Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

I recently asked my wife if she would like a divorce. Of course I was prepaired for a multitude of answers and got the one that I thought that I was going to get. Which was that she was thinking about it. However, she is willing to work things out. From the tone in her voice and the statements that she made she sounds like she is serious about trying to make things work.

I also asked her later on if she wants a me to help push herself in her job and education. And she said yes.

One of my questions is, do you think that she was or is wanting a divorce or if this is really a way of getting me to be a better husband?

The other is, do you think that if I do the simple things that she is requesting that it will help us out in the long run?

2007-07-24 23:59:23 · 16 answers · asked by kataklysmkamel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

..does this means somebody needs to get spanked? :)

Police! Don't move! Pants off!

2007-07-24 23:55:09 · 9 answers · asked by GOTIK PRINCESS 4 in Singles & Dating

please help

2007-07-24 23:54:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ever okay to have a lover on the side only for physical satisfaction, if its only sex and not love involved? And of course %100 protection used.

2007-07-24 23:54:01 · 21 answers · asked by Getsbetterwithtime 3 in Singles & Dating

anything in particular?? like im not too into short guys...

2007-07-24 23:52:15 · 9 answers · asked by angie 1 in Singles & Dating

my b/f is taking me away in a few weeks and won't tell me to much about where we're going or what else is happening? and he has been particually cuddly lately? after talking with friends, i have a suspision that he may propose but i'm unsure! am i looking into it to much?

2007-07-24 23:47:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-24 23:43:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a serious foot fetish problem. I have pictures of girls feet all posted up in my room and masturbate on them. I even take a camera to the gym class and secretly video babes feet. How can I stop this irrational behavior?

2007-07-24 23:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have been together for about two years. we met in college and he was always at my house everyday even though he had his own dorm/apt with his friends. we got along great and even bought groceries together and split the bill. now that we graduated he moved back in with his parents and i relocated near a job offer. we have been trying the LDR thing b/c we are 3 hours apart now but it is getting hard and we miss eachother too much. my boyfriend wants to move in, but he is not on the lease. what should we do until the lease can be renewed so i dont get in trouble with my landlord. should he rent a p.o. box address? when he gets a job should he tell the job his address is his old (parents) address or his new p.o. box address? when he signs the tax paper for work that ask what school district dose he live in, should he include his old school district or the school district closest to his p.o. box address?

2007-07-24 23:37:09 · 7 answers · asked by panadelias 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently me and wife have been going through some things.Thewords of Divorce have been mentioned and to futhercomplicate things we have three children. I am older than my wife by a few years. Every now andthen she will talk with me about change that is fine with methat will take time.But the question that keeps hiting me me is do I love her. My RESPONSE IS YES and that is not based souly on thekids asshe thought. I really do love her. But then she ask meif I love her regardless of anything and she gets the same answer of YES. Wahat I am wondering now is what is love and how do you know whenyou do love someonelike that. I know what is was for me inthe beginning of the relatinship but what is it suppose to be now?

2007-07-24 23:30:25 · 7 answers · asked by Ryan m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Only jewish girls please.

2007-07-24 23:29:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 23:25:55 · 39 answers · asked by bettyboo 4 in Family

what should i do to make him feel secure he doest feels good if i talk to anyone.he wants me to be with him always.what should i do?

2007-07-24 23:25:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he says im too loud,he says he cant hear me, he ignores me,he critises me,and so on.why is it always so hard to have a little control over our lives.he has complete control over every thing,and its all in his favor all the time.I feel he takes advantage that I am so timid, and sensitive.I stay at home and take care of baby,and him too.Im having another baby and if i miss chore one day i get nagged.

2007-07-24 23:23:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know how I feel about about it but I would like to know how others feel. This is the kind of conversation that goes on between my wf and other men either face to face or over the net usually with guys she knows. This is what I found recently

From Guy
Hay mate Good to catch up with you. Even if it was just on the net.blah blah I'd like to get up there just to get away. If we get a wink wink on the side, that's ok. blah blah I was just thinking how good it would be getting away from it all and making you wink wink every where,lol, blah. blah got training on tonight so It'll be late when I get back. I may miss chatting with you.blah. wink wink you one day,lol.

Responce from my wife
hi ya mate, u have to watch what you say in your emails mate, daughter just read it, she is upset with you talking to her mother like that, lol, i so cant wait untill to you do

Sorry I had to delete and start again it was a mess and unreadable

2007-07-24 23:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

answer the question...

2007-07-24 23:19:40 · 12 answers · asked by SaRiTa RhAyE 1 in Singles & Dating

add me ill provide answers.
thnx.
see i act like my usual dick out self but do u actually act like urself wherever u go cause i do
do u?

2007-07-24 23:06:21 · 1 answers · asked by FALLEN17 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 and my parents want me to get married soon.They are looking for a suitable boy for me.Theproblem is that all the persons they choose for me i dont like them. I believe that marriage is a relationship based on love..U sud love a person to marry him..but my parents say that love wil come after marriage..My heart is not willing to accept this while my mind says that ur family is suffering because of u as i have youger sisters after me who have to get married too...All my life i have always wanted a person who wud love me .. who wud be my friend..But in reality all i get to see is quite the opposite..I am petrified of marriage..i dont know what to do..Listern to my heart and wait for the right person and upset my parents more..Or sud i make my parents happy by marrying their choice and break my own heart ?

2007-07-24 23:01:47 · 12 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thank you very much
I hope you to want to know me :)

2007-07-24 22:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is smart, talented, gorgeous. He gets good grades, excels at sports, music and art, is well-liked. Basically, he seems perfect. However, deep inside, he is quite insecure, sensitive and emotional. I've always been there for him, helping him, cheering him on, so on and so forth.

Lately he's been on a "losing streak". He's lost a major football competition, debate, grades have been slipping, injured his back again. He's out of luck. And most recently, he forgot to sign up for a very important competition. He's quite depressed now and I really want to help him, but I feel useless.

I'm there for him! He knows that. I've been comforting him but it's not really working, I want to give him good advice and I want him to feel better but he just can't seem to.

Help? Please?

2007-07-24 22:56:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i give him a b/j? xD
if not then what do i do when he orgasms?
and how do boys orgasm if they do wear a condom?

heh confused :]

2007-07-24 22:56:20 · 19 answers · asked by VannaCuppycake 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 22:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Just before the 4th of July he was arrested again because he had been drinking. CPS wants to take his parental rights away. He went to court last friday and was release on the condition that he starts on antabuce. . On monday at noon he went in for his UA. They said he failed for meth and sending it to the lab. He tells me that he didn't do anything but had shared a pepsi with the neighbor..and took a sudafed or something for his cold. But tuesday he is worried? He asked me strang ? tonight like if I had certo or water pills? Will either one of those cover meth in a drug test today that he has? And will the antabuce have one of those false positive results I am hearing about.? The judge is not going to give him another chance which means I lose my rights with my grand kids. That is KILLING me to think about as they are 1 and 2 I have raised for a year now. If that test comes back pos. could it be the medication he said? Or am I not giving him a chance again.? Help worried granny!

2007-07-24 22:53:34 · 9 answers · asked by manifany 1 in Family

shes pretty and nice cool treats me very well not perfect cuz noone is shes been with me for 7 months im sure i have feelings for her and i knwo she does for me to but were both youngh and her mom wants her to move to US with her and i really want her to stay with me what do u peopel think shoudl i risk it all for my love?

2007-07-24 22:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has recently revealed to me that she has had sex w/ her boyfriend of 4 months. I don't know if I'm just overly concerned, but is this time frame considered too early? They have just lost their virginity and claim they are in love, but I find this doubtful considering they are going off the college in 2 months and they don't plan on staying together. I'm just kind of disappointed in her I guess.

2007-07-24 22:48:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you did or do, why?
i say i like you when iam too shy or too scared to say i love you.

2007-07-24 22:48:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

rampant rabbit an now she will not sleep with me! wat have i got to do to get a s**g out of her? i'm going mad!!!!

2007-07-24 22:48:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have no kids and he has 3 kids. the oldest is 17. He doesnt look 40 he looks 28.

2007-07-24 22:43:34 · 21 answers · asked by DeliciousOne 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

after you are an adult if u really dont like ur parents is it morally wrong to never call or visit?

2007-07-24 22:38:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i would like to be able to buy in bulk, have tried everywhere i can think of and am now desperate, please help if you can, x

2007-07-24 22:37:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings