After my baby daddy and i met things got really heated up, and shortly after that i fell pregnant. When i told him that i was pregnant i was surprised by his reaction cos i didnt expect him to be supportive about the pregnancy . he said that he'd be with me throughout the pregnancy and i guess in the beginning he was. Shortly after i started showing he started acting funny and i guess he ended falling in love with somebody else. During our supposed stay together i fell so in love with him i can't begin to explain. He did not tell me that he had found somebody else till i had given birth to our baby and when i asked him why he didnt tell me before he said cos he was afraid i would have a miscarriage. he has continued to be a part of our lives in a way that scares me. he told me that he doesnt love me anymore but although my head has given up, my heart controls the rest of me. I get panic attacks when i think about him, just dont know what to do anymore!!! I've tried everything!
2007-07-24 04:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to forget about this waste of space and concentrate on being a good mother for your babies sake. The more you take his B.S the more he will treat you like s**t!
2007-07-24 04:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki1990 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you're finding it hard to cope due to all the hormones that have been doing damage to your body.
you fell for him while he was with you during your pregnancy, he was supporting you, this is natural, it was a hard time for you, but since he didn't have the courage to tell you the truth about his feelings why would you want him anyway? and he went with someone else whilst you were carrying his child, again i ask why would you want someone like that, chick you can't trust him.
you have the best part of this guy, you have a child to love and care for, it's good that he hasn't shirked his responsibility, but he has no right to make you feel uncomfortable and play with your emotions.
i think you need to distance yourself from him, concentrate on regaining your self esteem, you are not only a mother, you are a person in your own right. you deserve better than this guy chick, be strong.
take care
2007-07-24 11:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Missfit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll tell you what you get yourself into really good shape and move on with your child. you seem very young and you can find someone who will take care of you and your child. you don't need this kind of person in your life if he can do this to you and your child. he should pay maintenance and if it allows him to see the child but I know its easier said then done when your heart is involved. but try to move on it will only get worst if you continue in this way. you can do it
2007-07-24 12:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by KAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to a lot of girl's you will get over him, but try not to get stuck indoors with the baby. do yourself up big time go out Friday night get chatted up something wicked come home feeling good about yourself and tell him to ------off.
2007-07-24 11:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by louise d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats sad! its harder that he is around with your baby! but i suppose its a good thing that he sees the child! only thing you can do is move on even though it will be very hard, only time will heal your broken heart!
2007-07-24 11:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by aa_fugitive 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that sucks! well its good that he is there to help in whatevr way he can. but he was wrong for what he did! but i hope everything is going fine with the baby and you
2007-07-24 11:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by I_wuv_you! hehe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...I know it sounds cruel but you just have to move on.
He should pay maintenance, though
2007-07-24 11:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋