Well, I really liked this boy I met on my birthday. We really got along great, and we talked on the phone almost every night and texted constantly after that. He lives in another state, and as time goes on I'm finding out more and more things about him that I don't like, such as he has hooked up with a different girl every night this week, and he calls me when he's drunk. Is he just too much of a player and idiot to mess with, or should I still hold hope?
2007-07-24 19:06:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is what he is.. why do u want to change him... dont even try.. find a guy who is what u want {}
2007-07-24 19:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it doesn't sound like you two are seeing each other so it shouldn't matter if he hooks up with another girl every night; I see a little jealousy. I had guys that I talked to a lot on the phone and I hung out a lot with but that didn't classify me dating any of them. He might not want a relationship so people classify him as a player. I say move on because I don't see much happening with this one except you getting hurt.
2007-07-24 19:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this one. All things should go well in a dating situation. Each person is usually on their best behavior and reality only comes up when things get serious. He only calls you when he's drunk because he knows you'll tolerate it when all his other girls would hang up on him. Don't you think you deserve better? There are tons of guys in the world, it's up to women to choose which is the best...and that's at the very least, a guy who respects them.
2007-07-24 19:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lives far away, he partys and drinks all the time, and he sleeps with a girl all the time. If your friend was asking you this question what would you say to her? Be confident that you can for sure find someone who lives closer and is not a man whore! your better than some looser like that!
2007-07-24 19:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg he hooks up with a different girl every night of the week damn that"z 6 girlz!!! he calls u when he"z drunk oh hell no!! u need 2 dump him he probably has some stdz and is on parole!!
2007-07-24 19:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO why are you asking us? You should follow that voice inside of your head called "common sence". What makes you think u will be different from any other girl? And are you SURE these things are true? Did he tell u himself?
2007-07-24 19:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player. And especially since you're not gonna see each other much, just forget about him. He's not worth your time.
2007-07-24 19:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another state out of mind. Let it go, just be friends.
2007-07-24 19:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Idon0tknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. You can't change him. He needs to mellow down on his own. Why put the effort into something that can never work.
2007-07-24 19:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loose hope sweety since he is a player just think of what he would do to you if you got serious i would hate to see you get hurt
2007-07-24 19:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by mikesdaman71 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to much drama going on with him to make him anymore than a friend.
2007-07-24 19:11:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋