This is kind of strange but a week ago, this guy responded to my profile on this dating site: wealthmen.com that I had was on. I did it in Dec and although I got looks, no one responded until Now. As of March of this year I decided that internet dating sites are not for me. I just don't like the concept. BUT I am aware that if I were to meet someone in the Real World face to face that they also could be just as deceitful as ones on line.
We've chatted twice on IM and he saids he is IN Love with me. YEAH Right! He spoke of God a lot. Our relgiious talk I did not like much. It was as if he was preaching to me instead of talking to me. Just because I said I do not go to church, he replies that is very very bad. He also keep saying he would never hurt a lady cause he would be punshied. He is 51, divorced and has a son, 7 who lives with him. In his profile he states he lives in San Diego, BUT when I asked he says Long Beach. Now come on, that in itself is deceitful. I know I should go by my gut feelings and this just does not sound right.
He asked for my last name and address which I both declined, BUT he does have my cell #. NO big deal to me, I usually don't answer blocked or out of area calls. BUT he did have this lady co-worker call me yesterday for me to get to my computer to chat with him. I thought that also strange and hung up because he asked me if he could call me and yet he has someone else do it. Whats up with that? I have encountered so many werid experinces with talking with men online.
So, far, how does this sound to you. I have never encountered someone to talk to me like this and I felt somewhat awkward. What can I do to check this person out without expending money is another question.
2007-07-24 04:03:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you really need an answer to this. There are so many red flags going up and bells going off.
This does not look like a good situation and you should be far away from it.
I never give out any numbers unless i am certain of the person.
2007-07-24 04:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't... so why do it... it's like all the things you have said tell you not to meet with this guy... not to trust this guy... and if he's already professing he love to you... wow.. what a bunch of bull-flop... by the way.. even these days a cell # can be traced and the owner found.... so ... are all men on the internet that way.... to tell you the truth... I don't know anymore... I haven't really tried dating women on here and am no longer trying to date people from the internet... so run away.....
2007-07-24 04:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a total weirdo. Why do you need to check this guy out? He's a creep. Find someone else, and change your cell number.
2007-07-24 04:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sakes what are you waiting for and wasting your time. Change your numbers and block him out. He is dangerous . Hope he does not know your last name . We have all been told a hundred times not to do THAT . Wake up and quit playing games. He is a creep .
2007-07-24 04:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste my time on him. you need to find a guy that you will feel comfortable with. Someone who lives in your area. At least you can see him and form your own opinion of him.
2007-07-24 04:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a weirdo, i don't think he sounds like a good guy. I would just tell him your not interested. But hey, that's just my opinion who cares?
2007-07-24 04:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by jOhAn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop talking to him. Nothing about him sounds right.
2007-07-24 04:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can always do a google search, or a white pages search.
2007-07-24 04:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by cr80exp2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run as fast as you can! the guy is a weirdo...!!!
most men are!
2007-07-24 04:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
????
2007-07-24 04:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋