2007-07-24 02:46:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You said you "really" love her. Do you really mean what you say? First off, tell your wife to have an extramarital affair the way you desire and see the response. If you want to have fun, let her have too. If cannot take it don't dish it, man.
2007-07-27 23:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are selfish, you might love and care for your wife .Referring to that old break up line, " I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you" that's you to a tee.( you want to have the cake and eat it too.) If you are IN LOVE with your wife then the thought of having an affair would NEVER cross your mind because she would be your one and only. It sounds like your getting bored in the bedroom. Have you tried to talk to your wife about this? Maybe you could suggest some games to play/ role playing. If she's not into it, maybe you two need couples counseling. Last if that's not it for you and all you can think about is having someone else. Let her go first. If you have the least amount of respect for her do that. She deserves it.
2007-07-24 10:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by kellylee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved your wife, then having an affair wouldn't cross your mind, you can have all the fun you want with your wife just communicate with her and try to do things that make things exciting for the both of you, if not then let her go so she can find a man who will respect his vows enough to be faithful to her...
2007-07-28 02:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I am unmarried but if i a wife and if i really love her so didn't do this because if i love her so i have to be honest to her. in my sense extra marital affair is not good. Just think opposite if your wife doing the same so what you feel -------------of course not good.
you have no right to hurt somebody for your fun and if you love her so the thing hurts her it also hurt you because you love her.
2007-07-24 10:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by sunny_bindas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man does like this the he is only a B A S T A R D! And he deserves that his wife too finds another man only for fun,then I want to see how he'll feel!
2007-07-24 10:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Felicità 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish ur wife could see this question now and know its u who wrote it.
have some shame. u need to either tell ur wife u dont love her enough to be thinking of having an affair or except that ur a married man and only ur wife's to have fun with.
u say u ''really love your wife''. what does the term 'love' mean to u?
it should mean that u respect and care for ur wife and would never hurt her feelings on purpose.
2007-07-24 10:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by www. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well from the woman's point of view....do you really love your wife? You are risking your marriage for a little bit of "fun"....is it worth it? You are putting yourself at risk too.....risk of infection, risk of blackmail and the risk of your wife finding out about the affair.....Do you think she won't find out ? ...she will..from your own behaviour....no one really has to tell her any thing...she will gauge that some thing is wrong somewhere from your own body language.
Remember that if trust goes...the marriage does not remain a marriage...it becomes a living hell.
A question for you ......How would you like your wife to have a little bit of "fun" too?
2007-07-24 10:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sarmila 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some fun can be harmless. But the one mentioned in your question is not so. When there is a loving relationship between a couple and no serious complaints, why should one of them try to upset it by some stupid, irresponsible act? Such impulses should be checked.
2007-07-24 13:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Modest 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want an affair you really don't love you wife!
2007-07-24 10:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY loved your wife you would not even think about having an affair. She is supposed to be your fun.
You are obviously not ready for the kind of committment it takes to have a successful marriage.
Out of curiousity - is it ok with you if she goes out and has sex with anyone she wants?
2007-07-24 09:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Collette L 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋