How can i stop somthing so serious?

Question

yea i love him emotionally but as a person not so much..he means the world to me but he never treats me rite he says he dont like to show his love for me were we truly meant to be if we in love then you hear people say if you really love him you can work on i but aint **** to work on he ist wat i want him to be are we truly that perfect couple..i dnt want to break up with him i know he want care or at least thats the way he will act i want somhing more somone who doesnt have a problem treating me with respect and love..how do i let somthin like this go..will i be making a mistake by letting him go for somone else even if he does treat me like im not worth more than the **** on the bottom of his shoe...no we neva had sex. but yea like i was saying he just never show his tru side and see im the type of gurl that needs attention and love shown towards me or i feel like life isnt worth liveing the way i live it. please help me while i need to know how to let our serious thing go...

Answer 1

Have you ever heard that saying,

"If you love him let him leave, if he returns than it was truely meant to be."

Try it out and see if you guys can or can't live w/o each other.

I've been in a relationship for 6 yrs. My man hasn 't always treated me right or expressed his love for me the way I wanted him to. But he's my man..he knows that and so does everybody else. It used to bother me and hurt me cause he was so on me but he hardly showed his love for me. I know i'm a good person and a damn good gf so I wanted to stop hurting. I realized that i'm hurting cause he doesn't tell me what I want to hear...so that's when I stopped expecting to hear the L word so much from him.

I expected so much from him emotionally...but he's a guy. Guys express themselves differently than girls. That's when I stopped hurting and just accepted him for who he was cause that's the man I fell in love with.

Your man has to have showed you some type of love..why would you still be there.

Anyways, when I stopped hurting and expecting so much that's when I started seeing the things that my man did for me and the love that I claimed wasn't there.

It's your life don't let no one make you feel like you aren't worth anything. You are and you know that..you just want your man to tell you.

He's not.


You should read this book called "A Womans Worth" if I recall after I read that book my entire mind set changed and I became a happier person. That's when my relationship changed.

Take my advice...sorry to bore you w/my story. I'm just trying to help.

Answer 2

I'm not one to talk, but i know how a girl should be treated and it seems like neither of us are being treated in that way especially you I don't care if you are the biggest dope dealer in the west if you found that special girl you'll do ANY/EVERYTHING to show/tell everybody. I think we both need a breaks from these selfish unappreciative guys. You more than me, but I KNOW I need one BAD! I know you love him but sometimes what's good to you ain't good for you you know so maybe chill for a while and re evaluate whether this pain will subside or continue