I'll be going to college in a month or so in another city, so my girl situation has become very confusing. Not only are there 2 girls, I can't read one of them.
Girl 1-- She is going to the same college I am and I've known her about a month. We've gone out a couple times on our own (even though they weren't officially dates) and a couple times in a group. We hit it off well, but I can't tell for sure if she likes me. We flirt a lot and she texts me 2-3 times a day and is very eager to hang out (she usually makes the plans).
Girl 2-- Is going to college 500 miles away from me. We haven't actually been alone together, but I'm 100% sure she likes me. We have a date on Thursday. Our chemistry is amazing and we have so much in common its scary.
Both are awesome and I honestly like both. Ladies, from the looks of it, girl #1 must like me correct?
2007-07-24 18:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by The Dating Guru 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After discussing the situation with another female friend, I'm pretty sure that girl #1 likes me, although I'm still not 100% sure. I can't see any reason why she wouldn't, I'm just unsure about it for some reason.
2007-07-24 20:11:22 · update #1
Girl #1 does not necessarily like you. While it's possible that she is completely in love with you, you may very well be her Guy#2. She could consider you her plan b, her rebound, her gay best friend, her ride home, the guy she copies math from, etc...
While I can see the complexity of the situation, please keep in mind that you're still very young and at a time in life where you'll have to deal with many changes. If you're looking to decide between one of two girls, think first about whether you actually like either one enough to make that decision. I think entering college unattached is actually a good thing.
Good luck.
2007-07-24 19:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by serious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl #1 makes all the plans and texts you quite a bit, i'd say she's definitely interested. You're not specific as to why you're not sure she likes you...
Some women are just not able to lay all their feelings out in the open, even after one month. Actions are speaking louder than words in your situation...she digs you or she would not be contacting you, making plans, etc.
How does she act when you're together? Is she deep or is she just a surface person that only wants to hang out, have fun and is not interested in future commitments?
Girl #2 may be more stable but she's way too far away to commit. I like the way you have so much in common with her, that's a huge plus...you can build a solid foundation on this.
Depending on why you are so uncertain as to whether Girl #1 likes you...I'd say quit seeing her and focus on Girl #2, she's seems more like a girl you could have a future with. Just my hunch.
2007-07-25 02:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by weebleswobble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl #1 u said girl #2 has so much in common its scary that's not good at all that relationship would get boring after girl #1 is going 2 the same college as u so u'll be able 2 see her all the time and she doesn't sound as boring as #2
2007-07-25 01:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Fallen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously girl 1 your with all the time.
Girl 2 is 500 miles away.
I'd say, keep them both until you find out which one is really devoted to you.
How do you know girl 2 isn't doing the same thing your doing.
Did you ever think of that?
Hope this helps. Good luck!
2007-07-25 02:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by hksimmons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, but you don't have to pick now, you can wait and see. Until you've decided to "go steady" with one of them, there's no reason why you can't go on dates with both, talk to both, etc. Obviously you'll have more opportunities with the girl you're going to school with, but until you're officially "together" don't cut off all communication with the other girl. Right now you're just friends with both of them. If something starts happening with one and not the other, then it's obvious. If something starts happening with both, then you need to choose. And remember, if she thinks you're exclusive, then you're exclusive. It doesn't matter what you've talked about or agreed upon officially, if she thinks you are, you are. Don't lead either one of them on and then say that you didn't know she thought that you were "together." Not saying you will, just warning you. If you do I WILL know and I WILL send a monkey through the screen to throw poo at you.
2007-07-25 02:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with dating both of them, and enjoying your very special freshman year at college without a girlfriend. It is a new experience, and you may meet plenty of new girls that you would like to dat from your new college.
2007-07-25 02:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes girl 1
2007-07-25 01:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, looks like Girl #1 is interested, and you have a higher chance of a successful relationship because she won't be so far away.
2007-07-25 01:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go with girl 2 because girl 1 might just want you to take her home to her place to lay down
2007-07-25 02:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by denisia blessings God gave to me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say girl #1 likes you but it's really up to you to choose which you want.
2007-07-25 01:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋