I hate the stereotype that men only think about and want sex.I think I could go forever if I dont ever find anyone. I am almost 19 and never kissed a girl or had sex or any of that. I just dont think the right girl is out there for me. I need an athletic girl(cuz I am really really athletic and one who love boxing like I do, I dont think I am that picky) Also why is there a big stereotype about men only wanting sex and all that, I have never had sex and want a relationship not just sex. I dont get why most people hold that stereotype to be true. When I already prove and alot of guys prove it is untrue. I might never find the one that is right for me thats fine, I will just keep looking until then I wont be kissing or having sex with any girls.
2007-07-29 22:08:37 · 9 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate when people say that men just think about and want sex, I am a man and I find really offensive to make all men sound like dogs
2007-07-29 22:09:55 · update #1
Sounds like a low testosterone level.
2007-07-29 22:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 21 and had sex that I was actually pressured in to doing by some girls before. So to say all men want sex is kind of a lie and probably is just more of a saying now then the truth.
Don't get me wrong either there are alot of horn dogs out there too.
Edit* I guess it should be fair that I add I too have pressured women into sex aswell. I'm just saying both sides can play that game.
2007-07-29 22:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here dudeski im not all about ******** but kissing is natural i personally dont like having sex with a girls unless we have an actual relationship.. but then again how are you ever going to ever find you soul mate if you dont date or have a relationship with at least kisses its impossible..sooner or later you will change at let loose a little... your aspects on kissing or ******** will change as time goes on.. i though the same damn thing your thinking when i was 17 and 18 now its a whole new story.. Hell if we could all skip the bs of dating and relationships that dont work or flirting..etc.etc and find our soulmates that would be the...... The Best with out a doubt..but then again this is life.
2007-07-29 22:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed and can really be broadened to our generation that there is some expectancy or allowance that sex is a casual thing to be played around with. I'm in the same boat never been kissed and all, i just didn't get the point in high school just all a stupid dram game but now going into college it would be nice to have a relationship but it seems you have to be willing to sleep with someone in order to...gosh i don't even know! it's all ridiculous...what happened to guys courting girls and bbq's and being able to enjoy each other and just hold hands... now i sound like a hopeless romantic stuck in the 20's but seriously...they weren't getting divorces and having children at 16 where they??
2007-07-29 22:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by graceful_dreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are contradicting a number of scientific findings and polls conducted across the world over and should therefore be an exception.If you say that an exception proves the rule,may be .but an exception don't make the rule either.If a young,healthy boy who is also an athlete and a boxer,doesn't think about sex[just thinking only],then something is amiss[not necessarily in .a negative manner].Thinking is just natural and may be accompanied by doing or not.Hope you find the type of girl you are looking for,while still young.Interestingly exceptional, if true.
2007-07-29 22:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, what were you saying? I was thinking about sex.....
When a majority of a population behave a certain way, especially when that behavior can be classified as bad behavior, then a sterotype begins and it is VERY hard to shake free of it.
2007-07-29 22:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well majority of them really are.....but there r not many guys like you who`s saving them for true love and i really appreciate that!!!!U see all this getting physical should be done with someone very special....i think the same way....and i would give my whole self to only that guy who`d marry me.....
2007-07-29 22:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sexysaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont like the stereotype either. Problem is.............. thier are guys out there, who keep this stereotype alive.
2007-07-29 22:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by JUSTIN 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i agree with that...
2007-07-29 22:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by marvin d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋