i have been thinking lately if having a boyfriend 15 yrs older ok? we've been together for almost a year. he's 37 and i'm 22... he was married before with kids... am i being crazy? but i feel we both love each other... but is this enough to be with him..? we can both be sexually active also which makes me think sometimes if he really loves me..
2007-07-29 21:20:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No age shouldn't matter.
If you both are happy then you shouldn't have a problem.
I have a friend that is 50 and his girlfriend is 26 and they have been together for 2 years now. Actually this is the first time he has stayed in relationship this long, in a long time. They seem very happy together.
Her parents disliked it at first. But they have come to accept him.
~faith
2007-07-29 21:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NOOO you don't being crazy! Age is a number what is standing on the paper. Be happy that you feel both the love and sexually active to each other. He is not a little boy and know what he is doing and you can learn so much from him. Forget your thinking if he really loves you, he do it ! I was had the same thinking as you yet as I was in the same situation. Hear of your heart !
2007-07-30 04:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by susi1sue 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age makes no difference, in fact sometimes age difference can be good, we all mature differently and we all what different things. I use to date a girl that was 19 and I was 29 it worked really well we loved all the things we did and even the families eventually realised it was working and we were very much in love.
So no age does not matter, as long as you want to be with each other and care for each other I do not see a problem.
A word of advise though, if your families do not like the situation, remember it’s your lives not theirs they have done what they wanted to do, so don’t allow them to dictate to you what is right and wrong.
Good Luck
2007-08-01 01:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by jay s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is ok. My dad was 17 years older than my mother. He was 47 when he married her when she was 30. They have 6 children and he kept his vows till his last breath. My mother never remarried.
2007-07-30 12:37:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sal SR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girl friend is 25 and i'm 42 so yes i believe you can have any kind of relationship you want if you truely love one another. Age has nothing to do with it.
2007-07-30 04:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋