him!!!
2007-07-29 22:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by maya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If he can't handle that your thoughts might be private, why waste any more time?
2007-07-29 22:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mawia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋