Okay i have been married 2.5 yrs had many problems.My husband cheated on me and we seperated for 3 months.During those 3 months i had a fling with my ex.bf who had been my first bf, kiss, and everything else.I ended the fling when my husband wanted to try make things work.Recent DNA test showed my husband not be my sons father so the only option is my ex.bf the only other person i was intimate with.My son is only 1 month old has been in/out of hospital doctors cant figure out what problem is.
I found out my ex.bf’s on and off live in gf was pregnant about same time i was about month ahead of me .But their child died shortly after birth from unknown complications.So i called my ex.bf cell phone leaving a message explaining everything telling him to get call me ASAP.
Well now i have her the live in on/off gf who is now his wife of 6 months calling my cell harrassing me for the last 2 days or so.
She thinks i know where he is but i dont!Do i try to reason with her another option..?
2007-07-24 02:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She has threatened to beat me and burn down my house along with a lot of other inappropriate comments.Since they were off when the fling to place.
2007-07-24 02:40:18 · update #1
there is obviously something going on if his one child died and yours is very sick.You need to call the hospital or tell your childs dr the fathers name and the story and they should be able to get him to take some tests once they prove he is the father.And if he had any care at all for his childs sake he would man up and take responsibility of his child and to his now wife instead of running off.As far as the new wifes threats dont take them lightly she is in a lot of pain from losing her own child and she sees you as the other woman that her husband got pregnant and your childs alive.If i was you i would definitly get a restraining order on her and keep a log of everytime she calls and harrasses you.Right now your main concern is you and your childs saftey.Be careful and i hope you find out info you need and your baby will be ok
2007-07-24 02:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the police know what is happening, they probably wont do anything since they are just threats, but I would stop answering all of her phone calls and get caller ID if you do not already have it.
I guess this is a good lesson in not cheating on your husband. Turn about is not fair play in marriage. However I hope the best for your son and your future with your husband.
2007-07-24 09:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get a restraining order.
I am sure the girl is a bit upset - concidering she just found out her husband has a kid. Then he took off.
Do you people know what birth control is? Why would you go out and have unprotected sex with anyone?
I feel so sorry for the baby.
2007-07-24 09:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Collette L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When oh when will women learn to use protection? And sleeping with a guy who's living with someone else? Hmmm...
Women have so many options when it comes to babies and pregnancies. They're all about the choice thing and a right to do what they want with their bodies. if you choose to raise the kid, don't bother the guy since he apparently wants nothing to do with you.YOU had your rights to choose, remember?
And as for his girlfriend, well I'd be mad, too. If you don't want her calling, get caller I.D., or change your number.
2007-07-24 09:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you know any of his family members ? if you do then contact one of them and tell them what is going on and ask if they can get in touch with him and you need him to get tested and see if that will help the baby . Let his family know though that is the only reason you are wanting to get in touch with him and also let them know that you cannot talk to his wife as she is threatening you and harassing you . I hope they will help you if not then you will have to get legal help to settle this . good luck .
2007-07-24 09:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you change your cell number. If the harressing continues get a restraining order against her and call the police if it happends again.
2007-07-24 09:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by beliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he left her and she doesnt know where he is? Ok something is up with him. You need to get a lawyer and have a court date to rule him as the father and then you can get family history on him. If that doesnt work, can you contact his family members and tell them whats going on with your child.
2007-07-24 09:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the police.
2007-07-24 11:51:27 · answer #8 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police, you have enough problems without dealing with her too.
2007-07-24 09:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you want her man. Try to make sure you contact him directly. If it's related to a child she should mind her own business, actually try talking to her, keeps your voice calm, maybe she'll shut up and listen.
2007-07-24 09:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Readredreed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋