im so jealous girl i dont like my bf to spend time with his cousin and everytime he goes out of the house i get mad and make him sad
its annoying me alot but i cant change it
plz help me
2007-07-24 22:28:42 · 10 answers · asked by like no other 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you can, it comes down to you and how you pick who you love. It would seem two things are going on here, ether you've picked a guy you can't trust, or you can't trust yourself enough to know weather your doing the right thing to make him trust you. Ether way your only help is to talk more honestly with him about, and him with you... if not then your going to have to let go your not ready to trust people or yourself...
2007-07-26 10:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i take it you must not trust him. If you dont then theres no since in being with him. But if you trust him then you need to stop and think is getting jealous about him going out worth losing him? if not then you need to stop and open your eyes your going to lose him if you dont stop and you cant say you cant because cant cant do anything you can do whatever you put your mind to ask him to help you by talking to you and letting you get to know his friends and family alittle more
Good Luck with everything
2007-08-01 15:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Have exactly the same problem. I'm so jelous it even freaks me out! Only advice I've got is that you should learn to control your jelousy. Ask yourself why you are jelous. Is it because of a previous relationship that ended badly, maybe becuase your previous bf cheated? Then realise that you cant compare this relationship with a previous one, nor can you compare your bf to a previous bf - thats what I do.
You need to learn to trust your bf.
2007-08-01 22:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rissiepit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are twp types of jealousy. if you see your man with another woman, you feel jealous either because
- you think that in his mind he wants to sleep with her. if you believe your man might think this way, then you should be jealous for sure.
- you think that in her mind she wants to sleep with but his heart is with you. then your jealousy here in not justified as long as you are confident of his faithfulness.
2007-08-01 21:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think he's getting it on with his cousin? just be rational they're cousins. anyway just make a concious effort to control your jealousy. think it out, he's not going to leave you for his cousin.
2007-08-01 19:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell urself that ur bf wont go out with his cuz. if hes goin out with u then why would he want to go out with anyone else. i mean his cuz??? would u date ur cuz?? seriosly
u have to just chill out and take things easy. THink of everything great about u
2007-08-01 17:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by DaniKay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decuss the problem with him....and see where it takes yall...
he really liked you then he would be with you all the time.. but if he leave's you to go to his cousin's house then he aint worth dating... so find someone new...
2007-08-01 13:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by carharttcutie28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you not trust your bf?? or cant you not trust yourself?? if you dont trust your bf then i think yor just making your own horror in life., i mean trust is one of the key to strengthen your relationship
2007-08-01 15:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by rheavyel2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,its his cousin,so how can you get jealous?and are we talking girl or guy?
2007-08-01 20:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by defile_steffie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him..
2007-08-01 22:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by maymol_tm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋