Im 23 years old.. I've had 3 girlfriends in my life... and I've been cheated on my every single one... I feel like I've been kicked in the gut again... My 2nd girlfriend really came off like she was truthful.. and I believed her.. and got burnt... I did the same thing with my 3rd girlfriend... I just found out she was cheating on me... What am I doing wrong? I have treated this girl like my life, constant attention, our parents thought we would get married one day and they always end up leaving for a fling...and the fact that she lied is devastating... she was my best friend for years before we went out... Shes 25 and I'm 23... I thought dating older gave me a more mature girl who wouldn't cheat... Now I'm bit by the same bug again
2007-07-24 20:01:17 · 7 answers · asked by J D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I wasn't more clear... she cheated... I found out later it was for a fling.. I just think this one really messed me up in the head because she always talked about "when we get married" all the time and then she cheated... thats what made it 20x worse... she just was attracted to someone else and lost her self control.. but that is unforgivable
2007-07-24 20:13:20 · update #1
You're not doing anything wrong...You can't help that these women made the decision to cheat...That is not your fault at all...Maybe you shouldn't be so focused on such committed relationships right now...Focus on you for a while...Go back to school, try to get a promotion at work, take up a hobby or involve yourself in some kind of sport...And when the time is right, try to choose more wisely when getting back into the dating scene!
Best wishes to you!
2007-07-24 20:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe you're picking the same kind of (wrong) girl every time; and you might possibly be TOO trusting, nice and giving. Try taking someone out who is different from who you would normally see. The change might be just what you need in order to find the right kind of girl who will treat you the way you desire. Don't give up, just learn from your past and move on to more genuine gals.
2007-07-25 03:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by classic1957gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably not you.. I'm in the same situation, well kinda cuz I'm a girl, and I'm younger.. I don't really give that many guys chances with me& the ones that I do always cheat on me& I always feel like its me. They make me feel like I did too much, but the thing is they never did anything for our relationship! I did it all! My last boyfriend just used me, and he made me feel like I was the one who used him.. I don't get it myself, but just don't blame yourself, cuz it doesn't sound like you did wrong..
2007-07-25 03:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by BrokenWings 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dude if u want to get the girls for good u want ones younger then u... i been cheated on before.. punch a pillow and yell "what a Æucken Bit*h" out load it will cool u down :] gl with future girls
2007-07-25 03:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by Shahin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you havent found the right girl yet. And friendship that turns into romance never works out.
2007-07-25 03:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by nadia d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be doing something wrong.
Find it and fix it.
2007-07-25 03:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they left you or they cheated you? i think they are different
2007-07-25 03:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by miraclebeliever99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋