Friends that push you to get the girls for them.?

Question

I have some good nice friends, friends that are friendly and humourous. And like to have a good time. Although they sometimes act like animals. Which I mean is a guy always trying to look for girls girls and girls. Most of the time in my life, girls ask me out or for my phone number since high school, and my personality is easy to talk to and understanding. However, I'm not always thrill to go "girl hunting" which are my firend's terms. They always ask me to try to talk to the girls or do something like dance. because I can dance really well, from my friends. But I have a girlfriend who will one day be my wife. Me and my girlfriend love each other with strong trust and heart. But I tell my girlfriend, my firends always try to make me be the opener for them. My friends tell me that talking to girls is not hitting on them, you just acting like a friend. but I see some of my friends in a relationship, still talking to another girl or dancing. Maybe not going far to intercourse, but still.

Answer 1

Bait and switch, con man work. Sounds like your uncomfortable being a sleeze enabler so stand strong, never wise to sell yourself out, and a real friend would accept you saying no.

Answer 2

From what I gather, you're uncomfortable doing this for your friends because you don't want anyone to get the wrong idea about your intentions...especially your girlfriend....am I right?

It is extremely admirable to see someone with that much consideration and loyalty to their fiance. I applaud you for it and hope that never goes away. As for your friends, I think they need to grow up a little before they drag you into problems you don't need. I'm not saying don't be friends with them anymore. Sooner or later they will grow up and find a girl of their own, but you can't let them put your happiness at risk just so they can go out "Girl hunting". Be firm. Tell them you can't go out to do this anymore......or, if you want to be a bit more subtle, tell them that you will do it, but only if your girlfriend goes with you. Then, throughout that night, you can keep hold of your girl's hand or keep her close the entire time so that any girl you talk to won't get the wrong idea. This will most likely derail any plans your friends have of getting girls because the ones you talk to probably won't be going back with you to meet the others. Two or three times of this and your friends should give up trying to get you to help them get girls....at least for a little while.

As for your friends possible cheating, let them see how foolish they are by setting them an example with how happy you are with your girlfriend and that you don't need to play the games they do to get what you want.

Hope some of this helps. Good luck.

Answer 3

Just tell your friends that it is time for them to learn how to get girls on their own. Tell them that you need more time to work on your relationship. If they give you a problem because of it, tell them to hit the road until they grow up. Don't lose what you have trying to help them out. Tell them how they should be acting. Tell them that girls do not like idiots, and that is whay they can't keep a girl.

Answer 4

Stay with your girlfriend. Ignore your friends on girl-hunting.
You may mess things up with the relationship you already have now.

Answer 5

im the same way. most my friends try to get with girls. im just more layed back and will just wait for a girl to come. im not that desperate for a girl. my friends dont make me be the opener for them cause they can do it themselves.

Answer 6

DUDE YOUR A PUSH OVER YOU SHOULDN'T LISTEN TO YOUR FRIENDS YOU NEED TO DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO AND NOT WHAT YOUR FREINDS ADN IF YOUR FRIENDS CAN'T DANCE TELL THEM TO LEARN HOW TO DANCE

Answer 7

Just take them, and f*ck them. Then they will get jealous, and maybe grow some balls and start f*cking b*tches too!