How do I know what to say?

Question

I'm in love with a boy. Point blank, I'm in love. It's a weird feeling, but I know it's real. My only thing is, I can't justify it. He's always asking me how I know, how I can be sure that he's not like my last boyfriend. And that's my problem. How the hell do I explain all my feelings? I try, and everytime I do it's like words are caught in my throat. I'll literally sit there, and open my mouth like I should be saying something.

But nothing comes out. And it gets me down. Because I don't want him to think I'm lying about my feelings in any way. I know I'm not. Emotional movie cliches aside, I can feel it in my heart. I've tried to explain that I suck at putting it all into words, but I don't think he gets it.

Answer 1

Well what i would do is write him a letter and then call him up and ask him if he would like to go for a walk somewhere .Find a spot sit down and face him and tell him that you have a letter that you wrote him but you want to read it to him .When your done reading it ask him what he thinks about it and just go from there .

Answer 2

say this except not in question form.

I'm in love with a boy. Point blank, I'm in love. It's a weird feeling, but I know it's real. My only thing is, I can't justify it. He's always asking me how I know, how I can be sure that he's not like my last boyfriend. And that's my problem. How the hell do I explain all my feelings? I try, and everytime I do it's like words are caught in my throat. I'll literally sit there, and open my mouth like I should be saying something.

But nothing comes out. And it gets me down. Because I don't want him to think I'm lying about my feelings in any way. I know I'm not. Emotional movie cliches aside, I can feel it in my heart. I've tried to explain that I suck at putting it all into words, but I don't think he gets it.

Answer 3

Well you make him get it. If he doesnt believe you then maybe he's not the one. You know what your feelings are and you know how your feeling. And you like him so much you just cant explain. Well you can only say so much. If your words come out jumbled say " see i cant even speak right around you" and if you open your mouth and say nothing say "see i cant even speak. words cant explain how i feel. i try and put them together but then they fall apart in front of you and i feel like you dont believe me." i hope i have kinda helped with this situation. and i hope he does believe you!

Answer 4

theres no explanation for love. Ie asked my bf how he knows he loves me b/c its nice to hear sum1 say sum nice about you. And i know I love my bf b/c it breaks my heart when he dosnt talk to me for days, it hurts when sum1 talks bad about him, it hurts when i think about if he's cheating, and when i say hurt i mean this weird feeling like butterflies. Love is just a big rollercoaster full of different emotions. U cant ever really explain why. You just know. So when he asks you just tell him how he makes you feel, what he does to make you happy and stuff. U'll feel REAL love when you have ur first child. Thats how I know i love my bf b/c our baby and him mean the world to me. Love sux LOL!!! GL

Answer 5

If you want some advice on how to truely feel , go and watch the movie, DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOMEN, she says it best, but do remember there is no best way to say it, it shuld come from your heart, but yeah there you can get some idea on words to use

Answer 6

when you are alone one evening take paper and pen and list all the great things about him and what he does to make you feel special. after you have put some real thought into it it will be a lot easier to answer his question

Answer 7

Quite simple: Tell him he makes your heart smile.

Answer 8

Have you tried telling him what you just told us? If not i would try it.