I have a very good male friend.We r so perfect together and everyone says so.The problem is he has a girlfriend and they have been dating for almost two years.Once we have talked about our relationship.He said he didn't want to lose me,but he couldn't break up with his GF.We know what other side is thinking about and we say something same at the same time often.And we go out for dinners or walking sometimes.What should I do?
2007-07-29 23:02:59 · 14 answers · asked by Gaea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get in a serious talk with him. i can see why he doesnt wanna loose his girlfriend. but you should really try to get him if you love him that much. only if you think it will last. dont make him loose his longtime GF for something that wont last
2007-07-29 23:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that let it go on simmering for some more time and in the mean while, keep a keen eye.As soon as you get enough indicators one way or the other,take the final decision after due deliberations.
2007-07-30 06:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he is perfect for you?
Do you and his girlfriend get along?
Well you shouldnt try breaking them up. If I were you I would talk to him about it more or ask some friends. It might be better to wait a little longer to see what happens between them.
I hope that helped. xD
2007-07-30 06:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by Amyy. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt care enough for you to leave this other girl, then he really doesnt like you all that much.
plus, if he is in a relationship already and still having you on the side, what does that say of his character?
image if he was dating you, would he be considering leaving you for another girl?
id personally would move on.
2007-07-30 06:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by Loathing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as much as this hurts.. he has a Gf.
let him be. maybe he and his girlfriend are happy together and you should move on to someone else. you may like him, but he loves his girlfriend and there's really nothing more you can do without dangering your friendship with him.
and it might anger his girlfriend. move on, and don't continue waiting for someone that's already taken.
2007-07-30 06:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by MaddyMakeout™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard 2 say. tell him ur feelings that you want him to dump the gf for you. if he doesnt' move on
2007-07-30 06:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it at friendship, life has it own way of making things happen ,only if its meant to be !!
2007-07-30 06:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the friendship and don't let anything happen, because if something does not only could it ruin his relationship it could ruin your friendship.
2007-07-30 06:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bazza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, i will first observe him when he is with his GF... After that, if what you see is that he is betraying you.... like, saying to his girl that he loves her more than anyone else, like you....find someone else to love, the one that doesnt betray people..... but, if you see that he feels awkward in front of his gal, like, not minding her..... then...... its your time to be with him in bed......
2007-07-30 06:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by richard l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing you. If he wants to be with you, he will break up with his current girlfriend.
2007-07-30 06:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Daniexus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋