My ex dumped me july 2nd. she told me that she doesn't feel the same way anymore. That same night she came home and than left after 20minutes of talking. Than she ended up being with another guy that night who she works with and now they are living together. I knew the guy he is 20yrs old. It is now 23 days later and all her stuff is out my house that me and her lived in and i find out that this kid liked her for a long time and she did not know untill the day we broke up. he has already told her he loves her but she didn't say it back to him. I have lost over 26lbs bc i cant eat sleep or anything. I miss her so much and i feel like i cant do anything to change her mind on what she has done and make her come back to me. We hve been together for 6yrs and for her to just drop me like nothing. i hate myself so much. i need help.
2007-07-24 20:02:38 · 5 answers · asked by stillmatic_3g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't change her mind. If you think there was something missing from your relationship you can focus on that. Maybe you didn't tell her how you feel enough, or maybe she didn't feel like you desire her any more. You could ask her if you did anything wrong. She will probably say no because you most likely didn't. She might have just gotten bored and instead of working on her current relationship she thought it would be more exciting to start a new one.
She'll find that the grass isn't always greener on the other side and one day she will regret leaving you. By then though you'll probably be over her.
I would just keep busy so you aren't able to sit and think about her. You could get a roommate so your house won't feel so lonely.
And like you said she just dropped you like nothing so if that is showing what you mean to her, then she is definitely not worth your pain.
2007-07-24 20:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry it's horrible what you are going through but life isn't fair, you can't really do anything about that, all you can do is leave the town and go with some friends some place fun like las vegas ..etc if it doesn't get better I would sell the house and live in another city all together till you feel better, just please don't try to get her back you will end up hurting yourself and others.
2007-07-24 20:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by thecoldfire72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship takes two.
If she wants out, let her go.
Feel sorry for yourself for a while if you must.
Then move on.
" Self pity is like a wet diaper.
At first its kinda warm & comfy,
but after a while it starts to stink."
2007-07-24 20:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel. if she just can't be with you, then you need to move on. maybe some kind of doctor can help you?
2007-07-24 20:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by ladyboo(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋