Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

Ok this is kond of a long story so I'll start from the biggining. I told my best friend I was saving up for an iPod video,we both have iPod nanos. So as soon as I tell her she walks away and grabs her cell phone and tells her mom to buy her and iPod video. Then we stop by her mom's work and she says, "Mom you really need to get me an iPod video!" Then I get a phone call that night and it's my friend. She's yelling and screamming. She got an iPod video. It just mad me so mad because I told her I was saving up for one and she tells her mom to get her one and like 2 hours later she has one! My only consolation is that she didn't get the color she wanted. Like that's going to make me feel better. So, do I have a right to be mad or not. Because right now I'm so mad at her that I could....wel, you get the picture.

2007-07-24 06:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i had a quarrel with my girlfriend because of her bad manner which i have corrected her time without number and she wouldn't change but this eventually lead to our our break off, but each time i remember her or see her picture in my box, i always remeber the time we were together and i keep loving her the more. but there a was a certain day i called her on phone, but the ways she reacted and talk to me on that day made me believe that she had not change at all. what should i do? should i go to her and talk toher may she will change her manner or should i forget about her and find another girl.

2007-07-24 06:04:46 · 8 answers · asked by Benonis 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom and her friends are goign on a trip to hawaii and me and their sons who are 16, 17, 17, 18, 18 and me 15. but my 3 older brothers who are 18, 20, and 21 want to come and it may not be as fun bc they are kidna overprotective and i wanna flirt and make out and be the center of attention! lol. so what should i do?

2007-07-24 06:02:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-24 06:01:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

At my age i kno I'm too young to think about marriage and kids. but all of my friends are either married, getting married, have kids or are having kids. It seems like everyone around me is growing up and im stuck being the person who doesnt know what they want in life.

I have never ever had a serious relationship, never longer then 2 months. I guess I just can't help but wonder if things other then jobs and money work out for me?...

Everyone always says its because the right one is out there, and your supposed to be available for when he comes around, and all these wrong guys that you are meeting are making it easier for you too tell when the right guy does come around......

2007-07-24 06:01:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy for a couple of months, things were going great. We had a lot in common, good conversations, and very attracted to each other. We talked on Friday and planned on meeting up on Saturday evening, then just when I was ready to call him, he left an IM message stating that right now he doesn't really have time for a relationship, for he is going to be taking his sons to live with him until their mother gets her life and living situation straightened out. We conversated a little bit online and he was stating that he still wants to be friends, to talk and keep in touch and things could change with the situation, he just doesn't know when, but if and when it does, he would have time to pursue a relationship. I told him that it's difficult to be friends with someone you really like in a more than friend way, for you could also get to know that person better and like them even more, but know there isn't going to be a relationship in the meantime.

2007-07-24 06:00:49 · 14 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Singles & Dating

any 1 need a grl thats a frnd...not a grl frnd!!?

2007-07-24 05:54:56 · 14 answers · asked by cena#1fan 2 in Singles & Dating

she loves me.....right?

2007-07-24 05:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Right now I am stuck in a very difficult situation. The more I think about it the more confuse I get. Well that is why I have turned to yahoo answers again for help. I trust this place and the opinions I get especially from my contacts. The situation is as follows:
My father in law came to my husband when we were in the middle of the move and said to him the following.
F: Why am I not returning your moms phone call. Your mom left her a message twice and she didn't return the phone call. It seems like that I am blaming her for my son's sickness. Just a brief background , my son got really sick after we came from my mother in laws house last week. She didn't tell us anything that she was sick. We took him to the doctor and the doctor confirmed that the type of viral infection he got comes from another person and not from the environment. Well my husband called his mom after 2 3 days and calmly informed them thatour son is sick and tha we took him to the doctors and he said he might wo

2007-07-24 05:52:25 · 8 answers · asked by c 2 in Family

Im not sure if it means anything but I thought i'd ask to make sure...I had this dream about this guy I really really like, I was at his house and everytime he saw'll me he would just stop and stair at me. I would want to say something to him but instead I would just stair back..I felt so happy..does stairing mean anything? Or was it just a dream?
Thank u!

2007-07-24 05:51:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to leave a relationship with out telling the other person and just leaving a "dear john" letter? Even though you are scared of the person and how he will react to the news?? The relationship has made you miserable for a very long time now? You have a 3 yr old to think about. The situation is not a healthy one for you or your child? Is it wrong to pack and leave without saying goodbye?

2007-07-24 05:50:16 · 26 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-24 05:50:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is that a common condition? if i have sex or actually even kiss a girl or anything i feel incredibly guilty to my mom, and my grandparents. i know it sounds weird but im dead serious. i feel like im being very disgusting and betraying my mother and my family. my family is very liberal and has always encouraged me to seek relationships with women, i dont know why i have this problem? is this a normal thing or am i screwed up?


*i become extremely guilty after any encounter with a woman and sometimes even call my mother and tell her that im a horrible son and dont deserve a good mother (never tell her why though she just thinks im crazy)

2007-07-24 05:47:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-07-24 05:47:42 · 1 answers · asked by chicago21 1 in Family

2007-07-24 05:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

It's my girlfriend and she was on her way to the airport in Nigeria to fly home but was in a road accident that killed the driver and left her in a coma. The hospital are as helpful as a ashtray on a motorbike. Any ideas as to how I can help her

2007-07-24 05:45:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-24 05:44:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i just found out two night ago that he has been seeing someone else, his new girlfriend sent me pics. telling me to move on and then she called me later that night crying saying that he was saying i was his cousin and he didnt care that she e-mailed me . she said she knew he was lieing and that is why she called me to find out the truth. well come to find out they had been dating for 9 months before he left me and they are about to move in together and he is telling her that he loves her and he wants to marry her.Did i mintion that we also have an 11 month old1 im so depressed i cant get through this and dont know what to do

2007-07-24 05:44:26 · 34 answers · asked by amanda a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who tends to be rather needy. It got to the point where he was having a 'life crisis' every other day and it was really wearing on me. So I told him that I needed my space.

He acted like he acknowledged my request but his barrage of drama filled crises continued. So I decided that I needed a break and stopped responding. Well now he sends me messages and is either like "I was trying to contact you earlier, but I guess you're busy. I just was going to thank you for being a good friend" or "I'm sorry that my best friend doesn't care for me" or he reminds me that his dad is ill or that he suffers from schizophrenia.

Now he told me that if I don't respond, it's going to be detrimental to his health. It's just wearing on me so bad. I don't like being manipulated. I just feel like he just "calls wolf" all the time to get my attention and he never seems to be satisfied with my attention. How do I confront him about his manipulation? Or what should I do? Thank you!!

2007-07-24 05:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i always thought luv was more for a friend and love was for someone closer like family or a partner. Is it really? Or does it even really matter?

2007-07-24 05:41:53 · 23 answers · asked by vixen 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a hard time keeping a relationship, im a workaholic, some females are very needy but in order to make it some times you have to go the extra mile... i make 6k per month and have a nice place, but i din't get here by working a 9-5 job, they don't get it, so they just walk away... what is the problem, why can females just support us in our carrers.....

2007-07-24 05:40:38 · 21 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing him for 10 months we were both from long term relationships i had been seperated for 8 months him just 2...the entire relationship he has kept his ties with her saying its all her just wanting him back well im not that dumb no one is going to hang on that long without someone enticing them too... last wk we got into a big fight basically broke up he had every oppurtunity to go back to her i even told him too, but he begged me for a solid week to let him come home, i gave in on friday... sunday he had left his phone here and of course i had to snoop (everyone would) well i found texts telling her he missed her!!! wtf???? is going on in his head??? my real question though is how do i get something on him besides the phone thing i dont want him to know i snooped.... i have to get out of this relationship please help me it is damaging my mind my heart and my view of men....PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2007-07-24 05:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by shaunacronan 1 in Singles & Dating

you have invited me on your 20th birthday?

2007-07-24 05:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by cuz he will die soon 2 in Singles & Dating

those affairs always end up hurting somebody and can sometimes destroy lives.

2007-07-24 05:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by freebird 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm still a vergin but im thinking not for long. i'm nervous tho b/c all my friends i talked to said it hurts really bad the fist time.
does it get better or is it just them?

2007-07-24 05:36:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 years before this girl wrote a guy a love letter that said she wanted to marry him and have his kids...and this girl goes away for awhile like 15 months not her own choosing...and when this guy sees this girl for just a moment...he wants to talk to her and he smiles at her and says hi to just her...even though there were a lot of other girls around and he ignored all of them...what do you think he wishes to say to this girl?

2007-07-24 05:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 05:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by tekla 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 05:33:49 · 18 answers · asked by Judy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have any of you played secret sex games with your brother or sister when you were growing up? My wife told me she did it with her brother starting at the age of eight, and they kept it up well into their late teens. And my wife is one of the most well adjusted (and tremendously sexy) people I have ever known. I know that a bunch of you are going to say, "eeeew!" And I am going to hear you say I am sick, because I think it was ok for them to do it. But if any of you have had a similar relationship with a sibling, please let me know about it and how it turned out. My wife said they quit doing it when they were about 18 because they moved out into their respective lives, but she said she still finds him sexy, and that neither one of them were harmed by it. So what do you think? Anyone else done this? And how did it turn out for you?

2007-07-24 05:32:11 · 33 answers · asked by John Timothy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 05:28:18 · 10 answers · asked by morenacairola 1 in Singles & Dating