hey i went w/ the homeade dinner but apperntly it losened her touge and she told me she was cheating on me so i dumped her so i need advise cuz i kinda have a crush on my best friend and im afread that if i ask her out it might screw up our friendship,should i ask her out and if so how please help me
2007-07-24 04:34:06 · 17 answers · asked by broken_hearts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The important thing when talking to your best friend is to make sure they feel the same way and if she doesn't then let her know you want to be her friend regardless of if she shares the same feelings. But if you just recently got out of a relationship with someone who cheated on you, don't rush into another one so quickly. Take the time and just be with your best friend and see if it is really a crush or just a rebound.
2007-07-24 04:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh...I thought you were the "master of coolness"? Just kidding.
That is a touchy situation.
The way I would approach it is ask her if she would like to go out, then wait and see where it goes from there.
You don't have to mention that it's a "date".
Just the more you 2 spend time together the more you'll know if she has mutual feelings or not.
If it gets to a point where you're wanting to make a move, just ask her. Tell her how you feel, that you are interested in her because you like everything about her, but you cherish your friendship and if it's going to cost you the friendship then you'll leave well enough alone.
This will also show her how much you care. Nice point.
Good luck :D
2007-07-24 11:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm not a girl i just play one on TV (jk) ...Here's the deal bro The person you Care for most in your life Should be your best friend.
This person should be easy to talk to and know all about you. and not judgmental of you (works both ways too) OK so tell her how you feel about her. If she seems like she doesn't feel the same way well its a bummer but if she a real friend and adult about your honesty your friendship shouldn't change for both of you. Or else don't say anything at all to her and spend the rest of your life not knowing that she may have felt the same way about you. but she never had the bravery to say to you what you want to say to her.
2007-07-24 11:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give ur friend hints DON'T TELL her cuz then she might get really frecked out and yeah it could ruin ur friendship and if she says no then it will be all weird between the 2 of U..and maybe she doesn't see U THAT way..that would totally screw everything up if U told her.
2007-07-24 11:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will advise you to ease into the situation. Instead of hanging out with this friend of yours in a group setting, why don't you suggest that you all go somewhere by yourselves. But in a subtle way like: "Hey I heard this new restaurant opened up. You want to go check it out? I heard they have really good food." Something like that. Than as you hang out, look for more and more opportunities to do things alone and watch out for feedback. Just let things flow!
2007-07-24 11:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really like the girl just tell her girls love to hear that kinda stuff. but let me worn you dont expect an awnser right away if might come as a little bit of a shock if you havent hinted at likeing her before. oh and befor u tell her anything u HAVE U MAKE HER PROMISE THAT YOULL BE FRIENDS NOMATTER WHAT
and good luck
2007-07-24 11:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sry to hear about your ex...but if you want to ask your best friend out maybe try dinner or maybe a moive and have it be just you 2 and see if she gets the hint...maybe make a joke about you guys dating if she says anything like its not a good idea play it off that way you know and didn't make an *** our of yourself good luck hope everything works out
2007-07-24 11:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it b/c one of my best guy friends asked me out and it went ok but we realized that we were just better off as friends. Nothing has changed b/t us and I think we are actually closer friends now.
2007-07-24 15:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by petiteandsweet!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats kinda hard to answer.If you ask her out ,it might mess up your friendship.If you don't you might miss out on a good relationship.Maybe you should ask a different grl that you lke out.Sorry if I wasn't that much help.
2007-07-24 11:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by cena#1fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, it probably wont screw up ur friendship. girls like it when guys like them. it makes them feel hot and good about thereselves. so tell her that u like her but dont say like "omg i think ur so hot" ur somthin like that, cause then you'll just look like a purv and she wont like u back. just start out by sayin "well i like ur personality and ur a very great friend" or somthin and then tell that u have feelings like that 4 her, and also tell her that if she doesnt like u back like that that its fine with u and that u wont be sad(even if u are) and that u can just be friends.......
hope this helps!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-24 14:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋