Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

what's the easiest way to put 5 parents' names on the wedding invitation? we are hosting the event, but wanted to put these 5 people on the invitation:

mr. and mrs. bride's parents
groom's mom
groom's dad and wife (stepmom of groom)

i appreciate any advice you have. thank you!

2007-07-24 19:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by Paul Y 2 in Weddings

Well, I really liked this boy I met on my birthday. We really got along great, and we talked on the phone almost every night and texted constantly after that. He lives in another state, and as time goes on I'm finding out more and more things about him that I don't like, such as he has hooked up with a different girl every night this week, and he calls me when he's drunk. Is he just too much of a player and idiot to mess with, or should I still hold hope?

2007-07-24 19:06:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and I have never had a relationship because I dont like to give it up right away. I date guys all the time, but as soon as we are alone together they expect something. If i dont provide it, they find some other college girl who will.

I dont dress provacativly and i am not overtly sexual. But i have big blonde hair, green eyes, and a naturally large chest so i only get hit on by the wrong type of guy i think...Is this true? Or is it just every guy that needs it within the first two weeks??? I really dont want an STD or to be seen as easy though...

2007-07-24 19:04:54 · 15 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Singles & Dating

physically and mentally, what do u like in your man??

2007-07-24 19:02:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yea i love him emotionally but as a person not so much..he means the world to me but he never treats me rite he says he dont like to show his love for me were we truly meant to be if we in love then you hear people say if you really love him you can work on i but aint **** to work on he ist wat i want him to be are we truly that perfect couple..i dnt want to break up with him i know he want care or at least thats the way he will act i want somhing more somone who doesnt have a problem treating me with respect and love..how do i let somthin like this go..will i be making a mistake by letting him go for somone else even if he does treat me like im not worth more than the **** on the bottom of his shoe...no we neva had sex. but yea like i was saying he just never show his tru side and see im the type of gurl that needs attention and love shown towards me or i feel like life isnt worth liveing the way i live it. please help me while i need to know how to let our serious thing go...

2007-07-24 19:01:07 · 2 answers · asked by SickChik96 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to ask this one guy out but i dont know how what typ of girls do guys like? plz help!

2007-07-24 19:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This may sound weird, but my crush and his friend BOTH flirt with me...Sometimes they will play fight over me...like one says "she think I am so sexy" and my crush will say "no, you have it all wrong...she thinks I am the sexy one"...They confuse me. Plus, my crush's friend talks to me more than my crush...I dont understand this...

2007-07-24 18:58:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For engagment he has got me a ring,
9cr white gold diamond bridal swirl set you can find the exact ring at
http://www.shiels.com.au/ProductDetail.aspx?p=16&np=14&id=1077
I hope the link works.

2007-07-24 18:58:44 · 28 answers · asked by Tammy848 2 in Weddings

Hi,
I am very confused lately, I have been in love for about a year, me and my girfriend went out for a month during that time we had sex numerous times, we are both in our 20's, after the first month she had to move out of state, and its been a long year, we have been talking over the phone a lot , she will be coming back here next week or two , but now she says she doesnt want to have a sexual relation anymore and she wants us to date from the begining like we had never had sex or something, she also says she has found God and now would not have sex before marriage, what should I do, I really love her a lot and in the past year I have waited for her honestly she never told me this before, its very hard for me because a couple of months ago we were sharing thoughts on how many times we would make love when she get here, and now she tells me she cannot do it, and now she wants to know if I still love her or respect her.? what about respect for me and my feelings? what should i do ?

2007-07-24 18:57:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I was wondering...Do any of the guys here wish that we -gals- would be more modest... Not wear such tight revealing colthing...

Just wondering


And do you like tight shirts or a girl just wearing a plain T-Shirt?

2007-07-24 18:54:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll be going to college in a month or so in another city, so my girl situation has become very confusing. Not only are there 2 girls, I can't read one of them.

Girl 1-- She is going to the same college I am and I've known her about a month. We've gone out a couple times on our own (even though they weren't officially dates) and a couple times in a group. We hit it off well, but I can't tell for sure if she likes me. We flirt a lot and she texts me 2-3 times a day and is very eager to hang out (she usually makes the plans).

Girl 2-- Is going to college 500 miles away from me. We haven't actually been alone together, but I'm 100% sure she likes me. We have a date on Thursday. Our chemistry is amazing and we have so much in common its scary.

Both are awesome and I honestly like both. Ladies, from the looks of it, girl #1 must like me correct?

2007-07-24 18:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by The Dating Guru 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for six years and my wife's and I's sex life is minimal. When we talk, she tells me she has no sex drive and doesn't know how to make it better. She swears to me that she is still very attracted to me but it's to the point it is effecting our marriage. Can anyone give suggestions on how to increase her sex drive? We have tried pornography, which works but it is a temporary fix. Any Idea's?

2007-07-24 18:52:45 · 17 answers · asked by big daddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My family, friends relatives, boss are unusual n backbiting despite being good at front whereas I am so friendly, I show closeness and behave very sincerely and with very positive attitude. I can't believe this. Please advise how I tackle such things?

2007-07-24 18:50:54 · 5 answers · asked by Amar 2 in Friends

oh my gosh.
whts with them?!
do they not know that their parents work their butts off for them to shop at "hollister" & "abercrombie&fitch", and get a cell phone, and get your nose pierced?!
its been bothering the crap outta me.
daddy buys her everything, and she comes back around and treats him like dirt?
whats happening!
is paris hilton being a bad role model?
nicole richie?
please tell me :-(

2007-07-24 18:48:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i wuz messin with this guy && this wuz goin on 4 like a very long time we weren't goin out tho. anywayz we get into fight and during the fight he told me wuz goin 2 start messin with my best friend that tore me apart i told him i didn't care but i did anywho he startz talkin 2 her && i tell my friend how i felt about it && she understood wat i wuz saying so she dropped him. now hes all in my face blaming me && tellin that i must really like him 4 me 2 tell my friend not 2 talk 2 him && all this other crap i do like him tho...idk wat 2 do can i get some advice?

2007-07-24 18:47:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner wants me to be more active when we are having sex, but i get really embarressed because i dont know what to do. I try moving and getting a rythm going that feels good but i just cant seem to, everything i try just doesnt work, it gets my partner fustrated and thinking i dont want to have sex or that im not trying and i lose more confidence. please help me, any tips or advice is greatly appreciated!!! I want to be able to satify him without him having to do all the work.

2007-07-24 18:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the perfect girl in a guys mind, how do they act, look, even the color of their hair.
I don’t know how to be around them, I don’t know if they like girls to be hard to get and ditsy, or quit and innocent. I’m 6ft tall with big brown eyes, thin, long brown hair, and I’m very friendly, innocent, intelligent, and sweet…but is this guys look for? I always hear that they love blondes that are ditsy and fake, is that really true? What is the dream girl.

2007-07-24 18:44:36 · 24 answers · asked by Rae 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 18:43:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the perfect girl in a guys mind, how do they act, look, even the color of their hair.
I don’t know how to be around them, I don’t know if they like girls to be hard to get and ditsy, or quit and innocent. I’m 6ft tall with big brown eyes, thin, long brown hair, and I’m very friendly, innocent, intelligent, and sweet…but is this guys look for? I always hear that they love blondes that are ditsy and fake, is that really true? What is the dream girl.

2007-07-24 18:43:29 · 4 answers · asked by Rae 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend wants 2 kegs of beer, but I don't like beer, so we're also planning to have a bar with a choice of a few different mixed drinks, complete with a bartender.

I like Tequila Sunrise and Sloe Screws, so those are already on the list, but I'd like to have about 10 options. I'm not a big drinker, so I don't know many drinks. If you were choosing the mixed drinks, which ones would you choose?

Also, I've never used a keg before. How many people would one keg serve? Or I guess the more appropriate question would be how many cups will one keg fill?

2007-07-24 18:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by Queen Queso 6 in Weddings

I've been dating my boyfriend now for about 4 years, most of his family I get along with well but they have a lot of problems. I worry about getting sucked into their drama when I just want a life with my boyfriend. After 4 years together engagement and children come up a lot in conversation. His mother is an alcoholic and a gambling addict who has walked out on her family. She's made very sefish decisions that have driven her family into bankruptcy and shows no remorse for her actions. If my boyfriend and I have kids one day I wouldn't want her to have any part in their lives. I wouldn't want them even knowing she existed because I wouldn't trust her around kids. She's proven herself to be an extremely reckless, irresponsible and untrustworthy person. My boyfriend understands this and agrees with me but I worry that it will create problems down the road. Should your significant other's family play a role in whether you choose to take on a more serious relationship?

2007-07-24 18:42:51 · 6 answers · asked by dolce 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

These 2 teenaged girls who didn't even know each other were about to fight because the boy was cheating. The girl should've confronted the boy, not the other girl. The other girl didn't know the boy was a cheater. Why do people like to play mind games with their partners & then the one being played confronts the wrong person?

2007-07-24 18:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend has been doing alot of the crying wolf thing. meaning all lasted year when more ppl were not lookin at her she would try to kill her self(meaning cutting or taking pills that aren't for her) or say one of her really close friends died. she told me one day that her best friend in the world died and i was like "OMG thats soo sad!! i'm so sorry to hear that!!" then a week later she lets me meet the friend how "died" and she was alive and very annoying. then bout a 3 weeks ago one of her friends really did died and i was like. "really?! omg.. wait i hear this before. what did she "died" from now? a lieing friend? haha. thanks for the laugh. tell her i'll meet her in a week." i found out by a mad friend that the person really did died. i talk to her after words i was like" i'm really sorry!! for saying what i did and acting really cold like" now she giving me the cold sholder. i'm i a bad friend caz i didn't believe her???

2007-07-24 18:38:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We had a cd that I had to cash out to pay some bills but I also spent alot of the money on me. The CD was $2,000.00 and there is only $400.00 left I don't have the exact amount that I spent on myself but it mostly went for bills. I want what is mine by law, but I also want to pay her back for some of the money I spent on myself. Her 401k is about $5,000.00.

2007-07-24 18:38:15 · 20 answers · asked by mkhab2003c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 18:37:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-24 18:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by rya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am Hispanic 42yo. divorced, no kids. I am attempting to date very attractive women between 25-35yo., but there seems to be a stigma on the age, and they consider me "too old". I am average looking (slim, not muscular), college educated, and have a job. I would like to have a family. What could I possibly concentrate on to offer a younger woman, to be of additional interest, since there is the age factor, and I am not a Brat Pitt... more like average Joe, and not rich.
I used to think that with a good job, good morals, no bad habits could be enough, but *hehehe*, does not seem to be the case. I also tend to argue that older men are more mature, more focused, more respectful, but it does not seem to cut it either =).

2007-07-24 18:30:03 · 15 answers · asked by kvasir40 1 in Singles & Dating

i do like her, but i just don't wanna marry her!

2007-07-24 18:28:53 · 28 answers · asked by Ehsan X 1 in Weddings

an abusive boyfriend/husband change?

2007-07-24 18:26:55 · 22 answers · asked by C12H22O11 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My sons (he is 16) girl friend called him & asked if she could come over for a while. He asked me & I said we were getting ready to cook dinner, but yeah she could join us for dinner. I asked him after he got off the phone if she was coming over. He said yes. I change my plans on what I was going 2 make because my hubby was working so he wouldn't be here, I was just going to make something fast for me & my 2 kids. But since she was coming over I didn't want her 1st dinner here 2 be some quicky dinner that didn't have much thought. So I made grilled steak & basil pasta. I get dinner all ready & tell my youngest to go & tell his brother & girlfriend that dinner is ready. My youngest comes in & says they are not eating. I was immediately furious. After she left which was about 30 minutes later. Which was after I ate & after I cleaned up the kitchen.After she left I told my son how upset I was & how rude it was. He & her don't understand why I am upset & that it isn't a big deal. It's RUDE

2007-07-24 18:23:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships