Why am I always sore after sex?

Question

For some reason everytime I have sex i'm extremly sore for at least three days. I had sex two days in a row and it was awful b/c I was sore from the previous night. Am I doing something wrong? Why am I getting hurt while having sex?

I'm thinking it may be the condoms. He is on the bigger side but I also think he may just be doing it a little too rough. Thanks for your help guys.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

You need to see your doctor. There may be a medical reason for this. You could have endometriosis, a infection, or an allergic reaction to something. If you are using condoms, you may well be allergic to the plastic.

Answer 3

well hmm how old are you? well anyways it proberly hurts cos your still a bit loose and another reason it could possibly be is cos your not wet enough to have sex so if this happens and you dont have lubricant just get him to finger you or get him to wet his fingers and put a bit of moisture in there so it might not hurt as much.
lubricant would proberly be better though.
or maybe hes just doing it to rough for you to handle tell him to slow down and stuff.
i know it may feel better doing it rougher but for your sake just try it slow if your not doing it slow already.
but alwell hope i helped.

Answer 4

Try lube. So girls don't make enough of their own, for lack of a better term.

If you don't like the idea of lube, foreplay, ALOT.

Ideas:
Oral before hand, teasing, touching eachother, kissing passionality, ext.

Answer 5

because your guy is giving it to you rough you might not think so but your body does ask him to go easy on you then you may stop feeling so sore

Answer 6

It could be that you have a shallow vagina, or maybe he is too big? But I do know that you should talk to a doctor about that, just in case...

Answer 7

Try some lubricant, maybe a lil more foreplay

Answer 8

your dating a guy with a big dick.

that or you probably have a small "downstairs region"
my ex complained of that too, i guess it just stretches it out regardless of the "size"

i did hear that there are some kind of leg press exercises that girls can do which work the crotch muscles.

i dunno.... sounds like it would work.

Answer 9

try not going so hard at it, you could also have a muscle problem check it out with yor docter.

Answer 10

that happend to me, telll him to go real soft and slow and as said try lube

Answer 11

I think his penis is too big for u but that cant be helped.