Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

hey i went w/ the homeade dinner but apperntly it losened her touge and she told me she was cheating on me so i dumped her so i need advise cuz i kinda have a crush on my best friend and im afread that if i ask her out it might screw up our friendship,should i ask her out and if so how please help me

2007-07-24 04:34:06 · 17 answers · asked by broken_hearts 2 in Singles & Dating

As I've said before when I'm home everything is just normal or my husband is in and out. I went out of town to help with my class reunions fund raiser: he complained to his friend it was a waste of gas, I went to visit my mom and old friends: he complained it was a wasted trip, I flew to MD to be in a friend's wedding (he decided not to go): he complained about things that went wrong at home andhad an attitude with me, but he goes out of town almost every month with his friends without me. Why is it a problem for ME to go, and I'm ok with him going and never have an attitude or say anything petty behind his back about it? I barely go anywhere, but when I do it's a problem unless it's work related. What's the deal?

2007-07-24 04:33:19 · 16 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what you have been hearing. but I always go for the nice guy, because why would I want to go for the guy who just wants to get in my pants? Seriously..

2007-07-24 04:31:52 · 13 answers · asked by ..jennyluvz.. 2 in Singles & Dating

Never take someone for granted
Hold every person close to your heart
Because you might wake up one day
And realize that you've lost a diamond
While you were too busy collecting stones.

2007-07-24 04:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by holla 2 in Singles & Dating

I called about on the phone and asked her why she said no one had been at my house when someone clearly had. She maintained that he never came to the door and she never spoke to my boyfriend.

She then accused me of having one thing on my mind and being neglectful of my son.I am a single parent, I do not go out and party or drink, I go to school and am looking for employment.

She also said that she thinks he is after only one thing too and that I should dump him because he is apart of the same lot as my ex ( the deadbeat father who was nothing but scum).

2007-07-24 04:31:22 · 2 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family

2007-07-24 04:31:04 · 1 answers · asked by Ebenezer O 1 in Singles & Dating

so for one reason or another i haven't really dated at all in my life. i've been trying to change that for the last little bit now and have finally found a girl to date. I met her on a sports team that i joined and have spent a fair bit of time talking with her at the pub after game. And we've been on one date (my first one ever) before but it was more of an activity date and we didn't really get much of a chance to talk. Now the issue that i'm having is that im not really sure what to do on dates. and if i should tell her that i have absolutly no experience dating. she's really shy and in her shell, but i think that she likes me otherwise she wouldn't talk with me as much as she does. should i try telling her that i don't know what i'm doing in the slightest? and what is to be expected on dates with her in the terms of events and conversation? thanks,.

2007-07-24 04:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by asguard 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive had it with his yelling. I know he yells and freaks out over stupid things but Im scared to be alone. I dont have a job so financially I dont know what to do. I have a son who is 17 and I really dont want him to be that way. Im not predjudiced at all but hes short, bald, and Polish. He complains about such trivial things. Im sick to death of it. Help. Im scared of him. He hasnt hit me yet and I dont think he would, but his spazzing out hurts. I dont love him any more. What to do?

2007-07-24 04:28:40 · 26 answers · asked by kel2us 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well she's very nice with me she likes to share good and bad moments, she's beautifull and her body rocks, i don't know what to do.

2007-07-24 04:27:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know that there have been various scandals about grooms and brides kissing during Hindu wedding ceremonies in India. An Israeli couple were fined 1000 rupees for kissing during their own wedding in Rajasthan in 2005. And this year someone was trying to initiate proceedings against Elizabeth Hurley and her new husband for kissing at their wedding. But what about outside India. In the UK, for example? Is it considered acceptable for the groom to publicly kiss the bride during a Hindu ceremony?

2007-07-24 04:25:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I just got together with him about 15 days ago... He didnt seem so peverted when we started going out for the first few days then his younger brother started thinking up preverted stuff up and laughing when ever he grabed or touched me somewhere.. I dont know if he thinks its what I want.. I guess I have some fault to blame myself b/c I wanted to lay in the bed with him and that was it nothing nasty but while we were laying on the bed he kept hugging me and touching me in ticklish spots but when I got close to him he was getting hot and his heart was beating fast non stop till I left does this mean anything what happened to my boyfriend and how can I stop this? Oh yeah hes 14 and I am 15 hes 11 month younger then me..

2007-07-24 04:23:58 · 36 answers · asked by si 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked my bf wich is now by cus of what i am about 2 tell u:i asked him if he would like to kiss me befoe he went cus we wouldent see each other for 11 days and so i was like why dont u wont to he said becuase dont then he said by and now the 11 days r gone and now he wont to kiss me girls plese help me

2007-07-24 04:20:46 · 4 answers · asked by dreamebig4bigthings 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been crushing on this guy, and I thought he was too.
Him and I talked a few times,and we would flirt and smile at each other all the time. So I asked him out! He said we'll see, what the hell is that? What does that mean "we'll see"?

2007-07-24 04:19:48 · 24 answers · asked by Lola Love 1 in Singles & Dating

Planning to get married next year. For me the important thing is the sentiment and commitment and having a 'fairytale wedding' is not for me. So I was wondering how much does it cost roughly to hire a small local church in Scotland? Does it matter how many guests are there? What is the cost for marriage certificate etc and anything else I may need. I don't mean dress etc just the legal stuff. Not planning on having a reception or anything.

2007-07-24 04:19:01 · 12 answers · asked by magic_porridge_pot 3 in Weddings

After my baby daddy and i met things got really heated up, and shortly after that i fell pregnant. When i told him that i was pregnant i was surprised by his reaction cos i didnt expect him to be supportive about the pregnancy . he said that he'd be with me throughout the pregnancy and i guess in the beginning he was. Shortly after i started showing he started acting funny and i guess he ended falling in love with somebody else. During our supposed stay together i fell so in love with him i can't begin to explain. He did not tell me that he had found somebody else till i had given birth to our baby and when i asked him why he didnt tell me before he said cos he was afraid i would have a miscarriage. he has continued to be a part of our lives in a way that scares me. he told me that he doesnt love me anymore but although my head has given up, my heart controls the rest of me. I get panic attacks when i think about him, just dont know what to do anymore!!! I've tried everything!

2007-07-24 04:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-24 04:17:33 · 8 answers · asked by JACQUELINE J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read a question from a guy who claimed he accidentally cheated on his wife ....What the hell?
I'm sorry an accident is getting in a car crash, falling down the stairs, getting hit with a ball etc.
How in the world does a man claim he accidentally fell into a vagina? "Whoops I was walking along and damn I fell and low and behold it was a vagina" (this part is a joke from the Def Comedy Jam, just cleaned it up some). Sounds funny, it's even hilarious!
But for real what will the next excuse be from a cheater???? I can't wait to read to next ridiculous question from a cheater. How about the rest of you out there?

2007-07-24 04:17:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My terrible wife hired a private investigator to follow me around (WITH MY MONEY!) How can I lose him. He is following me around all day and it is really cramping my style. I can't hang out in any of my old haunts. Have you ever had one of these jerks following you around? He's Asian.

2007-07-24 04:15:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Isnt it selfish for him to accept someone elses love knowing the truth that he's taken? How will he choose?

Truth

2007-07-24 04:14:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who wants to have a slumber party?

2007-07-24 04:13:07 · 15 answers · asked by NESHA 2 in Friends

I'm going to see him in a couple of weeks and i'm soooooooo nervouse. HELP

2007-07-24 04:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by volleyball_grl15 2 in Singles & Dating

when to do it......how to do it........tips 2 do it.....

2007-07-24 04:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has been dating this guy the last 4 months and their getting really close... The problem is there was another guy that went overseas to work about 6 month ago that she still talks to (via email/IM). O.K. here is where she needs advice... The overseas guy asked her to travel to Amsterdam w/ him in a couple of months. He asked her before he went overseas & has already sent her the "1st CLASS, ROUND TRIP PLANE TICKET" and booked their 5 STAR HOTEL! She is thinking about not going w/ him because of the new guy. I think she should go... She really doesn't know the new guy all that well and this could be the only chance she gets to see Amsterdam "where she has wanted to go like forever by the way"

I really hope someone gives me some backup here... I'm more of a Go For It Girl than she is!

2007-07-24 04:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a truthful answer ... did anyone marry someone they like a lot, respect, don't mind being with and are attracted to ... but who they are NOT in "love" (that ethereal super-deep bond and desire beyond lust that people talk about) with?

Did you maybe marry when you were not in love but grow to love them? Or did the "like" degenerate into "dislike"?

Any feedback along these lines would be appreciated.

2007-07-24 04:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ex husband is harrassing our daughter to emancepete herself so he does not have to pay support for her any more. She is staying with my mom and working, but still has to go to school and we, current husband and I, are still providing insurance on her, and food, and clothes, and all needs. This man is supposed to provide both his daughter's with insurance, which he never has, and help with school expenses and other bills. He has not paid any thing other than his support, $158 twice a month, since at least 2001 or 2002. He just called her at her job and told her to do it and he is getting a lawyer. What is your advice?

2007-07-24 04:09:21 · 26 answers · asked by ? 7 in Marriage & Divorce

What are the results of a Christian dating in this day and age and one that is shy. Will that person even have a chance to make it in the Christian world full of morals or will there be a life full of no's no's?

2007-07-24 04:07:07 · 22 answers · asked by Healing_Rain 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days ago. We had a very serious realtionship and dated for about 2 years. Everything was perfect in our relationship except for the fact that I worried and questioned him about everything. I was always paranoid that he was going to do something to hurt me even though he never actually gave me a reason to worry. He was always mad at me because I was either questioning him or he was thinking about me questioning him.

He broke up with me three weeks before this last breakup but gave me one last chance to show him I could change. I tried very hard, but I got jealous when a girl started working with him. He broke up with because he thinks I can't change and he wants to get away from drama.

I'm not sure if this is what he really wants because he told his family that he was taking time away from the relationship and he needed space. He told me there was no hope and it was over. He did tell me he still loves me though. I'm not sure what he really wants.

2007-07-24 04:05:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes or no?

Just interested to see how many people have?

2007-07-24 04:04:32 · 39 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

This is kind of strange but a week ago, this guy responded to my profile on this dating site: wealthmen.com that I had was on. I did it in Dec and although I got looks, no one responded until Now. As of March of this year I decided that internet dating sites are not for me. I just don't like the concept. BUT I am aware that if I were to meet someone in the Real World face to face that they also could be just as deceitful as ones on line.

We've chatted twice on IM and he saids he is IN Love with me. YEAH Right! He spoke of God a lot. Our relgiious talk I did not like much. It was as if he was preaching to me instead of talking to me. Just because I said I do not go to church, he replies that is very very bad. He also keep saying he would never hurt a lady cause he would be punshied. He is 51, divorced and has a son, 7 who lives with him. In his profile he states he lives in San Diego, BUT when I asked he says Long Beach. Now come on, that in itself is deceitful. I know I should go by my gut feelings and this just does not sound right.

He asked for my last name and address which I both declined, BUT he does have my cell #. NO big deal to me, I usually don't answer blocked or out of area calls. BUT he did have this lady co-worker call me yesterday for me to get to my computer to chat with him. I thought that also strange and hung up because he asked me if he could call me and yet he has someone else do it. Whats up with that? I have encountered so many werid experinces with talking with men online.

So, far, how does this sound to you. I have never encountered someone to talk to me like this and I felt somewhat awkward. What can I do to check this person out without expending money is another question.

2007-07-24 04:03:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance (male), myself (female) and a bunch of his friends went as a group to a strip club for his birthday. I was fine with this. His boss announced that his birthday present to my fiance was a front row seat in the strip club. The girl was BUTT naked (no undies). The moment she walked towards him, I freaked out and left hysterical. I couldn't handle it. Apparently she rubbed her breasts on his head and had her legs spread about 1m from his face. There were about 40 other people in the room.

What bothers me is that he accepted the 'gift' from his boss and apparently didn't pull away when she rubbed her breasts on his head.

We have discussed this issue EXTENSIVELY. He knows I was very hurt and maintains that he did not enjoy the 'show' in a sexual way. I do believe this as he is ridiculously honest when it comes to this particular matter. He says that he didn't pull away was because it was a new experience. I also think peer pressure played a role

2007-07-24 04:00:57 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings