should i make love wait to make good money first?

Question

I make good money at a job making about 4000 to 5000 a month and the economy now is unstable and i think money will be harder to come by in the future.....love cost money and so does a marriage that is stable without financial hardships....should i put love first or money first....cause love is hard to come by sometimes too but it seems people will be desperate for money in the future cause wages will decline and people need money to make it through....seems times are getting tough and you have to make the right decision for yourself cause i think any man can get any woman at any given time

Answer 1

Being financially stable before you get married really helps out. Finding someone that cares about their financial stability the same as you is important too.

But don't pass up an opportunity to find someone that is right for you just because you are waiting for you bank account to grow.

Answer 2

Any man can get any women at any given time, but if its real and if it will be marriage material is another story. If you find Mrs. Right why not get married? You cannot wait until you have a ton of money to get married even if you have a million dollars something can do wrong ten years down the road and you are not stable with your money again, who cares at least you got a wife by your side! You can only plan so much ahead... live today.

Answer 3

I say this unto you, if you think about love and money the same way women do, then let this be my answer for your question.
Go get a scale, put an ounce of gold in one pan and love in the other pan, which side does the scale tip towards? that my friend is your answer.

Answer 4

I think you are capable of having a relationship and making money.

Love does not need to be married. Throw those ideas away.

Answer 5

if ur woman really loves u she will b willing 2 wait and she'll appreciate that u care enough 2 make sure u provide for her and that finiaces wont b a problem,which should strengethen ur relationship! if not.. : / i personally think its not everyday u find a really special person, but sure u always can find a girl.

Answer 6

If you were broke, I would say wait. You have your life on the right road. You and your loved one can build on what you have already accomplished. There is no need to pass up love if it comes to you.

Answer 7

i think you should pursue your career first because if that person loves you, then the person will understand that its not only for you but for both of your futures...love will always be there but the opportunity to make that kind of money might disappear...so i say, go for the career first...but thats just me... good luck!

Answer 8

THE SOCIETY'S IS DRIVEN BY MONETARY...YOU WILL BE JUDGED BY HOW WELL YOU'RE ESTABLISHED YOURSELF REGARDLESS OF WHATEVER OTHER PEOPLE SAID...YOUR OTHER HALF AND HER FAMILY WILL VIEW YOU DIFFERENTLY...SOMETIMES IT'S TOO BITTER FOR PEOPLE TO ADMIT THEY'RE ONLY MARRY FOR THE BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU... DON'T LOOSE YOUR GUARDS ON THOSE LOVES HYPE...NOBODY WANTS TO BE WITH OR LISTEN TO AND/OR HAVE ANY RESPECTS OF ANY KINDS FOR YOU IF YOU ARE POOR... WHY LISTEN TO YOU WHEN YOU'RE NOT WELL ESTABLISHED RIGHT? QLKM!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Well you tell me after you fall in love. Your thinking rationally now, with your head. When you fall in love you no longer think with your head. You think with your heart.

Answer 10

i mix it ....i make love and money at the same time...a hooker