i am married, now i love with other person, he call me to go outside, what should i do? He asked me for sex also.
2007-07-29 19:22:32 · 17 answers · asked by richa s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may be having love for him but in his case it seems the only interest is enjoying sex with you. Known well that you are married he wants to enjoy with a lady who does not become liability for him in future & ask him to marry her. You know by indulging in illicit sex with this man you will be cheating your husband & if by any chance your husband comes to know about this then surely he'll be leaving you for ever. If you are not having any problem with your husband as far your sexual relationship is concerned avoid any such relationship with another man from personal reasons both legal & medical.
2007-07-29 20:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hi richa,
I won't say its a sinful act to have dating and sex with
someone else apart from your husband. Because we are all human
beings and we do have our own feelings to be satisfied. Was
your husband not able to satisfy you in bed or love or
emotionally? Is that why you seek an affair? If your answer
is no for this questions then its advisable not to sleep
with that other person which may spoil your marital life. If
you say yes then I can say you need your feelings to be
fulfilled and find the right guy to have an affair who won't
affect your marital life and blackmail in future. If you
have kids too...please be careful in this affair as your
mistakes may affect your innocent children. Do anything
as long as it hurts nobody.
2007-07-29 19:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Abu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful!
I guess, you don´t love your husband at all and you should try to change your life and not stay married with a man you don´t love. But it would be much better to separate legally and get a divorce.
This other person might only be interested in having a good time with you and sex.
If you agree with that (obviously your husband does not satisfy your needs at all) you must be careful and be very discreet, it´s something between you and the other man, nobody should ever know.
Use condoms and protect yourself.
2007-07-29 23:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont do it, if you are having problems with your husband then communicate with him and try to resolve the things going on, but going outside the marriage isnt good and will only cause you pain in the long run...
2007-08-01 16:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually may be looking for sex with married woman. but my mind said don't waste time for this type of thinking. it's spoil a life but I am looking for sex with married woman and again said my mind stop it otherwise you can loss your life still I will calm. If you interested me I think again it
2007-08-02 18:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by ebpr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it was not adviceable to do it. You are married and having sex with other people rather that your husband is a sinful act. Please consider the risk and what will your husband think of you?
2007-07-29 19:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st u c he is allright and do it.
Sex kerna galat nahin hai, ye to body kee demand hai
koee firm nain padta sex kerne se
face pe thode hee likha hota hai, kee wo abhi
sex kerke aaya hai
dost pyaya hai aur tum like kerti ho to koi baat nahin
jabar dasti ka kam na to kerna aur na hee hone dena ok
enjoy, it is uor life..
enjoy kerne pehle, apne mata aur pita kee taraf bhi
dekh lena, jis kissi se bhi sex karo uce se shadi se shadi ke bare meinj mat shochna.. vo to kismat se milta hai
go & do sex with her.
2007-07-29 19:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is another thing & sex is another.You are married.If once you had sex with another person, he will exploit you for his lust and your married life will be ruined.Forget it for ever.......
2007-07-31 00:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by amit_anu2016 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mind. Your conscience. You will get the correct answer much faster.
2007-07-30 06:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever your conscionce tells u but ensure that your partner dosent suffer in any way by what u do.It should be safe and confidential.In case u can abide by these rules go ahead
2007-07-29 21:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by v_lohia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋