Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

i caugth my husband flirting online,and it really bothers me alot..how can i deal with it?

2007-07-24 22:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by waki! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im read a question about women can not give 100% to husband and child and i wonder why women need time for her self? im not make fun to that women i just dont under stand. when im marry i want to give every thing to my man and my children! thats why im get marry for some day.

2007-07-24 22:32:10 · 14 answers · asked by happy_pinay 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently heard that since finishing school (3yrs ago) some of my former high school class mates have already gotten engaged, married and have had babies (or planning to). Now we are only about 21 or so. I was just wondering on whether people still feel the need to get married to get validation (or some sort of meaning) in their lives? I thought ppl who are in their early twenties are ideally exploring life, meeting different ppl, pursuing their career etc..
Im not judging but was just wondering whether ppl like this neglected to bear this in mind or just needed immmediate validation in their lives.

2007-07-24 22:31:59 · 7 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As of now we have about 150 on the guest list. 80 of which are people that he was friends with long ago or were fraternity brothers.. and these people live in different parts of the country. 70 people are our close friends and family (20 his 50 mine-he doesnt have aunts/uncles/cousins).

How do I make this fair for both of us at a reasonable price?

2007-07-24 22:29:26 · 14 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

im so jealous girl i dont like my bf to spend time with his cousin and everytime he goes out of the house i get mad and make him sad
its annoying me alot but i cant change it
plz help me

2007-07-24 22:28:42 · 10 answers · asked by like no other 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy you don't talk to / don't know much about, asked you to his formal,
How would you react and feel?
and would you go to the formal with him?

2007-07-24 22:25:05 · 21 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 22:04:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 22:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

plese mail it to my yahoo!!!!

2007-07-24 21:58:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I get my boyfriend EVERYTHING he wants.... His x-box... computer... desk... I am working for money for his 37-42" tv.... yet tonight I woke up and he wasn't here... all I ask is that he not smoke because I dont want him to get sick or die from it.... and yet again I found him at his friends house smoking thinking he is soo cool for sneaking out when he thought I was asleep..... What can I do about him? This is not the first time and probably not the last....but it hurts that he keeps lying... And I cant stop crying over him.... plz help me

2007-07-24 21:56:34 · 26 answers · asked by *~HOOTERZ~* 2 in Singles & Dating

Ohkay because my friend said she jerked off my friend vince. && that vince tells her that if she did somehting. Is he playing or was he really asleep. Because she says she saw him moving his toes. and she moved him alot to jerk him. I was really curious. I would be awake if somebody did that too me. Would you?? So what do ya think?? Is he playing it off?

2007-07-24 21:55:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this women. I fooled around with her when we were younger and never went any further than that. That was about 8 yrs ago. Now I am living with my girl friend and have kids. She also lives with her boyfriend and also has kids. We also live in the same apt. complex 2 bldgs. apart. We see each other often. I hang out with her current boyfriend. Well the other night she told me she still thinks about me. I also do the same. I wonder What If? What could have been? I talk to her every night while I am at work and she told me she has feeling for me and the more I talk to her I am starting to have more and more feeling for her. She was engaged but she called it off since have started talking. What am I to do? Her boyfriend doesn't appreciate her and my girlfriend has become a total nightmare over the last couple of months. Please help.

2007-07-24 21:54:37 · 25 answers · asked by CRUNKMAN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 21:51:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 21:49:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's is this girl i like at school and hav liked her for a while. i wasn't sure if she liked me but a couple of days ago on of her guy friends told me that he knew that she sort of likes me and thinks i'm alright...
What should i do now...what should be my next step/action?????

plz help!!.....ps..we're teenagers and friends.. she asked me to the formal in 18 months..

2007-07-24 21:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 21:47:28 · 9 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is my best friend. That's what we are, officially. We used to go out, we actually started off dating, but then we went to college and decided that the relationship wasn't going anywhere, because we hadn't spent a whole lot of time together (end of senior year, he lives on the other side of LA (which is huge with traffic, takes more than two hours to get from his house to mine with traffic). So we're best friends, talk at least once a week on the phone (he often calls me), exchange the occasional "I love you."
We get home for the summer, and I hang out with him a lot because he's in my group of friends. But whenever we hang out, he's always sitting next to me, has his arm around me, pays me more attention than anyone else in the room, plays with my hair, et cetera. I like the attention, but I'm not sure what he means by it. Anyone have any ideas?

2007-07-24 21:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by senoritatito 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 21:38:11 · 4 answers · asked by original bad boy 3 in Singles & Dating

I am cheating on my husband and he is cheating on me, now I just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me with my friend who is cheating on my husband.
This is so weird! if anyone helps me I will give you best answers as much as i can PLEASE!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-24 21:36:09 · 21 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married for 10 years and have 2 kids.We share a good relationship.But of late, my hubby is hiding his email passwords from me. Since i am a little egositic, i dont want to ask him directly.It hurts to know that he is not open with me.He was never like this earlier.I dont suspect any extra marital affairs but at the same time not able to rule out the chance either.genuine help appreciated.thanks

2007-07-24 21:34:10 · 25 answers · asked by shiraji 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ughhh this boy wants to makeout with meh and i dont know what to do ive never made out before and lord knows i dont want to gag the poor boy help please

2007-07-24 21:31:04 · 8 answers · asked by Drop Dead Courtney 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive always been physically attracted to this one girl form my old school, we recently graduated and last night she answered a myspace survey i posted with some unusual answers. Turns out this girl is willing to do anything with me, and I mean anything when I say that. 1st, 2nd, 3rd, home base... Im not going to lose my virginity to her, because I want that to be someone special, but should I go for the other things, like handjob etccc? I mean up to 3rd base of course? Shes got a banging body, latina, an ok face, excellent boobs, and butt. I just dont know if I should move on it or not, but if I did I could do it imediatley, i mean tomm if I wanted haha... I dont want her to become attached, she said it would only be to experiment, but i know she has a crush on me... But my horny, interested in exploring self is kinda leaning towards it, i need help! Guys, i need you on this one, help a fellow man out here. She sent me pics of her boobs too...

2007-07-24 21:24:56 · 4 answers · asked by Lone Wolf 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 21:19:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i noticed that when im with my gf i hardly have anything to say but when im with any other girl i can hardly shut up and it wasnt like this with any of my other gfs...is this normal

And is there any conversation starters you could tell me

2007-07-24 21:05:58 · 1 answers · asked by idkimbored 2 in Singles & Dating

My cousins/aunt came over for two weeks this July and they left 1 hour ago. They live all the way in Tunisia Africa. I am crying my eyes out trying not to think of how things are going back to the way they were before they came. My house/lifestyle changed for the two weeks they were here. I loved it! Now they are gone and its only me, my bro, and my mom living the same life. They come to America every 4 or 5 years!!! I come to Tunisia every year or two. How do i get over it like i usually do?

2007-07-24 20:56:15 · 2 answers · asked by iMarty 4 in Family

So this guy I have had a thing for (mutually according to him) told me to delete my myspace and I did. He couldn't do the distance between us and decided to cut me loose romantically, but attempted to keep me his friend. I have been "playing" with him all evening and just a few minutes ago he told me to get rid of myspace, that if I wanted him I would get rid of it. I have never used it to "hook up" with anyone or intended it that way. He actually encouraged me to recreate myspace as a way to meet new people and make new friends. He has a myspace and did not delete his when I deleted mine for him. I really like him. He's the only man on the planet I would actually marry. What does all this mean? Comments? Questions? Bizarre.

2007-07-24 20:40:28 · 9 answers · asked by Emmah 4 in Singles & Dating

If your husband put lotion on your feet every night, would that make you happy? Would you be willing to put lotion on your husband’s feet? Yes, no, maybe?

If no, why? If yes, why? And the maybe’s, well, I guess your thinking about it.

The reason I am asking is that I put lotion on my wife’s feet pretty much whenever I am home. I am a truck driver, so there are a few nights a month that I don’t get to put the lotion on.

I have asked my wife if she would return the favor and put lotion on my feet. She said no. She then said that if I don’t want to put lotion on her feet, then I don’t have to. But that just leads up to the silent treatment, etc. Not fun.

What would you do?

2007-07-24 20:16:49 · 11 answers · asked by Xtruckerwannabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex dumped me july 2nd. she told me that she doesn't feel the same way anymore. That same night she came home and than left after 20minutes of talking. Than she ended up being with another guy that night who she works with and now they are living together. I knew the guy he is 20yrs old. It is now 23 days later and all her stuff is out my house that me and her lived in and i find out that this kid liked her for a long time and she did not know untill the day we broke up. he has already told her he loves her but she didn't say it back to him. I have lost over 26lbs bc i cant eat sleep or anything. I miss her so much and i feel like i cant do anything to change her mind on what she has done and make her come back to me. We hve been together for 6yrs and for her to just drop me like nothing. i hate myself so much. i need help.

2007-07-24 20:02:38 · 5 answers · asked by stillmatic_3g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 23 years old.. I've had 3 girlfriends in my life... and I've been cheated on my every single one... I feel like I've been kicked in the gut again... My 2nd girlfriend really came off like she was truthful.. and I believed her.. and got burnt... I did the same thing with my 3rd girlfriend... I just found out she was cheating on me... What am I doing wrong? I have treated this girl like my life, constant attention, our parents thought we would get married one day and they always end up leaving for a fling...and the fact that she lied is devastating... she was my best friend for years before we went out... Shes 25 and I'm 23... I thought dating older gave me a more mature girl who wouldn't cheat... Now I'm bit by the same bug again

2007-07-24 20:01:17 · 7 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

How many single people , after many relationship (or marr./div.) and life's experiences falled in love again? It's easy to happen or not? and way?

2007-07-24 19:58:07 · 4 answers · asked by nonick 2 in Singles & Dating