i caugth my husband flirting online,and it really bothers me alot..how can i deal with it?
2007-07-24 22:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by waki! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
regardless of what others may say, this type of thing is actually very dangerous ground. my ex was doing that and i thought it was harmless, but he eventually ended up meeting a girl he had been flirting with online. tell your husband how much this bothers you and try to nip it in the bud asap. if he refuses, he's not being reasonable and you might have another problem on your hands...
2007-07-28 21:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by tiosharaveen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is ask him to stop. Is this an on-line game or single hot line?
It is very hurtful when this happens, no matter how many people tell you that it's only flirting. Flirting can lead to other things. You want him to flirt with you, and you alone.
You're probably having icky feelings, like your husband is cheating on you. But you know you can't control him or tell him what to do.
You know it's impossible to prevent someone from going on-line. He can go to the library, friend's house, etc. Talk with him and let him know how you feel. You have this gross feeling whenever you look at him. This icky feeling makes you want to get away. The decision to stop is up to him.
Another thing, do things for yourself from now on (even if he stops flirting.) Take an hour walk, go to the park and read, go to the library and browse the magazine section, etc.
I know how this feels.
2007-07-25 05:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lighthouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mrs Bobbitt will be able to handle this case if he flirt physically. As, for online flirt, so far, no one has tried it yet - maybe, you could be the first! - try removing that naughty fingers, one-by-one until it can satisfy you the he doesn't flirt n-line anymore - but, just try to limit to the fingers only ..... so that he can't flirt on line. However, if he go on the phone, try do something to his voice box or the tongue - if he use telepathy - then try the famous Singapore Curry Murder style.... kah² kah² kah!
2007-07-25 11:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are yes, some take it past flirting. Many reasons why but, if you approach him seriously and say how much it bothers you and it makes you feel insufficient then I would he would stop out of his love & respect for your feelings. If he does not, you may want to part ways with him
2007-07-25 13:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting online can be a game for some, but I would think that it is a big wakeup call, or giant neon sign, if you will saying , "Something is wrong here".
2007-07-25 06:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
option 1-pay him back, you flirt with other guys online.
option 2-you swallow your anger and wait until he bored with the girls.
option3-tell him face to face that you are not happy and very upset, coz you are jealous and feel hurt.
2007-07-25 05:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by moonrider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting online is like cheating to me...you need to talk to him about it...marriage is sacred and he shouldnt have to flirt with someone regardless if online when he is married.
2007-07-25 05:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is hurting you, and ask him how he would feel if it were you doing the flirting.
2007-07-25 05:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but i never flirt maybe ur husband too despo and pervert must try to control him!!! or u just divorced with him bah
2007-07-25 05:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deal with it by bringing it out into the open....
You have to communicate how you feel with your hubby
2007-07-25 06:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋