Men why do we allow one relationship to dictate the rest of our lives?

Question

I had quite sometime to deal with a hurtful relationship.I had to relieve myself of alot of bitterness.When we finally move on,why is it that the average person who does'nt know their true nature is venegful,and spiteful, intentionally hurt women.I am really perplexed at how tedious it can be to find an honest person.It seems like we all have hidden agendas

Answer 1

Truth Teller? Muahahha Met Brutal Honesty! This comes down to a really BIG social problem, a society problem, a cultural problem. Yea I know go america and all that crap, but thats a good way to distrate from the fact that its screwy even where america isn't concern.... Ether way what we have here is what I call religious fall-out, why because religion was the way society use to control the problem of human hidden agendas, its what makes it such a good book, it fosters the creation of a conciouness! Unfornutly we didn't do that right so now, science has sort of became the new social compass, problem comes to bar thou that most people like to pride themselves on being to stupid to understand it and the rest of us baby them because of it. What does this mean towards your question, EVERYTHING! See the signal most important thing a person can have is PURPOSE, pure and simple, and knowing this purpose and following this purpose to death is what divides kiddos from adults. But we've got a society that doesn't feel anything is that important. Don't like your religion find another one, don't like your wife divorce her, don't like your kids; there gone in 18 years, don't like your parents your gone in 18 years and there in the old flocks home. Don't like someones way of thinking; their an idiot. Don't like the way society is ran; its the presidents fault. See if we don't have cope outs, we've got someone else to blame. When in fact if you don't like your religion, you need to open your mind to the fact that your religion needs to be expanded to hold all religions. If you don't like your wife you should of know how to pick one you needed, and know that liking really isn't as important as loving them, understanding them. Kiddos shouldn't be forced to leave at anytime, just when there ready. Kiddoes shouldn't EVER turn there back on there parents for they are them, they define us weather cranked out, or not. And as far as science goes we need a healthier understanding of it because it doesn't disprove god. BuT religion disproves sciences... go figure. What this all means is that we live in a very confusing time that even thou is the most technically advanced, is the most socially declined. We have no purpose to thrive for, so we all simply survive. So don't be suprise when you find us acting like animals locked in cages because thats basically what we are, and we all share that same hidden agenda of jsut getting out!!! We just all have different ways of going about doing that. The only safe bet in the future is to find people(girlfriend too) that at the very least can accept that they don't hold all the answers and talking things thru, debating, and sharing are the only ways to cure it, and that you guys are at a point in history were we can finaly throw are hands up and say, WE NEED SOMETHING BETTER, AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT...... I'm trying what I can.....