I am 23 and do not live with my mother .My mom was watching my son while I went to school in the evening.I came home and found an empty bag of chips on the my porch.I asked her if anyone had come over.She said no.She left.
I talked my boyfriend later and he acted as if he didn't want to come over.I had a friend over and then he showed up.He said he had been over at 8pm, that the lights were off then came on and then my mom started talking inside the house and he left.
Why would she lie?
2007-07-24 03:05:09 · 22 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe she didn't know your boyfriend came over. Is your boyfriend claiming to have had a conversation with your mother? At 23, you are an adult and the best way to get to the bottom of things is to just go straight to the source and ask your mom. Hopefully, it was all just a misunderstanding. Peace and God bless.
2007-07-24 03:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds very suspicious to me. How much do you trust your mother or your boyfriend? I don't get the last part of the question. Are you saying that he came in the house?
I guess if you have questions then you probably already have some mistrust. Keep your eyes open and be sneaky about it.
2007-07-24 10:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your bf say she greeted him? Maybe he was there, but she didn't know? So, when he heard her talking inside he left.. She could have been on the phone.. I don't think she lied. Maybe he should call before he comes over that way you or your mom will be expecting him... Good luck
2007-07-24 10:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be any number of reasons. Maybe they had an arguement, maybe he was asking her for permission to marry you, maybe they are having an affair. Maybe he was just waiting on the porch for you and she never knew he was out there. Some of the reasons could be good, and some could be bad. For whatever reason, they did not want you to know he was there. Wait and see if it happens again.
2007-07-24 10:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something happened that she didn't want to talk about. It could be bad, or they could be planning a surprise party for you and they want to keep it a secret. If they keep acting that way, call them out on it. Ask them what's going on.
2007-07-24 10:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by LSU_Tiger23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either something is going on between them, she forgot, they're planning a surprise birthday party, or you're really jealous so both of them as a reaction just denied it.
2007-07-24 10:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be a surprise in store for you... They might be planning a party for you... or a gift... or maybe your bf wanted to talk to your mom about something personal that he couldn't feel comfortbale talking to you about (maybe because it related to you... think marriage or children).
2007-07-24 10:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Blazen Elite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't see him...he didn't knock, he said the lights were off, flicked on then he heard your mum and left. No speak of her opening the door?
2007-07-24 10:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she was getting laid when he came to the door. Momma obviously has sex, because you exists. Dont ask any more questions you may scar yourself for life.
2007-07-24 10:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by the guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure who is playing games. Why didn't he knock on the door when he heard her talking?
Nothing adds up.
2007-07-24 10:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋