2007-07-24 03:12:15 · 28 answers · asked by melissa f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. It is a form of infidelity.
2007-07-24 03:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, How would you feel if it was him receiving the text message and naked pictures? Put yourself in his shoes! My husband and I have the same problem. We have started canceling because he is the one receiving the text messages and naked pictures.
The canceler explained to him first to put himself in my shoes. Would he like it if I was the one receiving the info? He explained as a man and wife. The time spent chatting with other opposite sex is taking from your spouse's time. It is not cheating but a form of cheating them your time.
I hope this helps. It has really help us. He understood when it was the outside looking in on the issue.
2007-07-24 10:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_as_pie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer would depend upon your relationship. If your husband has no problem with you texting and trading photos with other men....then it is not cheating. However, if this is something that you hide from your spouse, I would have to say it is cheating or at least borderline infidelity. The best way to determine whether or not your behavior is appropriate is to ask yourself if you would be upset if the situation were reversed and your hubby was doing this.
2007-07-24 10:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating your husband out of some of your sexual attention. You are giving away a piece of your self that he only should recieve.
Am not sure what it would be called legally, if that is your question.
Short of a physical touching union maybe by law it is not considered cheating.
2007-07-24 13:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you do that you feel that you have to HIDE from your spouse because you know they would have an issue with it is cheating. If I saw flirty txt messages and naked pics of women on my husband's phone, we'd probably be close to a divorce. You should be taking that time and energy and flirting with your husband!
2007-07-24 10:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok maybe not cheating, but that all depends on how your spouse percieves it. I know for a fact that I would be hurt and angry to find out my spouse was recieving those types of things in email or on his cell phone...it starts to look like there is more to it and if you act a certain way that is how it will be perceived wether you actually commit infidelities or not.
If it looks like a duck, acts like a duck then it must be a duck........understand?
2007-07-24 10:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, but I don't consider it physically cheating (obviously). But I do consider it mentally cheating on your husband. When you marry, you should only have eyes for your husband (OR wife, should it be the other way around). It isn't respectful nor a loving thing to do, to lust over other men. It is perverted. If you want to enjoy other men in this way, then you should be single.
2007-07-24 10:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you saw this on your husbands phone? I think you have a little bit of guilt already or you would'nt be coming to us for help. Your communication in your marriage must not be the best because this is something your hidding from him. ( If it were me, I would have shown him the first time I got the picture. At least you would have known his reaction from the beginning.) To me it's cheating.
2007-07-24 10:24:46 · answer #8 · answered by kellylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to understand why you are receiving pictures from other men. I am sure many men will send pictures just because they can. What are you doing with them? Do they turn you on? Or are they just sending them to you because they can.
With out regard to the reason, I think this is risky behavior. Nothing good can come from having men send you naked pictures. You may not understand their ( the men who send you these pictures ) motives and there could be trouble ahead!
2007-07-24 10:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Willie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have a choice (men too) to have a red light, yellow light, or green light given to the opposite sex.
Sounds like you've got the GREEN light on... that kind of flirting can move to the next level in a heart beat.
yes, you are cheating and if you don't think it's cheating... keep it up and you'll probably end up REALLy cheating.
2007-07-24 10:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's dishonest.
Why are these men sending you inappropriate text messages? If they had any respect for you, then they would recognize the ring on your finger....
And, if you had any common sense, you'd put a end to it before you husband discovers these text messages.
2007-07-24 10:17:46 · answer #11 · answered by darkening_hope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋