I think my wife hired a private investigator?

Question

My terrible wife hired a private investigator to follow me around (WITH MY MONEY!) How can I lose him. He is following me around all day and it is really cramping my style. I can't hang out in any of my old haunts. Have you ever had one of these jerks following you around? He's Asian.

Answer 1

And what is his being Asian got to do with your question?

With the way you have framed your question, and with this racist slant, then maybe you deserve the spying to keep you in check.

Answer 2

Is there a reason for her to send him to follow you? There seem to be some serious trust issues. Anyway, there is not much you can do to lose the guy. He's been hired to follow you (unless you have a stalker :P).

You're not 100% sure this is a PI sent from her, though. It could be a stalker or even a criminal of some sort. Be very careful... if anything look at him straight in the eye and see how he reacts.

I'd sit down and talk to your wife about the trust in your relationship. If you guys really can't talk about it or get professional help with a marriage counselor, you should probably consider separating for a while.

Answer 3

Definitely time to talk to your wife. Evidently she is suspicious and didn't appreciate you hanging out at your "old haunts". If I had the guy's number, I'd hire him too. I don't think you can get rid of him without either your wife calling him off, pressing stalker charges and getting a restraining order or something like that. Your question was the funniest thing that happened to me today. Good luck !

Answer 4

The only way to get him off your back is tell your wife. Ask her why in the first place is she hiring a private investigator. Or it just could be a stalker. I would check with her first if she hired the guy. Secondly, I would ask her why she did it? Talk things out and then she'll get him off your back for you.

Answer 5

That is just too funny!

That your wife needs to hire a PI to follow you is the problem. What have you been doing that she is doing this? You have some serious trust issues in your marriage dude!

I'm betting on you being divorced before year end - HOWL!!

Answer 6

i would have to say to get this investigator off your back maybe you should ask yourself why your wife would hire him. for example does she think you are cheatting on her, have you done something sus? also i think you should confront your wife and ask her why she has hired the investigator? either way it sounds to me that you and your wife need to talk and set things right. also what difference does it make if your investigator is asian?

Answer 7

For Cripes Sakes! Get rid of that inflatable doll before Mr. Detective gets those embarrassing shots that you won't be able to explain away in court. You know Mrs. Dr. Cain won't hesitate to use those photos to take the house, the car, the dog and all those pennies you use to spend on thoughts.

Answer 8

Might as well get used to it, sounds like maybe you gave your wife some reason to feel she needed to hire one and with YOUR money too ... wow ...... since it is cramping your style you should prolly get divorced.

Answer 9

The fact that you call her your terrible wife, makes me think your a terrible husband, and that's why shes watching you, sorry, I'm on the wife's side, she had to of had a reason to want to keep track of you.

Answer 10

have you spoke to her? I would. Mention you know he is following you around because if you don't he will keep depleting your money. Does she have a reason to mistrust you? Hmmm if so that is why she is having it done. Don't get caught dude that wouldn't be good IF you are seeing someone else behind her back. Just be honest and tell if you are......saves you grief and you money and her too. Just be honest!

Answer 11

If you have something to hide why not just fess up to your wife? If you don't, then let him follow you. You sound like a jerk when you say "my money", so I am guessing you are going to be contacting a lawyer soon.