i do like her, but i just don't wanna marry her!
2007-07-24 18:28:53 · 28 answers · asked by Ehsan X 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You need to be honest with her. Let her know if you EVER intend to marry her. If she is looking to get married, and you don't EVER want to marry her, she has the right to know that. You may not have a girlfriend when you finish that conversation, but honestly, it's better to be 100% upfront now than lead her on. Stand your ground, don't let anybody push you into marriage, it's too major a step to take lightly. Good luck!
2007-07-24 18:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Do not marry her. Marriage is the worst thing that a man can do and the best thing for a woman. Marriage allows women to file for divorce and claim a free house and half of their husband's wealth for nothing. What sane man would want to sign up for that and women should understand the situation for men. There are too many whining women on this site. Marriage adds nothing but huge financial risk for a man. It should be avoided by men at all costs. If more men rebelled and refused to marry their girlfriends then sooner or later women would be forced to be reasonable for a change and stop being money-grabbing parasites.
2014-11-23 04:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most serious relationships reach a point where one of two things happen; you either get engaged or you break up.
Clearly this is not an issue of whether you are ready to get married or not. You like this girl (and love her), but she's not marriage material to you. Doesn't mean she not a nice girl, she just not "The Girl"
In this case, you need to break up. You need to both realize your relationship will be nothing more then serious dating. If you both break up, you can move on and find "The One" and she can begin to do the same.
Once a couple realize that marriage is not in the cards for them, they should break up.
I'm not talking about those that are casually dating. But, like I said, most all serious long term relationships get to the point where it's marriage or break up.
2007-07-24 19:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The answer is clear.
Your girlfriend wants something out of life that you simply do not want. Take the initiative and step up to the plate-- tell her you do not want to marry her. Her decision after that is her decision. But be honest. Don't give her false hopes that after x years, you'll want to because then, 5 years later, she'll look back with regret.
This may mean she'll break up with you, but why would you want to have someone be with you out or obligation or resentment instead of really wanting to be with you?
You also say that you "like her". If you don't love her, end it now or you'll just break her heart.
2007-07-24 18:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymousgirl 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well please don't marry her, you will just end up as another statistic. If you like her and things are well with your relationship, great! If she continues to push you for marriage, you will have to make a decision, but marrying someone just b/c they want to marry you and you do not is never a good thing. You will be unhappy, resentful and it will probably end in divorce.
2007-07-24 18:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by bck2liberty 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest and tell her that you aren't ready for marriage and that you don't plan on getting married for at least another x amount of years. The worst thing you can do is string the girl along.
2007-07-24 23:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by xanadu88 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont Marry Her Marry Me
2016-12-11 16:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by carper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to sit down and talk about what you want from the relationship, because it seems you are both on different paths.
Your girlfriend wants you to commit, but you are not ready for it!
It must be a decision you must both want, in the long run it will make both of you miserable and also put a strain on your relationship.
Good Luck!
2007-07-24 18:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by princess_bride72 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell her next time she pushes to be engaged you will break up with her.
Seriously though...
...You need to be honest with her, if she thinks you are "the one" then you need to let her know you don't want to get married. That way she can decide if she wants to stay or go.
2007-07-25 02:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. If you can't see yourself marrying her, break up with her. She obviously wants to be married in the future, you are just wasting her time.
2007-07-25 01:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋