Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

I had quite sometime to deal with a hurtful relationship.I had to relieve myself of alot of bitterness.When we finally move on,why is it that the average person who does'nt know their true nature is venegful,and spiteful, intentionally hurt women.I am really perplexed at how tedious it can be to find an honest person.It seems like we all have hidden agendas

2007-07-24 03:15:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have someone in my family who always looks me up and down I'm a female and she's a female. I mean if we are all going out I might do it but then I say that's a nice shirt or shoes or something, but this person just looks at me with a weird grin on her face, plus she does it all the time what do you think that means?

2007-07-24 03:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Singles & Dating

I fell madly in love with this guy over two years ago. He said he felt the same, all was great. Since then, we have had our fair share of problems(my divorce), but he stuck by me. I need more commitment from him now, and he just wont give it( He still lives with his parents)I have asked him to move in and let our relationship progress, but he keeps delaying things. If he doesnt want to be with me, surely he should just tell me and let me find someone who will commit! Advice please.x

2007-07-24 03:14:14 · 16 answers · asked by curvypea 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 03:12:15 · 28 answers · asked by melissa f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a year, we dated then we decided to just be friends for a while. We still talk all the time and we are technically commited to eachother. Its almost as if were dating without the term "dating".
I've talked to him about offically dating and being each others and he said that it would not be fair to me since he is leaving for tech school. Personally I dont think its fair to have me wait so long, and not know if we will ever date. I need YOUR advice...Please...

2007-07-24 03:07:37 · 5 answers · asked by Alica 1 in Singles & Dating

if yes, would you recommend them...was it as easy as they say? and what company?
Thanks Damsel in distress..short of cash too :-(

2007-07-24 03:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

or bachelorette party. Invitations haven't been sent or even made for that matter and the girls are acting like it's SO hard to work into their 'busy' lives. I spent my entire weekend working on wedding stuff AND stuff that they're supposed to do. One girl is full of [ex?] boyfriend drama and says, "I'll get around to calling [MOH] someday" [Like there's a lot of days left!] and the other two are stuck up their boyfriends butts and doing only God knows what else because they're pretty much booked EVERY single weekend. MOH can't spare one day for me but, she just took a 'random' four day weekend trip with her loser boyfriend. How does she have time for that and no time for me?? They should've started talking to each other and planning stuff MONTHS ago [It's not like they just found out two days ago] and now it's last minute and all three can't agree on a day that's good for them. They haven't helped me with anything at all. Am I being stupid for nothing?

2007-07-24 03:05:36 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

I am 23 and do not live with my mother .My mom was watching my son while I went to school in the evening.I came home and found an empty bag of chips on the my porch.I asked her if anyone had come over.She said no.She left.

I talked my boyfriend later and he acted as if he didn't want to come over.I had a friend over and then he showed up.He said he had been over at 8pm, that the lights were off then came on and then my mom started talking inside the house and he left.

Why would she lie?

2007-07-24 03:05:09 · 22 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy I know just told me that he would take on the father role for my son, honestly at first I didn;t think much of it. He's sweet and I always had a crush on him (for 4 years), but because there is a 6 to 7 year age difference I didn't think he'd ever like me back. But alot of people say that's a big thing to do or say, (and I agree) for him not to like me, What could that mean? That he's just being a good friend, or something else.

We're Not Close, I just see him once a month

2007-07-24 03:02:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I like was throwing rocks at my house as a joke and one of them shattered a window upstairs and knocked my dad unconscious I'm pretty sure while he was sitting on the toilet. Now I don't know if I should ask her out because my dad's unconscious.

2007-07-24 02:57:10 · 13 answers · asked by Chris L 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex bestfriend stole my crush(exactly my really first love),and now although his gf is my ex bestfriend he still being so nice to me!i never feels like this before.never really really care with a guy except him.Last couple of month while me and his gf is still a bestfriend,he came to my house till midnite,for wrappin his gf gift,i mean her gf still have another 2 bestfriend,why he picked me ?
stupidly,i lied to him.i used to like him,but not now.because my bestfriend likes you.the problem is i meet him almost everyday,because we're in one school,why do i feel he is my dream guy?
hha..i feels like a dummy rite now

2007-07-24 02:54:43 · 3 answers · asked by msdigitalism 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 02:54:24 · 15 answers · asked by Hannah 3 in Singles & Dating

Here is my dress:
http://www.formalsource.com/AURORA%20DPARADISO/ADP_FALL%2007/6859/6859FL.html

Here are the bridesmaids dresses:
http://www.alexiadesigns.com/main/alexia_II.php?p=199

Here is the kilt my fiance is wearing:
http://www.sportkilt.com/departments/mens-sport-kilts/mens-kilts-sport-kilts/us-navy-kilt.cfm?afid=1003

My question is, for a summer wedding, looking at all these together, what colors should I go with for the bridesmaids dresses? Fresh blue with a cream belt is what I was originally thinking, but that blue is kinda dark for summer. Should I do a champagne color or will that be too close to my dress? The fresh blue is the swatch at the bottome next to the navy blue. If you hold the cursor over the colors it tells you what they're called. Any feedback would be great!

2007-07-24 02:51:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-24 02:51:08 · 11 answers · asked by tina48fan 3 in Weddings

Just want to release my unhappiness!

2007-07-24 02:50:49 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Train catcher 3 in Friends

I'm on depo provera. It's the one where you take a shot every 3 months.

I'm a month late on taking the shot and I'm already enjoying sex again. During the times that I have taken this (on and off for the past 3 years), my sex drive has disappeared as a side effect. My fiance is ecstatic that I'm back to normal, but what should I do?

Any advice?

2007-07-24 02:48:12 · 23 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Marriage & Divorce

They start to act weird and pretend they never looked at you once.

Please don’t say maybe the approach is not well presented; I can break the ice pretty well and act myself.

Then they say *WHERE ARE ALL THE REAL MEN HIDING*

2007-07-24 02:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 02:46:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it ok for women to make up with there husband after she has been bitten?

2007-07-24 02:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by marj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After watching the YouTube Democratic debate last night, I really started to wonder why some of you out there feel so strongly about being against gay marriage? Honestly, tell me, how does it affect you? Do you lose sleep at night? If Bill and John are down the street from you and they happen to be married, how does that change your life? It seems to me that people that are against gay marriage are either homophobes or are too insecure with their own beliefs. I just wish some of you would stop trying to convert everyone and stop interfering with people's happiness because your faith has a different view than other people. Do you honestly think it's God's top priority to keep gays from being happy and married? It's nonsense if you ask me!

2007-07-24 02:42:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is the importance of maturity in a marriage??

2007-07-24 02:39:47 · 11 answers · asked by emi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 02:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I got drunk one night and my bf took me to his house and made me get in his bed. He then took my car keys & did not come back till midnight & then slept on the couch for the first time. I checked his messages the next morning & a lady said thanks for a wonderful night, I called her & she admitted that they met up and described my car & she was also told I was his sister. He met her drunk one night at the club while i was with him & I did not want to act unlady like because I was around all my friends & when he is drunk he does not care who he talks too. but I told him not to follow this call up after that night. He is in the construction business & works as a electrician. he denies seeing her but thoughout the day of me continuing 2 talk about it, he said he talks to some people to get on the inside of better paying jobs but would not have taken as far as having sex. he is known to be a liar & for some reason i want to believe him. I give him sex anytime he wants it until he is tired.

2007-07-24 02:36:25 · 2 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have been married 2.5 yrs had many problems.My husband cheated on me and we seperated for 3 months.During those 3 months i had a fling with my ex.bf who had been my first bf, kiss, and everything else.I ended the fling when my husband wanted to try make things work.Recent DNA test showed my husband not be my sons father so the only option is my ex.bf the only other person i was intimate with.My son is only 1 month old has been in/out of hospital doctors cant figure out what problem is.
I found out my ex.bf’s on and off live in gf was pregnant about same time i was about month ahead of me .But their child died shortly after birth from unknown complications.So i called my ex.bf cell phone leaving a message explaining everything telling him to get call me ASAP.
Well now i have her the live in on/off gf who is now his wife of 6 months calling my cell harrassing me for the last 2 days or so.
She thinks i know where he is but i dont!Do i try to reason with her another option..?

2007-07-24 02:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have 3 boys and i really want another child. not just because i want a girl before anyone says that although that would be nice. what do you suggest? i am dreaming of leaving him to have another one. help.

2007-07-24 02:30:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Either i don't know how to be a good person, or this is just abnormally hard for me. Family, friends and God just seem to be on one page, but loving my boyfriend at the same time.. i don't know
Cus when i look at him, i forget who i am, where i came from. He steals my pain away, but i can't forget what made me who i am. I seem to forget the importance of family, friends and God.
I JUST noticed this yesterday, and i'm trying to change.
I do realize the benefits of the "single life" but i have no intentions at ALL to break up with him.. cus well.. i love him and he has become a part of my life.

I just need some advice.. help!

2007-07-24 02:27:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

IF you were gettig physically and emotionaly abuse but you didn't feel you had any friends or family that could help you out of the situation. YOu love them and have a baby by them but enough is enough. I just feel stuck I really live paycheck to paycheck. I just need some advice.

2007-07-24 02:27:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went off for a weekend with old friends,just hung out,laughed ,caught up ,did a little drinking and did some dancing.Just innocent fun,but she's upset because I didn't call and check in at night ,we were out pretty late,and that I danced with other women.
The danceing was just friends,just beacuse we did some slow dances and fun dancing where you kind of rub up against each other,it meant nothing,nothing romantic or sexual at all.I love my wife and only her,I've never cheated and never will,but she feels like I did her wrong.

2007-07-24 02:25:24 · 25 answers · asked by sch1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding is in October 2008. I know its early, but I've found the perfect one. My only reservation is I don't want it to come in and just sit around collecting dust, or be charged a holding fee. Thanks!

2007-07-24 02:25:09 · 12 answers · asked by BTB 10/04/08 4 in Weddings

They are in my opinion Jezebels

2007-07-24 02:05:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating