my friend has been doing alot of the crying wolf thing. meaning all lasted year when more ppl were not lookin at her she would try to kill her self(meaning cutting or taking pills that aren't for her) or say one of her really close friends died. she told me one day that her best friend in the world died and i was like "OMG thats soo sad!! i'm so sorry to hear that!!" then a week later she lets me meet the friend how "died" and she was alive and very annoying. then bout a 3 weeks ago one of her friends really did died and i was like. "really?! omg.. wait i hear this before. what did she "died" from now? a lieing friend? haha. thanks for the laugh. tell her i'll meet her in a week." i found out by a mad friend that the person really did died. i talk to her after words i was like" i'm really sorry!! for saying what i did and acting really cold like" now she giving me the cold sholder. i'm i a bad friend caz i didn't believe her???
2007-07-24 18:38:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry my spelling isn't all that nice is it? lol. i mean "Opps... does this make me a bad friend??" sorry my spelling sucks my gramma is pretty bad to. i know.
2007-07-24 19:06:30 · update #1
its the boy who cried wolf thing its not your fault.
2007-07-24 18:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by babylala_luvs_ya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It is a shame that she is so needy. Tell her that you are sorry, but that she should not be making things up for attention. Tell her that it is not fair for her to play on your sympathy like that. Tell your other friend what she did, and explain that you thought that she was just trying to get attention again.
By the way, you don't need a friend like that. They will wear you down. Find a nice friend that has self esteem.
2007-07-24 18:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does that make you a bad friend at all?
She gave you no reason to trust her anymore.
It's not something you can just hand...
on her end, she's the bad friend.
She's playing with your head and then expecting you
to still react to her stuff the way she wants.
She isn't considering that you have your set of opinions and you can't just be a dumb puppet taking in whatever she says.
She's the bad friend.
not you.
2007-07-24 18:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that there is no reason for her to be acting gay because she shudnt b lying about things like that. its retarded. b like "listen you're the one who like about it the first time and even though it was a joke how am i supposed to trust anything u say? theres things that are ok to joke about but not things like that."
2007-07-24 18:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Christine P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't have told her tell her she was crying wolf and just let her be mad it is not your fault but don't let this ruin your friend ship
2007-07-24 18:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋