Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

2007-07-24 02:01:22 · 12 answers · asked by bulbul r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some advice on how to stop dwelling in the past, to let go of hurts, disappointments, angry. I need some motivation on trusting people again. My emotions are weak and it's affecting my relationships.

2007-07-24 01:59:25 · 9 answers · asked by Tootsie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-24 01:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live in illinois i pay the standard % of day care for my son. even though its not stated in the divorce papers (i dont know if that matters) i pay what i belive is 1/2 for day care/baby sitter. my problome is that the ex-wife keeps moving him from day care to privet baby sitter back to day care. each time she does this my cost goes up. i now pay the same amount for day care as i do in child suport. in the past couple years my day care cost have doubled. is there anything i can do about this. my son is curently in a privet home day care that cost about 30% more then a reagulr public day care. dose the father have any say in this or are we at the mercy of the mother?

2007-07-24 01:53:03 · 6 answers · asked by jedidiaha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Im saying the toast for my grans 70th birthday. Could someone give me a toast to say. I want it to be more then 5 lines . Please help Im hopeless in toasts

2007-07-24 01:47:06 · 7 answers · asked by Zeta 2 in Family

2007-07-24 01:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by pianoislife 2 in Singles & Dating

Eight years ago I gave birth to fraternal twins, My daughter was a stillbirth (still havent gotten over that). My ex-husband and I are divorced in part because I would not have an abortion, and he was abusive.... I went through the pregnancy by myself and I buried my daughter by myself since I was out in corpus christi Tx. with no family and friends... I'm angry with him because he didnt attend her funeral and when he found out she had passed away he said "I'm glad she died" and hung up the phone. Its been eight years since I buried her and he has never once paid his respects even though he's gone back to Texas several times. I dont want to be angry with him anymore I dont want to hate him anymore but its very difficult when I see him neglecting our children, yet he is father of the year to his wifes daughter when he didnt even want his OWN daughter. I dont want to be angry anymore because I've realized that negative energy is just poison, how do I stop disliking this man?

2007-07-24 01:34:41 · 21 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-24 01:32:41 · 32 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

I tell myself, I did it to myself !!! I love my boys, but sometimes it feels like a mama chicken with "bitties " right there up under you !

2007-07-24 01:26:49 · 13 answers · asked by Scorpius59 7 in Family

and the feelings have changed for this other man i am starting to like him.should i tell him how i feel?

2007-07-24 01:17:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am always looking for different friends and you really become my friend then when you answere one of my questions i will make it the best answere

2007-07-24 01:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by cdgal1 1 in Friends

2007-07-24 01:10:11 · 7 answers · asked by badboy_11011 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i met a guy randomly today at the supermarket.

We were talking and did the regular exchange of numbers.

About a few hours after, he texted and i quote:

'we should grab a coffee' --- just out of the blue in the text conversation

I was not given a time or a place.

Is this actually considered as asking someone out?

2007-07-24 01:04:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 01:00:54 · 14 answers · asked by rogear_chandra 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 20 yo guy. I'd really like to be with a "hot" girl. I never have been, you know, hot like in tv or movies.What guy doesn't? But....I know I'm not nearly as attractive as those girls are. Plus tv models are too perfect to even be real. I know all this in my mind, but I'm still attracted to them.

What should I do? I'm always going to be thinking "what if" right?

Am I really shallow? I dont want to be. Really. Help

2007-07-24 01:00:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there was this guy who i had a crush on a while ago, and he liked me back. we talked alot, and we were even on the same soccer team last month. he always complimented me, and we had our funny moments, and stuff like that. but then when he told me he was moving away one day, i don't know why but i just got really pissed at him. i couldn't ignore him in school because his seat was assigned next to mine. so he kept talking to me, and i was like buzz off. "just shut up ok? hurry up and leave. stop talking to me". so for the rest of the class he was just really silent and looked like he was on the verge of tears. at the time though, i didn't really care. after school he was by my locker. so i pushed him out of the way. then the next day my best friend gave me a note from him, and it said, "i'll meet you again someday".
i don't know what's came over me that day.
i'm thinking about sending him an e-mail saying that i didn't mean what i said, but he might just ignore me. what should i do?

2007-07-24 00:56:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

gradually he convenced me 2 lov him.but besides he felt interested about my friends.after some time he show me that he really loves me and my friends means nothing to him.he do this just to make me jealous.but it crossed the limit.he talked to girls in phone go out with them but didnt let me know that.when i found out i started to avoid him.he noticed and become alart.he then make me feel that i m the one for him.he was always very romantic,caring.but in my sad day he was not there for me.he just say'sorry i wasnt there for u'. he didnt proposed me.just indirectly want to tell me that "u have to start it.first he called me every day.but the gap started to 7days 10days when he called me after so many days he blamed me for not calling him.but i was afraid that if i call him often he will notice that i love him.one day i become feedup with him and without saying anything i stoped calling him.he didnt call me for 2 mounths.10 days ago he called me for2times.should i call hi back?

2007-07-24 00:48:05 · 1 answers · asked by nicol 1 in Friends

I worked in a bar and I had todo it, because, I just wanted the fighting to stop ( now he's a semi-famous musician/busker/one man band on Memphis Beale Street, and I'd love to jam with him again, but he simply doesn't like me anymore and thinks I will hit him again... I emailed him and said I wanted to "back him up", but he took it wrongly...How do I make it up to him... Do you think if I just went to Memphis to play that would put me in danger?

2007-07-24 00:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Basicly, my boyfriend of 7 months went to a lap dancing club with his friends and got a lap dance. When me and him first got together, we had a disscusion about what we would and wouldn't put up with from eachother. I said getting a lap dance was one of them. So, I wasn't really that he had a lap dance that annoyed me, it was more to do with the fact that he went and did something that he knew I wouldn't be comfortable with. If I hadn't told him my thoughts on it, I wouldn't have been half as annoyed with him. I felt like he showed no respect for me. Anyway, the evening after, we were out at a friends, she's just moved into a new house and she had a small party in her back garden. There was a guy there that I use to work with, who's liked me for a while. I quite fancied him too, but nothing ever happened. I got up and started to dirty dance closey with him infront of my boyfriend, then I took his hand and to a seclued spot, started to flirt and gave him a lap dance.

2007-07-24 00:26:12 · 30 answers · asked by kl 1 in Singles & Dating

I'v been telling him how important it is to me and that I need to hear that from him. We've talked and he has agreed to start trying but hasn't done it. Last night we were watching tv and he pointed out a singer he likes and said he thinks she is really pretty, I felt hurt. If he can tell me she is pretty why can't he tell me that I'm pretty. I'm not insecure, I don't need to get compliments from men, I just want to hear it from my husband once in a while. Who wants to live the rest of their life never being told that they are beautiful ever again.

2007-07-24 00:09:06 · 16 answers · asked by kc 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 00:05:56 · 4 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Family

2007-07-24 00:05:03 · 18 answers · asked by Eloïsha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this girl at my school iv liked her for a long time but never really done anything about it. iv been noticing her allot more lately and i want to talk to her but i don't know if she wants to talk to me if she likes me or what she thinks of me. her friends hate me and i don't know what to say. i want to talk to her but i just don't know what to say i don't even know if she'll like me.

thats me..
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2007-07-24 00:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by Nevermind 3 in Singles & Dating

Did it bother you? Did you do it more than once? and after you did it did you dig it as well?

2007-07-24 00:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating