Family & Relationships - 24 July 2007

2007-07-24 06:47:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys, how would you have taken that? He says it made him feel uncomfortable and is mad at me. By the way one of his friends bought me a lap dance and I think that bother him too.

2007-07-24 06:47:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He is very stubborn and everytime I attempt to tell him how i feel it ends up with me feeling bad about it. I want to be with him. But ive always been told if you cant trust him why are u with him. We've been together for about 6 years and for the past few months he seems to have become more secretive about everything, Even the most simplest things. Someone Please help. I need some guidance & advice.

2007-07-24 06:45:37 · 27 answers · asked by DaZeDnCuNfUzeD 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i feel very unattractive lately and fat and my husband is so good lookign and always getting message on myspace form other girls so you can see my pics at http://www.myspace.com/amymagin please be honest

2007-07-24 06:45:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So...the details:
My in-laws are great people, they support my wife & I very well (physically being there, and emotionally for her). They recently both are in the process of losing their jobs, unfortunately. My wife has already thrown out the idea of supporting them financially (this is after recent arguments about our finances within our house - we have no budget, and have been slowly eating up our savings/retirement money over the last few months from everything from extra medical care to frivolous spending). Her parents also spend money on a lot of hobbies, lot's of extra stuff for their house, and literally have a garage full of stuff, and 4-5 outdoor storage sheds full of stuff as well - a lot of which could help if we sold some of it on eBay). I don't have a big problem with giving them money (to help them survive), but I'd like it to fix some problems instead of just going to more "stuff" in their house (Disney tapes, collections, Pro sports collectibles, etc

2007-07-24 06:42:59 · 10 answers · asked by A concerned worker 1 in Family

I am an A cup girl, but pretty, nice and lovely.
I know he does think my breasts are small, because he always said I looked beautiful when I was nude, I had the most beautiful sex, etc. However, he nevered said I had beautiful breasts..and, he joked about the size of my breasts couple of times, like when we were on vacation, we saw a very fat girl swimming in the sea, he said "apparently she has no floating problem as you do, she got two bags there.."
Even I think he is more a "butt" guy, seems he is really into my butt, always makes thousands of kisses on it.
But I still wonder maybe he will be a breast man if my breasts are bigger.

I am very sure he loves me very much, but do small breasts bother him? does it matter?

Thanks for your opinion.

2007-07-24 06:41:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with a girl but i havent yet told her and not sure if i should. we both live in london but in september im off to cardiff uni for 3 years while shes gona be in london for at leats one more year to finish her a-levels. im not sure whether i should tell her that im in love with because it mean we wont be together for a long while

2007-07-24 06:40:04 · 9 answers · asked by The Greatest 1 in Singles & Dating

I need this in a scientific equation.

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

2007-07-24 06:39:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is Arab (christian) ans I am Mexican. We barely started our relationship but we are both very seriuos about it. We would like to end up in the altar.....I want your opinion plz

2007-07-24 06:37:49 · 41 answers · asked by AztecPrincess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are getting a divorce, my mom kind of surprised my dad with this but hes known it could happen for a few years, he was gone for a week wiring a house for his cousin all last week and my mom has been gone since he's been home and he found out today, my mom is moving to a small town about an hour away that my grandma and my aunt live, my dad wants to stay here, my mom wants me to live with her, and my dad wants me to live with him, and they said its my choice but most likeley they'd fight for custody, my brother is 11, he thinks its cool and wants to live with my mom, im 15 and i dont, i wouldnt want to go to the school in that new town i'd like to finish my last 3 years of school right where im at, i dont know who to go with? i dont wanna make either parent dissapointed either, im equally close with both of them, my dad makes more money and knows how to manage it better than my mom and i dont know how she could handle it. what should i do??

2007-07-24 06:35:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking because my friends girlfriend is mad at him because he admitted he watches pornography. They are not having sex or doing anything yet, so I told him it's alright for now, but apparently she's disgusted and wants him to stop.

My take is, guys have a sexual urge, and its alright to "quench" it in harmless ways like watching porno, especially if they're not having sex yet. It's not like he's cheating on her. But ladies I want to hear from you, why might this disturb or upset you?

2007-07-24 06:31:52 · 23 answers · asked by Randolph 3 in Singles & Dating

I am the dad with domicile custody of my 2 kids. They live with me. My ex-wife gets them every other weekend. She has 3 warrants out for her arrest. She is living out of a tent with her boyfriend in some ones backyard and sometimes a motel.

A policeman (a friend of mine) told me they could possibly take my kids away from me if they know I am letting the kids go with her. For the reasons above. Now the custody order says she gets the kids every other weekend.

Do I keep the kids with me and go against the order, or Do I let them go with her? Can they take my kids away from me if I let them go?

I am representing myself, I have already been awarded domicile custody. I cannot afford a lawyer. She has not been paying her child support payments, Legal aid will not help me. I know if she decides to call the police if I do not let her have the kids, she will be arrested because of the warrants.

Any help on what to do, Or what you would do in my situation?

Thanks for your help.

2007-07-24 06:30:00 · 35 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Family

2007-07-24 06:29:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 06:25:22 · 29 answers · asked by Jai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when someone you love is in love with someone else?

I really, really want to dislike this girl. I do. But she is so sweet, nice, perfect! And sadly I do like her! I can see what he see's in her! She is like me only better. More beautiful, more centered, more eccentric, intelligent, more artsy, just plain old amazing! Everything he really wants. She just seems like a better fit. Which I hate to say. She just seems so perfect for him.

I know she likes him as well. You can tell by her actions in everyday life towards him. She treats him completely different than anyone else. Her actions speak very loudly. He is 99% sure that she likes him back. He hasn't left me yet for her but I think he will. I really do!

How do I deal with this? Can I really? Should I sit here and wait for him to leave me and pursue her? Or should I get rid of him and move along?

2007-07-24 06:23:02 · 6 answers · asked by MelancHolly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife has a girlfriend and at first i wasn't fine with the whole thing but i thought i would loose her so i had a talk with the "girlfriend" and told her i cant handle my wife getting hurt so if that is not going to happen then i'm fine with the idea.
but now i'm wondering if it would work out or if it would break us up?
i love my wife dearly and don't want to lose her but i'm wondering who she'll choose when it comes down too that decision.

need serious advice...

2007-07-24 06:22:48 · 20 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf has been in and out of jail since we started dating in 2004 and we have 2 kids he hasen't made a effort to support us. Were still living with my parents.Everytime i start my schooling he always wants me to be there for him and I missed almost a year of school just cause he asked me to and if i don't he thinks im messing around or i dont love him So should i stay with him or should i move on and start a new life for my babies>>> ButI Love him very MUCH

2007-07-24 06:19:09 · 14 answers · asked by Mama Me 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf has been in and out of jail since we started dating in 2004 and we have 2 kids he hasen't made a effort to support us. Were still living with my parents.Everytime i start my schooling he always wants me to be there for him and I missed almost a year of school just cause he asked me to and if i don't he thinks im messing around or i dont love him So should i stay with him or should i move on and start a new life for my babies.................But. ... I Love him very MUCH

2007-07-24 06:16:29 · 25 answers · asked by Mama Me 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband left us for another woman. He eventually decided to see them and now has them half the time.

My 4 year old and 6 year old keep asking me, in this order?

Do you love Daddy?

Do you like Daddy?

Is Daddy your friend?

The true answer to all is no.


What would you say?

Thanks.

2007-07-24 06:15:32 · 35 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i can only write him once a month and i really wnat to say somehting perfect, any suggestions?

2007-07-24 06:13:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel lonely,all my friends are out having fun but i cant go out anywhere i have to take care of my lil brother,does anybody wanna be friends and can chat??Please!!!

2007-07-24 06:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I would never cheat on her or lie to her, but I broke our trust in another way. Some things happened and I doubted her and checked up on her by reading one of her e-mails between her and an ex. She immediately went from believing I was "the one" and we were gonna live "happily ever after" to "I betrayed her" ( by doubting her word ) and she does not know if she can ever trust me again. Please help, any honest ideas appreciated, just weeks ago we were both so sure that this was the best love ever and that we were meant to be. We are 40 and 42 so this is not puppy love or some other kind of not thought through relationship. Thanks in advance . . .

2007-07-24 06:12:56 · 8 answers · asked by Viking Brethren 2 in Singles & Dating

I just met the most amazing guy. From the first second I saw him, I had this weird (yet good) feeling inside. We talked for a while, then it hit me. Something told me that he was going to be in my life...we just starred at each other, and it was like everyone around me disappeared, and afterwards I immediately felt like I was on top of the world. Don't ask how I know, but somehow deep inside I know that one day he will be in my life. I have never fallen this hard for anyone, and it's really bad, since he is married. I would NEVER in a million years do anything to break up anyone's marriage, and I would NEVER act on anything. (I could never live with myself if I did that.) But, I know these feelings are bad...and I don't know what to do. We still talk, and hang out, and I don't want to lose him as a friend...but yet, I don't know what to do. I can't tell any of my friends about this, because they would just judge me and think badly of me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

2007-07-24 06:12:14 · 55 answers · asked by oceanstruck 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 and I take salsa dancing lessons, I will attend my first group lesson tomorrow. I am terrified of how the women there will react to me. I feel like the fact that I am even there will turn them off, even though I am a good salsa dancer with the little training I have had so far.

My confidence in myself is really low. I can't convince myself that girls want to meet guys anywhere but a bar or wild college party and only want guys who are thugs or drink alot. I just want to know if it is even possible for a girl to feel anything for me, given my salsa dancing skills?

2007-07-24 06:10:57 · 20 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well yesterday she wanted to kiss me but I didn' know how....see started to suck my bottom lip and a then bit it a little...kind of hurt....I wanted to bite her back only cuz it hurt....but then I told her to stop only cuz i didn' know what to do...What should I do when she kisses me like that again??? Bite her back?

2007-07-24 06:10:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he accidentally clicked on something and then other stuff just started poppin up. Hes 42 and fairly reasonable. I trust him but I know he is inquisitive and it sometimes causes problems. Our computer is new also. We've had it about 3 months now.

2007-07-24 06:09:40 · 30 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-24 06:09:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are looking for ways to save money on our wedding photos. They are absolutely outrageously priced everywhere we go. Does anyone have any creative ideas to save money on this? We are very nontraditional...so we would consider all kinds of reasonable options.

2007-07-24 06:08:13 · 22 answers · asked by BellyRubz 3 in Weddings

me and my boyfriend decided to be dating instead of bf/gf but i'm confused. he acts just like he did when were bf/gf????? please give me some opinions.

2007-07-24 06:06:56 · 22 answers · asked by jennifercrocker2004 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-24 06:05:58 · 35 answers · asked by Miley 1 in Friends